What do you think is the biggest difference between filial piety and Ma Bao Nan?

Most mom boys have a strong mom, mom always arranges everything for them, they are very dependent on mom, they grow up under their mother's control, they both love and hate mom, love because mom has done a lot for him, he can't get out of his mother's control, hate is to be controlled for too long, as they grow up, they also have their own ideas, but they can't not rely on mom, so they will project their rebellious emotions onto others. My mom controls me for my good, but my girlfriend or wife controls me and I feel uncomfortable. Because they grew up under the control of their mothers, most of them are not very assertive, but they are very sensitive to emotions and are very good at catering to others, so many times, Ma Bao Nan will often look very docile, warm-hearted, and honest.

In the mate selection of Ma Bao men, they are easily attracted to assertive women, and these traits are not available to him, and it is easy to attract assertive girls, especially stronger girls, after all, stronger girls are easy to lack emotional value, while Ma Bao men are easy to provide, and they have no sense of oppression on themselves, docile and gentle.

The real mom boy is manifested in the fact that when he or his wife has a conflict with his mother, he will sacrifice his own or his wife's interests to cater to his mother's ideas. A man can be filial, but he must take into account his wife's feelings. When the mother and the wife have a conflict, if the boy has been standing on the mother's side, once or twice, the wife will endure it, but after a long time, it will exacerbate the conflict.

A wise man will not take sides of one side, but will be witty and muddy, because both sides are important people, and the loss of anyone outweighs the loss. However, the mothers and boys are habitually obedient to their mothers, even if they get married and start a family, the big and small affairs of the family are all up to the mother, so that the wives have no status and decision-making power at home. If you ask a mom boy "who would you save first if your wife and mother fell into the river at the same time", his answer would be sure to disappoint his wife.

Ma Bao Nan is mostly indistinguishable from wrong and has no opinions. Ma Bao Nan is usually stupid and filial, and he does not distinguish between right and wrong, and his mother-in-law asked him to go east, but he would never dare to go west, and he had no opinions of his own at all. The kind of filial and responsible man is also very good to his parents, but he knows what he wants in his heart and is very assertive.

A filial son can support himself and take care of his parents by himself, while Ma Bao Nan, on the contrary, cannot take care of himself and asks others to take care of his parents for him.

Most of the mom boys can't carry things and have no sense of responsibility. Ma Bao Nan is usually protected by his mother so well that he is very afraid of things, has no manly appearance, and is indecisive in case of trouble. When a big man encounters something, he should be able to solve it easily, but he has to listen to his mother's opinion.

For example, when you encounter a major event such as your wife giving birth to a child, you have to listen to your mother instead of the doctor if you want to have a caesarean section. Ma Bao Nan puts his mother first in everything and values blood relatives above all else. But in fact, we have to divide things more than others.

Women still have to find a man who can carry things, not a mother's treasure, who can't carry things in marriage.

Filial piety is different, filial piety is not as extreme as a mother's treasure man, although filial boys are also easy to accommodate their mothers, but they have their own ideas, and they are similar to their mothers and their wives or girlfriends, and they will constantly reconcile the contradictions between the two sides, and will not take care of one or the other. A dutiful boy treats not only his mother but also his father equally (unless his father has hurt him or is too distant from him).

Ma Bao Nan often said "My mother said", listen to his mother in everything, and dare not be disobedient. Ma Baonan's mantra is "my mother said", listen to your mother in everything, even if your mother makes a mistake, she will not dare to be disobedient. Such a man will only let his daughter-in-law swallow the bitter water in her stomach, which is unreliable.

Filial piety will correct the mistakes of his parents, Mommy Bao Man is Mommy Baby has no ability to distinguish right from wrong, what Mommy says is wrong and right!

Ma Bao male refers to a group of men who have been dependent on their mothers for a long time and lack independence, and they are overly consumed by their mothers. And it focuses on the trivial things of life without independence, and most of it is a normal dependence caused by maternal doting.

The degree of foolishness and filial piety is heavier, focusing on personal thoughts, even if you can be independent in life, but things are completely obeyed by your parents, without your own ideas, like a puppet. In general, change is difficult, it is self-formed over a long period of time, and it is difficult to transform it with exercise.

It's the same, there is no difference between a Ma Bao man and a foolish and filial man. It's all centered around her mother. to the point where there is no distinction between morality, good and evil.

There is a big difference between Ma Bao Nan and filial piety.

Filial piety is good to his parents and repays his parents, but he has his own position and point of view when he encounters things, and he can be independent, and he will not be submissive and assertive.

And Ma Bao Man refers to a man who listens to his mother in everything, thinks that his mother is right in everything, and is centered on his mother in everything. It also refers to children who are spoiled by their mothers. But there is also a meaning, that is, the mother's baby son, from the mother's point of view, to express that the son will always be the treasure in the mother's heart.

Typical characteristics: 1. Listen to your parents very much. If your conversation is interspersed with countless "my mom" and "my mom said", then you should be careful and be ready to retreat at any time.

Second, when I am with my parents, I am completely coquettish like a child, especially in front of my mother.

Third, the requirements for women are high. I hope that they are gentle and virtuous, and they can go up to the hall and down to the kitchen, not only outside the main but also inside the main house, then he is not looking for a wife, maybe he is looking for a mother and a nanny.

Fourth, think that the career is not important. Such a man is either accustomed to enjoying the care of his parents and has no ambition, or he makes excuses for his inability.

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The real mom boy, his performance is that when he or his wife has a conflict with his mother, he will sacrifice his own and his wife's interests to cater to his mother's ideas.

The boy often beats his mother and cares about his mother's body, it may be that he has been close to his mother since he was a child, and he has a strong family affection for his mother, so often**, perhaps because he has a more delicate and considerate personality, and he will do the same to his wife.

They recognize their mother's words, and from the bottom of their hearts, they think that her words are reasonable, and then use it as a reference opinion, and this kind of care that does not involve a third party is filial piety.

The biggest difference is whether you have your own thoughts and your own concepts and positions.

Ma Bao Nan: Obey your parents in everything, never think for yourself, or still obey after thinking, and will not consider whether to change or not from your own point of view.

Filial piety: Be good to your parents, use your own way, listen to your parents' opinions, and also think about how to do it more reasonable.

Filial piety, filial piety to parents does not mean obedience to everything! Ma Bao Nan, my personal understanding is that he dotes on men, men who have no opinions in case of trouble!