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There is a good saying, "I would rather marry a filial son than marry a mother's boy", why do "mother's boys" make people avoid it, and what harm will they cause to their marriage?
Ma Baonan's obedience to his mother is far greater than filial piety. An adult should have his own values and views of right and wrong, and he cannot be said to be wrong or wrong, the times are progressing so fast, and there are some outdated concepts that do not adapt to the current social environment. A mature person should have his own judgment on things and not blindly follow the ideas of his elders.
In addition, many practices and concepts of older people are unscientific and undesirable. But Ma Bao Nan is not, they all obey their mother's arrangement, and take their mother's head as the leader.
Ma Bao Nan never thinks from his wife's point of view. Although Ma Bao Nan looks like a mature and normal man on the outside, their hearts are still like an unweaned child, attached to their mother. For Ma Bao Nan, only the mother is a person who can be relied on and trusted, while the wife is an outsider who should be treated with caution.
Because of their over-dependence on their mothers, it is difficult for them to grow up in their hearts, let alone take on the responsibilities that the role of "husband" needs to bear, which will eventually lead to a cold heart for their wives and a breakdown of the family.
When choosing a mate, don't be blinded by the glamour of appearance, be carried away by "love", the rest of your life is very short, women please love a man who knows how to spoil you and love you wholeheartedly.
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Personally, I don't think I'm going to be happy.
Because in Ma Baonan's heart, the mother is the first.
And no matter what conflict you have with his mother, then he will always be towards his mother.
After a long time, you must not be able to stand it Besides, most of the mother's boys don't have their own opinions.
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Yes, you should have seen a lot of mom bao men on the Internet, so I won't say more.
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A big enemy, who doesn't listen to his wife but only his mother. Where to leave the wife.
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Yes, the relationship between Ma Baonan's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is generally very bad.
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How to say it, it depends on whether the mother is selfish or not, maybe she will spoil you too.
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This kind of person does not have his own opinions, and I won't say much about what will happen in the future, you know it yourself.
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If you don't look for it, you can't look for it, if you're already looking for it, you can only accept your fate.
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Yes, you are looking for the wrong person, it is better for men to be independent and independent.
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You can't find someone like that, you don't have any independence at all, and if you find him, you'll regret it.
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Yes, in this kind of family, you basically have no status.
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Ma Bao Nan in marriage will continue to listen to his mother and daughter-in-law after marriage, he will not take responsibility for problems when he encounters them, he will not make up his own mind, he is only promised, Ma Bao Man generally gnaws at the old, like a child who does not grow up, psychologically immature, naïve, and everything at home is decided by his mother or father, and Ma Bao Man is very looked down upon and will be ridiculed. So when looking for a husband, keep your eyes open, and resolutely don't look for a mother's boy.
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The characteristics of the Ma Bao man in the marriage are alas, it is very simple, generally he has no opinions, he generally listens to his parents and listens to his mother in everything, and everything follows his mother, and his wife will not remember to help speak, generally this situation is called Ma Bao Man.
The characteristics of the Ma Bao man in the marriage are alas, it is very simple, generally he has no opinions, he generally listens to his parents and listens to his mother in everything, and everything follows his mother, and his wife will not remember to help speak, generally this situation is called Ma Bao Man.
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It shows that these people have been spoiled by their parents since they were young, and they don't think about the consequences at all when they do things, and only follow their own hearts.
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Ma Bao man and Ma Bao woman are a kind of people who do not have independent behavior in the real sense, either they are not independent in thought or not independent in behavior, many Ma Bao men are not independent in spirit and economy, and Ma Bao women are more of a kind of non-independent in thinking and action.
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That's true, the real situation is not a violent impact that can be described, it will be a big competition of four people in two generations, only unexpected, nothing can't be done, very disgusting.
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I feel that this is a very hot thing, if both parties have no opinions, then there will definitely be a lot of family conflicts, if there is a problem, and then the parents intervene, so it is easier to intensify the conflict.
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Yes, because such husbands are in their eyes, their mothers stand first, and their wives are only secondary, and they are never important.
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Yes, marrying a Ma Bao man will make you suffer ruthless and endless hurt, and make you more and more disappointed in your marriage, which is the greatest sorrow of marriage.
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It is indeed the biggest tragedy of marriage, because he listens to his mother for everything, and such a husband will be very sad.
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The sorrow of the biggest socks is not what kind of person to marry, but to choose a way of life, but not the ability to cope with this life, so most of the time buried in the old age is in regret.
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No, it is also very good for his wife to have a hand of silver "mom with potatoes and treasure man", the saddest thing is the domestic violence man, who beats and scolds his wife in every way, quarrels and beats people at every turn, this is the saddest!
The so-called "mom bao man" is a man who listens to his mother in everything, wants his mother to make up his mind on any problem, and relies on his mother in life, has no opinions, and has no ability to take care of himself. Ma Bao Nan is actually a manifestation of immaturity, at least in terms of emotional immaturity. If a girl meets a mother, it is recommended not to be with them. >>>More
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