What are the weaknesses of a person s character in general

Yesterday in a chat with a friend, I mentioned the problem of human character weakness. Recently, for a long time, I have been reflecting on myself and observing others. Looking at it from another angle, I used to just talk about how she behaved, but now I want to find out what caused her to behave like this.

Because of this, I thought of "Psychology and Behavior" in psychology, and as a result, I found a few books on such topics in the library with great interest, hoping that I would be able to read and study these reference books that can be called useful in the world. Yes, psychology is indeed a tool, and there is still debate, with one side of the argument that psychology is qualitative; On the other hand, psychology should be quantitative. I can't discuss such a specialized topic here, but I just want to say that psychology is really a medium that can help people understand people better, better understand others.

When it comes to character flaws, I think I also have these problems, in fact, the flaws can also be said to be a person who does not want to face, or cannot face them, or face them and cannot solve them, or they are trying to decide, but they cannot be solved completely and perfectly. Everyone will have their own expertise, and similarly, they will have their own weaknesses, which can be called both strengths and weaknesses. How to avoid comparing your own disadvantages with the strengths of others is a topic that you have studied in depth.

Of course, before that, you must have an objective and comprehensive understanding of yourself. This kind of understanding is often more difficult, it is easy to evaluate others, but it is really a bit difficult to evaluate yourself. Maybe my level is limited, at least that's how I am when I comment on myself, and it's more difficult than commenting on others.

I remember that when I was in the graduation defense, the head teacher was very generous and trusting, and said, child, give you a chance, you can write your own comments, but I held back for a long time, just wrote a few clichés... I have no place to be ashamed. I only lament that my self-understanding is not enough, and my realm is not up to standard.

There may be some similarities in terms of defects. For example, stubbornness, stubbornness, rigidity, focusing on one thing, ignoring anything else, not being clever, not being flexible, rebellious.

Everyone's weaknesses are different.

Everyone has their own personality, and different personalities will create different lives. Personality is divided into multiple levels, and everyone will have weaknesses in their character, after all, no one is perfect. Some people like to cover up, and some people fall with one blow, so do you know what your character weaknesses are?

Test begins: You have saved a sum of money and don't want your family to find out, where will you hide in your home?

A: Near the TV.

B: Near under the bed.

C: In a book or bookcase.

D: Behind the mirror.

Test Result: B: Your personality weakness is lack of self-confidence. Do you often doubt your decisions about work or daily life? Do you have a good career plan but can't implement it for a long time? Because lack of self-confidence is the crux of your problem.

C: Your personality weakness is hesitation. When you encounter something, do you think about it a thousand times in your heart, but you still can't make up your mind to take action? You need to increase your mobility, do it immediately if you have an idea, don't think too much, and believe that you will definitely perform better!

D: Your personality weakness is that you care about your external image. Everyone has his unique temperament, even if he looks ordinary, as long as he is confident, he can exude a charming temperament.

You don't have to think that you are inconspicuous and even think about plastic surgery and other ways to make yourself beautiful.

Whether in the workplace or in life, there will be pressure, so learn to relax yourself emotionally. The daily test hopes to cause a collision of hearts and minds with you.

Pro, people with a narcissistic personality, they have the characteristics of high self-esteem, they will infinitely magnify their strengths, and they will not even see their shortcomings.

People with narcissistic personalities are characterized by arrogance, self-aggrandizement, and feel good about themselves. But there is a lack of responsibility.

In terms of interpersonal communication, they communicate with others, lack emotional communication, and like to take advantage of each other.

In the face of setbacks and criticism, it shows the illusion that it doesn't care, but in fact, it cares a lot about the praise and attention of others. ❤

Everyone has disadvantages and advantages. It's all relative, there are no absolutes!

In a certain field or in some person, there are people who have more advantages than disadvantages. This is not necessarily the case with others! Vice versa. A good thing is a good in one person, and it can be a disadvantage in another person, and there is no absolute.

Look at the strengths and weaknesses of a person to determine the time of the determined conditions in the determined place, otherwise it is uncertain!

Back to the question. It's also unrealistic to think of your own shortcomings. How do you know for yourself what your shortcomings are? It is not and practical! Findings aren't necessarily accurate, either. You have to be able to follow it!

Let go of your baggage and see your strengths!! Learn from your strengths and make up for your weaknesses, and you will see more advantages.

If a person can only see his own shortcomings but cannot see his own strengths, then he will become inferior, unconfident, and doubt his ability no matter what he encounters, thinking that he is not good and cannot do well.

And this habit is generally caused by parents who belittle their children's abilities too much when they are young. As soon as the child does something, he quickly steps forward to help or stop it, and accuses him of doing this badly and that badly. When a child makes a mistake, he loses his temper, and so on, these behaviors will hurt the child's self-esteem and self-confidence, and over time, the child will develop this habit that will affect his life.

Therefore, as parents, we should pay attention to the way we treat our children from an early age, so as not to delay them.

If a person only looks at their own shortcomings, this is not right, it is easy to get depression, in fact, everyone has shortcomings, it is a good thing to be able to find their own shortcomings, then you have to find a way to change your shortcomings, you can't find your own shortcomings and not change them, it will always be your biggest shortcomings, and it is also the biggest danger.

There is no perfect person in the world, no one is perfect, the so-called perfect person is to know how to give full play to his strengths, to cover up his shortcomings, don't always stare at your shortcomings, go out for a walk, you will find that you have a lot of others envy.

Pay more attention in your daily life, see if you mention that topic, she reacts more violently, if you want to take advantage of it, you have to be capable, the general family is a weakness, and there may be some unknown things, it will be oh.

After spending some time together, you can understand it according to his hobbies and personality. Or inquire from his friends and relatives.

The more dazzling a person is, the more he lacks it.

The last thing I want to face is that