Why do so many people want a second child?

After the country opened up the two-child policy, more and more people wanted a second child. Many of my classmates have two babies, and only one is in preparation. Why do so many people want a second child? Each has its own reasons, but there are three main categories. <>

Clause. 1. I'm afraid that the boss will be too lonely, so I have another one to play with him (her). There was once a second baby who asked his mother, why did he give birth to him again when he already had a sister, his mother:

I gave birth to you to play with your sister's ......"Hahahaha, how do you feel that the second baby is sent with phone bills, of course this is a joke, but there are indeed many people who think like this, the two babies can be companions. <>

Clause. Second, I want both children and daughters. Many people have sons and want daughters, daughters want sons, my cousin has a son, my aunt and they all want to have another granddaughter, and the second child is also a son.

Many celebrities are like this, such as Lin Zhiying, he wanted his daughter very much, and later gave birth to a son for the second child, who was still twins. Xiao S, on the contrary, wanted a son, and as a result, he had three daughters. It's good to have children and daughters, but there will be many identities in the future, both mother-in-law (father-in-law) and mother-in-law (father-in-law), hahahaha.

Clause. 3. Fear of a heavy burden on an only child. Many people are only children, some husbands and wives are, they will jointly support both parents, good economic conditions are nothing, poor conditions may be burdened, and then they will try their best to consider their children, so they choose to have a second child.

In some more developed countries, there will be incentives for encouraging their citizens to have children. This is due to the lack of population, and of course, there are parents who like children and are willing to have one more child. In China, there seem to be more reasons.

One is because there is only one child from childhood to adulthood, and I didn't say that it was bad, but it was relatively lonely occasionally. And when the parents are old, the pressure is also greater. The child has no siblings and loneliness is indeed a reason.

Besides, after all, now that the policy is open, it is very warm and lively to have an extra baby, and to have a family of four. Chinese also pay attention to pairs, two children just happen to be a pair, there is also a saying that a son and a daughter, you can also make up a "good" word, the meaning is also good.

Having a second child is a happy thing, but the premise must be that both parents can be responsible for the child, not just give birth to it. In fact, whether it is one or two, the education of children is the key. It is undeniable that it is definitely more difficult to have more than just one, but since the decision has been made, they should still be responsible.

The happiness of a family is not directly related to the number of people. Children are blank slates, and what kind of family will cultivate what kind of character, so whether to have a second child or not to have a second child, you should carefully consider before making a decision.

Some people are patriarchal and not like that, many people around me are like this, they have given birth to several girls in front of them but still want a boy, so they will give birth to several, and some are forced by their mother-in-law to give birth, and some people may want a second child in order to be a companion for the first child.

The second child may be good for the parents, I have an experience of this eldest child, I have a sister who is really annoying....

I am a post-90s generation, and I don't dare to have a second child easily.

I was confused for a while, what do ordinary people want a second child?

1.Relieves stress from having a baby. The only child will have a lot of pressure to bear the burden in the future, and a child will always grow up a little lonely, and the two children will accompany each other and help each other when they grow up. Parents can worry a little less.

2.It may be due to the pressure between the paternal and the mother. If the first child is a girl or a boy. Both parents may want the couple to have another child, a son and a daughter, and both children will have a second child due to the pressure of their elders.

3.Perhaps the arrival of a second child will ease the emotional crisis on both sides. When a wife is pregnant, the husband should be especially concerned about the pregnant wife. Maybe in the process, the feelings of both parties will change.

I hope to have two children, but I don't have the energy to have a second child when I'm older.

The advantage of having two children is that parents with two children are more lively.

Every time the New Year, the old couple upstairs is always very lively, because the old couple and the children will always come back for the New Year, and also bring their own children to the old couple, it can be said that the family is very lively.

When parents reach old age, they naturally like to have children and grandchildren full of joy on their knees, and this kind of scene is a scene that many elderly people look forward to.

Compared with the upstairs neighbor, the downstairs neighbor's house is a little deserted, after all, the old couple downstairs has only one child, and more importantly, it is still a daughter, and the daughter went to her in-law's house with her husband for the New Year.

Although the daughter and son-in-law follow the "one family a year", that is, the in-law's family for one year and the mother's family for one year, but every time the daughter and son-in-law go to the in-law's house, the old couple downstairs seems very lonely, the depression and loneliness can be felt from the demeanor of the old couple, and the disappointment and loneliness are really obvious.

Benefit 2: Parents with two children are happier.

During the Chinese New Year, the upstairs neighbors are often smiling, after all, people are old and have a lot of desires and pursuits, but only the concern for their children and grandchildren is heavier.

The two children have already started a family, and the children of the grandchildren are also very healthy and cute, so the old couple naturally feels extremely happy.

Compared with the neighbors upstairs, the old couple downstairs were very happy when they saw their daughter come to pay New Year's greetings, but people could see that that happiness was also mixed with worry, worried that their daughter would leave after the New Year's greetings. At the same time, you can also see a trace of envy for the upstairs neighbor, after all, when people are old, nothing matters, only children and grandchildren are concerned.

Benefit 3: Parents with two children have more peace of mind.

Parents with two children will feel more at ease. For example, the upstairs neighbor looked very cheerful during the New Year, without any sorrow, in fact, it was related to the two children.

Because the second elder who has two children doesn't need to worry about anything at all, the two children can arrange the life of the second elder comfortably, the eldest can't think of things, the second child arranges, and the second child can't think of things, the eldest makes up for it.

In short, the two elders upstairs have almost always been in a comfortable state during the New Year, and there is nothing worth worrying about, and the children are very thoughtful.

Although many parents nowadays often choose to have a second child, because they feel that if the child they give birth to is an only child, they will feel lonely in life because they have no siblings.

But I personally don't agree with this view of these parents. First of all, starting from our generation of post-80s, the vast majority of us are only children, and in our growth process, although we have no brothers and sisters, we are alone.

But we never feel lonely, after all, in our daily life and study, we have many classmates and friends who can accompany us to grow together.

Therefore, I personally think that the argument of these parents that only children without siblings will feel lonely in their lives is simply untenable. And for many parents, they really choose to have another child, not because they are afraid of their own children, they are only children, and they feel lonely in life.

In fact, I personally think that this is just one of the factors they consider, the most important thing is perhaps that many parents think that one more child is more reliable than a one-child family, in terms of pension, after all, if the hope of the future pension is pinned on their own child, then the pressure on the child will be great, if you want more children to be able to share the pressure very well, but I personally think that in fact, this aspect is not directly related to whether it is an only child, The most important thing is that it depends on the education and guidance of parents for their children.