A 25 year old man s emotional and career confusion 10

Let me tell you a story, the real story, the boy and the girl are classmates, they go to school in a secondary school health school, and they are at the same table, they have established a relationship since the first grade, three years of secondary school, and one year of internship The relationship is very stable, although the boy is not a perfect person, but, the girl is the only person he loves. After graduation, what should be faced is marriage, the year after graduation, the boy went to the girl's home, but, obviously, I felt the strong resistance of the girl's family, the girl's family is quite rich, and the words revealed that the family wants to arrange a job for the girl, what about you? Don't affect our daughter's well-being.

Boys are feeling more pressure than ever to prove that they can make girls happy. The boy resolutely decided to achieve his own career and really let the girl live a happy life by his side, the boy went to Beijing and became a health care product salesman, the boy is introverted by nature, and has suffered in this kind of work that you may not imagine, but, the boy survived, only for one belief: for the sake of his beloved girl.

Half a year has passed, the boy's life is very difficult, but, the boy has outstanding performance, and at the same time found a way to survive for himself and saved some money (130,000), but, the boy made a fatal mistake: he rarely contacted the girl for half a year. When the boy came to the girl with excitement and urgency, the girl ran away and learned through her classmates:

The girl is engaged! The boy was completely devastated, he never believed that the girl he loved dearly would do this, but this is the reality. The boy didn't hate the girl, the only thing he did was to bless the girl and let himself get drunk for a few days.

This boy is our boss, and he tells us so far: if you really give your feelings, you must always grasp it and never give up, even for a minute.

On the other hand: you should not really pay your feelings now, and your career is the most important!

Career is far more reliable than love, and you should understand that. Don't love someone because of loneliness, you must know how to enjoy loneliness, the reasons for loneliness are different, but they are the same sky. If you're sure you like her, don't give up, chase after her, or you'll regret yourself, but it's most comfortable to eat seven points full.

You have to remember that your career is far more than... In addition, it is more important to remind the body.

Some people miss it and they won't be there, but career is important. Try both. No matter what the outcome is, as long as you know that you don't care about eternity, you only care about what you once had, and don't have regrets when you live.

But don't be too infatuated, sometimes love hurts deeply, at least I've experienced it. The deepest love is reserved for his wife

Emotional matters should be emotional, and don't restrain your emotions by too much reason.

Everything follows ...

Don't be stupid! Wait until the daylily is cold! Women are used to chase, and you won't have regrets if you get it as soon as possible!

What are you waiting for, waiting until the old pearl yellow of the human family, waiting for you to be unable to lift it?