and a man who is 16 years older than himself, how to choose to face his parents 15

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think your parents will agree. Although you have been together for two years, you are actually very young, not yet an adult, and even less of legal age for marriage.

    I think it's best that you don't mention it to your parents right now. It's never too late to talk to your parents when you reach the legal age of marriage (20). At that time, you may have experienced the hardships of life, knew the true meaning of life, and your mind was mature, and you would make wise decisions.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as you are sure that his unconditional honesty and all that he has given to you will carry enough weight in your heart, and you will feel that you will never leave him in this life. So what is there to fear in the face of parents? True love is not about fear, it's about your own courageous determination to face your life.

    Are you brave enough to love him? If it's enough, don't regret it. If you can't do it yet, let it go.

    If you can't give up, why worry about the outcome that your parents don't want you to choose? I think your boyfriend is already married, and he is stable enough, so he should have his own experience and methods for your parents to accept and reassure them, and you can negotiate with each other to get your parents' consent.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Dear, this question feels really tangled, and you may feel that no matter which side you choose, you will hurt the other side. If you take this problem as a dilemma, it will never be solved, if you want to solve it, please look down Let's put it this way, if it is me, if it is true love, I will not hesitate to choose, to choose. As for the parents, I believe that your parents will always love you, and your parents will slowly accept it over time.

    But only if you have true love (you have to have a clear understanding of yourself) and then use your and his efforts to move your parents. The above content represents a personal opinion only and is for reference only. At the same time, I hope you are happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Two people really love each other, I think age is not a problem, as long as you feel happy, it's OK, if he really loves you, then you two have to work together to convince your parents and take action with a sincere heart to impress them, so that they can feel your happiness, I think it will be accepted slowly, I believe that all parents in the world want their children to live a good and happy life. I can also give you a suggestion: Tianjin Satellite TV's "Love Defense" can go there, this is a large-scale emotional column, guiding many men and women who are confused in love in the right direction, and there will be famous love experts and celebrity guests in the country to guide you If you really "love", don't give up!

    Wishing you happiness!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Actually, if you really love him, age is not an issue, ......But you also have to take into account your parents' feelings and try to convince them to ......Let the elderly rest assured ......After all, it's really not easy to find a suitable person in this world......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it's good love, don't give up, don't blindly give up the feelings you really want for the sake of your parents' wishes.

    Don't wait until you're old to think about the person you've lost in your life.

    I still couldn't help but burst into tears.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you marry him, you will regret it later.

    If you don't marry him, you'll regret it too.

    The key is to choose for yourself.

    Why did his ex-wife roll up the money to buy a house for herself? What is the reason for this?

    After getting to know each other well, if you have an acquaintance, ask someone in the court what the reason for the divorce was.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you're with him, one day he'll probably leave you first, after all, he's 16 years older than you. What should you do then? Think about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If only my girlfriend were like you. Hehe, I'm only twelve years older than her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Dizzy!!! Dizzy!!! Dizzy!!!

    Do you believe in love or something else?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It shouldn't be this way! You're now in the main learning department to think about the other @@!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello, this question is estimated to be difficult for parents to accept, but slowly let parents see that he is good to you, parents are able to accept it, after all, every girl's parents hope that girls can live well.

    My boyfriend is 16 years older than me, how can I get my family to accept it?

    Hello, this question is estimated to be difficult for parents to accept, but let envy slowly let parents see that he is good to you, and parents can accept it, after all, every girl's parents hope that girls can live well.

    I'm afraid they won't agree.

    But after all, I have to let my parents know.

    How do I tell them?

    Just tell your parents directly, find a boyfriend, maybe a little older, but it's good for you, let your parents not get excited, observe a period and then take a look.

    It is not recommended to mention the matter of getting married and burying Li so early, it is best to be in a year and a half, you can see how this person does things, if a year and a half later, the parents still do not agree, it is recommended to consider carefully.

    I am second married, he is also second married, I have a daughter, he has a son.

    In that case, the parents' acceptance should be higher.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Hello, it depends on the other party's family conditions, economic conditions, if you have money, it should be acceptable.

    My boyfriend is 16 years older than me, how can I get my family to accept it?

    Hello, it depends on the other party's family conditions, economic conditions, if you have money, it should be acceptable.

    If there is no money, the family will definitely not be able to accept it, this is human nature.

    There is not much left of the house he bought this year.

    How old are you?

    I'm twenty-six, he's forty-two.

    If the other party's career is very ordinary and he has no money, the family will not agree.

    Home must be for your good.

    He drove a mixed car.

    The most important thing depends on yourself, as long as you think about it clearly, you don't regret it in the future, the family doesn't agree, you can't change it, the attitude of the family must be, the man is so big, he must have some money, and he will be good to you and your family.

    He's nice to me too.

    Be generous to your family and give gifts often, and your attitude may change.

    Well. Well, that's it for now, if it's okay, please give me a thumbs up, thank you.

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It's a bit unrealistic, but you know the specific situation best, we bystanders can only give you some sincere advice, I personally suggest that it's best not to, the age difference is too much, there should be a lot of estrangement and generation gap, in addition to his children, the stepmother is very hard, and now it's so difficult to raise a child, not to mention so much, I'm afraid that you will bear too much pressure at that time. Let's discuss it with your parents, but I think they won't either, after all, who would let their own daughter suffer from this.

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If you love each other enough, you don't care how old they are, let alone 7 years old, I don't think it's a problem at all.