What it s like to miss someone to the extreme

If you miss a person to the extreme, you will become lovesick, and you will be sick with medicine, commonly known as lovesickness.

Since it is a disease, the symptoms are different, the initial symptom is a kind of love for the first time, don't dare to express it too much, you think about each other here, miss each other, but you can't see each other, your mind is all about each other. There are clouds in ancient poems, every day I think of you and don't see you, drink the water of the Yangtze River, I don't want to see the head and tail of the Yangtze River, I want to see it the most, I may drink the same water, you can also talk about the meaning of lovesickness, it's just a little melancholy, it's just a trance.

The symptom after that is that with the deepening of the relationship, the two of them have complained to each other before the moon, when the love is set for three lives, the emotions are already uncontrollable, when they are not together, they don't think about tea and dinner, they can't sleep at night, they will sweetly crit the soul when they think about each other, from morning to night, as the poem says, Xiao looks at the sky and looks at the clouds at dusk, and he also thinks about sitting and thinking about him. It's like not seeing it for a day, but it's also sweet.

The most serious symptom is when the longing is extreme, that is, the time when love is not possible, it is the lovesickness, there is no cure, the feeling of heartache and heartbreak strikes together, love and hate, it is really unforgettable. Thinking about it, hating it, hating it until it returns, this is the feeling of longing described in Bai Juyi's poems. If you can come back, the pain will be worth it.

The most afraid of leaving the person can not be called, you have the intention, the other party has been ruthless, this is the bone lovesickness, is a kind of poison in the other party, but there is no antidote, the pain of bone erosion, not everyone can bear it, Sijun is like a full moon, night and night reduce the clear light, the whole person is not good, day and night upside down, heartache, heartbreak can hear the sound of fragments falling to the ground, people are thinner than yellow flowers, wash their faces with tears every day, borrow wine to eliminate sorrow, but wine into the bowels, can only turn into lovesick tears, and it is useless, just like when there is poverty at the end of the world, There is only endless lovesickness, the most affectionate and long-lasting, and there is nowhere to put it.

However, there is love in the world, there is no grass at the end of the world, after the pain, reload, you will still meet your destined lover, and you will start a new chapter in your life.

Probably. The lover complains about the night, but he is lovesick at night".

There is no way to eliminate this situation, so I frowned, but I was in my heart."

Every day, I don't see you, and I drink the water of the Yangtze River".

I don't see it for a day, and I think like crazy".

The cheap concubine guards the empty room, and the worries come to Sijun and dare not forget, and she doesn't feel tears staining her clothes."

Lan has a beautiful chrysanthemum, and Huai Jia can not forget".

These feelings expressed in many poems written about lovesickness since ancient times.

But the pain of lovesickness is only true if you feel it deeply, and what we can do is nothing more than to make this lovesickness into a meeting as soon as possible, because at the moment of meeting, you will feel that everything you do is worth it.

Thinking about a person to the extreme is thinking about each other every day, because I miss each other, I don't eat well, and I don't feel at ease when I sleep. Think about each other all the time. Because I miss each other, I get lovesick. This is called missing to the extreme.

I think this is indeed a negative state, many people will only have such a feeling, when the person they love the most is not by their side, and the time between two people is also very long, so they will be lovesick to a person to the extreme, and if you really want a person, then you will feel the back of all the people around you as if it is him, and the air may also understand the smell of him.

If you miss a person to the extreme, you will hallucinate, and you feel that all you see is her. I thought I could teleport.

That is to say, I can't do anything, and I want to see each other wholeheartedly, and then I want to eat them.

Tea does not think about food, the feeling of being haunted by dreams is the so-called lovesickness, don't trap yourself in it and can't get out, just find some other pleasures to turn around.

It's all you, it's you when you open your eyes and you when you close your eyes, and the first thing that comes to mind when you're happy and wronged is you.

Love each other, and the two eventually become married.

can't love each other, and one dies without illness.

The heart is empty, every day in a trance, all I think about is that he has no energy at work, whether it is watching TV or listening to a song, I will think of loving him so much.

The dampness can't be put down, well, in a trance, depressed, and can't do anything? There is always the name of this person in the heart and in the brain.

I just want to be by his side, and I don't want to leave him all the time.

Do you know what it's like to miss someone to the extreme?

Freshen up, lean on the river tower alone, and pass all the sails. Thinking of a person, you look up, the clouds in the sky are him, the trees in the distance are him, and the reflection in the water is him. He was everywhere he looked, and she was in his mind.

I got it. Dreaming of it ...

Is it the ultimate to cry out without missing it?

That feeling, sometimes it's sweet, so sweet that you want to laugh out loud, but sometimes it's sour, so sour that you cry...

I don't think about tea, I don't want to eat, and I can't sleep at night.

Just like the song sung by Eason Chan, insomnia alone, insomnia all over the world, innocent street lamps, waiting for tomorrow, happy insomnia, just because you are afraid to close your eyes, how do you think of six o'clock. In fact, it is love but not.

After a period of separation, I learned to restructure the way my brain processes information, reducing the negative impact of my thoughts on my normal life and learning. Most of my mind was thinking about everything related to her, to most of it was my own arbitrary scheduling, and a small part was isolated from the original, still thinking about her in a loop all the time, but it didn't affect the operation of the other half.

While listening to **, while learning and communicating with people, I recalled the moon that night, recalling the touch of her lips, the sweat of her palms, the tone of every word she said, the smell of her hair, every time she was angry, every time she was happy. What she had constructed before was still in my heart, and I probably knew what she would be doing with whom at certain times. When I was extremely lonely, I could imagine an illusory her by my side through my understanding of her.

I regained the ability to live, study, and work normally. All other joys are also lost. There's nothing more pleasurable and painful than dwelling in memories over and over again.

The world of food, travel, culture, art, and creation is still beautiful, but it is not indispensable. Other girls are cute, too, but it doesn't matter if they have it or not, I don't care. I knew I was fit for this life, and I knew I didn't want the happiness of others.

What does it feel like to miss someone to the extreme? It's just that everything you do is for her, you can see the whole world through her, but you don't even have the courage to say hello to her. If you miss an inferiority complex, it is the extreme.

Some people say that when you miss someone, contact her, so that your miss is meaningful.

If it is a couple, missing each other is a normal emotion in love, if a person is unrequited in love with another person, the thoughts are inevitably sad, want to contact each other, but there is no reason to speak, can not contact each other, can only let the thoughts spread in the heart but suppress their hearts, empty and sad.

Missing someone you can't love is like appreciating a cruel beauty. A person's shadow always unconsciously intrudes into your mind, and you can't do anything, in the relationship, what I'm most afraid of is that I can't control my heart, obviously I have been persuading myself not to like a person easily, don't miss a person unconsciously, but in the relationship, what you can't control is precisely your own heart.

Missing someone to the extreme will probably be a sense of powerlessness. Maybe it's just that I feel like she's looking for you in my dreams, and I struggle to wake up from my dream in a hazy consciousness at night and immediately look at my phone, only to find that there is nothing when I feel helpless and empty pain. This is probably because the longing is deep in the bone marrow, and even the dream is not let go.

Zhang Xiaoxian has such a passage in "Missing the Past": "I didn't deliberately think about you, because I know that when I meet you, I should be grateful, and I need to let go when I pass by." I just think of you in many, many small moments.

For example, a movie, a song, a lyric, a road, and countless moments when you close your eyes. ”

This is a calm and deep ultimate longing. It's very gentle, very far, like a trickle of water, silent. You still keep the old habits and never forget.

You start to do things unconsciously, and you are no longer the same as before, more or less changed. Wake up in the middle of the night inexplicably or have trouble falling asleep due to longing.

I think the people who can make you miss to the extreme may also be the people you can't think about. Those who miss it to the extreme and experience this feeling do not know whether it is a blessing or a misfortune.

It's very uncomfortable.

Some people say it's heart-rending crying, and some people say it's hateful to the core, but I don't think it's either. I think the feeling of really missing to the extreme is to escape, to be calm, to be unchanging but my heart is already turbulent, and I won't admit that I miss you very much.

Ordinary missing, maybe you can find, chase, redeem, wait, but the real extreme miss is so unwilling, regretting day and night, but knowing that there is no chance. I think there are people who have really lost it completely to understand this feeling.

I think it must not be superficial, it must not be able to be easily seen by you, and it cannot be dissolved in a short time. When you miss someone to the extreme, this kind of longing may become a habit in your life, just like you need to eat and drink water and breathe air every day, and it will appear inadvertently at certain moments.

Maybe at first, you will feel sad, as if your heart is pinched so much, but for a long time, you are also sour, but you can quickly put it in the bottom of your heart and then continue. In fact, it's a sign of our maturity. It is only through the phoenix of Nirvana that we can truly be reborn, experience lost life, and be truly whole.

Sanmao said: "It was so sudden that we didn't have time to say goodbye. That's fine, we'll never say goodbye. ”

In the face of parting, silence is the saddest cry of an adult. Saying goodbye to those who are important in life must be a painful and long process. However, there is too much helplessness in this world, too much disappointment.

In the face of deep bone marrow thoughts, what we need to do is to do nothing, not to deliberately forget, not to force ourselves to compromise, time is the best medicine for everything, long or short, it will be good after all.

A celebrity once said: "Meeting is a beginning, leaving is to meet the next departure, this is a world of popular departure, but we are not good at saying goodbye." "So, whether you want to or not, please learn to let go, bury your thoughts in the bottom of your heart, and let him go and let yourself go.

People who love you don't want to see you sad, and people who don't love you don't care about your feelings.

Cherish the people around you. Cherish every moment. When you can hug, don't clasp your hands tightly. When you can hold hands, don't walk side by side. I wish you happiness.

If you miss someone to the extreme, in fact, sometimes it is very painful, you can't wait to stick to him every day, or desperately go to him, want to see him, want him to be by your side A woman, if you are dating your boyfriend, you betray him and follow another man; And if you give your body to another man, then this kind of behavior of yours is impossible for ordinary men to accept; Because the emotional foundation of your intentions is not strong, men and women in love cannot tolerate a grain of sand in their eyes; If you do such a thing, then between you, it will definitely end in a breakup; The more he loves you, the more he won't forgive you; So in this case, if you want to win back his heart, it is even more difficult than ascending to the sky.

A woman, if you love your boyfriend deeply and want to have a good future with him, then you better not do such a thing, because once you do it wrong, you will be doomed; In the hearts of men in love, love is innocent and pure; You can pedal three boats, you can have people compete with each other, but you can't give your body to another man; This means that you are already in love with that man, so who would want you? As a woman, do it and cherish it!

I've been dating your boyfriend for a long time, and you love him very much, but because you did too much and did something to hurt him, he left you; At this time, if you want to redeem him; It depends on what kind of situation you hurt him, if it is a contact in ordinary life that hurts him, you can completely save his heart; If you betray him and give your body to another man, then there is no need to redeem it, because it is impossible for him to turn back and follow you.