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Be a person: five manifestations of a person's extremely high emotional intelligence.

1. Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and are unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very negative impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

5. Learn from each other's strengths: learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. When communicating with friends, treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised, and what you hear will be learned.

6. Be concise and concise: conciseness can make people happy, make people like, and make people easy to accept. Verbosity and cumbersomeness will confuse and annoy you, and you will miss your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you do more with less.

7. Never be arrogant: often talk about your strengths and show off your advantages in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

8. Never complain: Complaining will make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things work out.

Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasize objective reasons, complaining about this, complaining about that, will only make others despise you.

9. Don't lie and lose trust: Lying to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, so that friends and colleagues will never believe in you again, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

10. Be far-sighted: When wealth is prosperous, you should think of poverty, which is easy to do. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.

1. Know how to ask questions.

When talking to someone, first learn to listen, then ask questions at the right time, and the other person will feel good about you because he thinks you are listening and thinking carefully. Many people think that constantly nodding their heads when communicating with people is a positive response, but in fact, the way of asking questions can show the attitude of "I want to know more", so they will be respected and loved by the other person.

2. Put down your phone.

Playing with mobile phones is ubiquitous in people's lives, meeting, eating, meeting, walking, riding in the car, ....... Therefore, mobile phones have become the biggest obstacle to direct communication between people. If you talk to someone and they ignore you and play on their phone, will you feel ignored or even offended?

If you cherish every opportunity to communicate face-to-face and put your phone in your pocket when talking to people, you may find that real conversations are actually more interesting, and others will like you because they feel that you value.

3. Be honest and trustworthy.

Equality and reciprocity are the most basic principles of interpersonal communication. The premise of reciprocity is trust. People like honest and trustworthy people.

And this kind of person often knows what kind of person he is, what he likes and what he doesn't like, and is honest with himself. As a result, he will express his feelings and opinions reasonably, and people will perceive his attitude as sincere and prefer to approach him.

4. Don't criticize randomly.

Narrow-minded people, when they encounter people who are not used to seeing and things that do not go their way, will criticize without thinking, and he thinks that only his own understanding is right.

People love to point fingers at others, but who can tell the difference between right and wrong? At work, if we keep an open mind, try to see the world through the eyes of others, and don't be stubborn, we will definitely become popular people.

5. Be passionate.

Do you like to be with someone who walks around and doesn't say a word, or do you like to be with someone who is cheerful and introduces you to all kinds of interesting things?

People who are passionate about life are very contagious, their hearty laughter, free and easy movements, and positive language do not affect the people around them and make them happy.

6. Call out your name.

When people with high emotional intelligence see you, they start to call your name and greet you from afar. Originally, when others remember their names, they are very happy, and if they take the initiative to say hello, we will feel the attention and respect of others, and we will be very satisfied.

7. Distinguish between public and private.

When you have a personal relationship with a colleague, you are enthusiastic and free-spirited, and if you go back to work, it will make your colleague feel that this person is not working well.

People with high emotional intelligence are conscientious and diligent when they go to work, treat their work and colleagues with a professional and rigorous attitude, and mingle with their colleagues after work. The separation of work and private life, and the clear distinction between public and private, is therefore very popular with colleagues.

It's an old saying that has been passed down from generation to generation, but it's not something that everyone knows how to do. The ancient Greek philosopher Socrates once said that the most fundamental purpose of all kinds of learning is to solve the problem of "how people live". How to deal with the relationship between being a person and doing things is the fundamental issue for a person to succeed in life.

1.I want others to praise you, otherwise you will be very unhappy.

A few days ago, the unit organized some employees to do public welfare activities and go to a small town to clean up the garbage in the river. My colleague Xiao Wei worked very hard and cleaned up a long section of the river by himself. After the event, the boss praised a few people by name, but did not praise Xiao Wei.

Xiao Wei said in private: "I really met a blind boss, and I can't see the credit there." In a word, Xiao Wei's gray mood was exposed.

Many times, you always think that you have a lot of credit, but you are not recognized by others, so you linger. When someone posts a circle of friends, you will like others every day, but if no one likes the circle of friends you post, you are very unhappy, feel that others are unfair to you, and you don't know how to "exchange courtesies". Expecting others to praise you is actually a sign of not being a human being.

It is to impose one's words and deeds on others, so that others care about themselves. People who can be human are often good themselves, and it doesn't matter whether others care or not. The results are your own, and you really don't want others to recognize them.

2.likes to talk back, and she will say a word when others say it.

People who don't know how to be people, many people are bar heads, you say a word, he tops a sentence, repeated dialogue, there is no result, but it can also be with you to the end. There is also a type, belonging to the self-righteous "humor type", who doesn't talk to you about everything, and does it as if he has no value in existence, until others turn their faces, and he also looks generous and innocent and says "Oh, this is not a joke, no".

3.Treat other people's kindness to yourself as other people's cowardice, and always lose your temper at others.

In the workplace, they will not be your parents in any social relationship, appreciate your little cleverness, indulge your little willfulness, when people maintain their own cultivation quality, or out of kind understanding and empathy under the tolerance, but it is interpreted as too cowardly and too cowardly to argue with themselves, this is an extremely sad state of mind, and it is also a very dangerous way of survival in social interaction, because over time it will be called one of the excluded characters in the circle, Because no one will like that arrogant and invincible appearance, let alone infinitely tolerate that willful and brutal little temper.

First of all, I don't listen to my parents at all, I am very reckless in life, I can't be a man, my EQ and IQ are very low, I have no friends, I often resent that God is unfair, I am not self-motivated, I can't manage my emotions, I think about something when I encounter something, I am very jealous, I am always misunderstood by others, and then I often give up on myself, I don't know how to self-reflect, I blame others very much, and I am often offended by others.

It is manifested in terms of quality, morality, family education, words and deeds, and character. Because these aspects are very important to a person, and they can also reflect a person's tutoring problems, we must pay attention to these aspects when making friends with others.

It is manifested in the fact that he does not get along with others very friendly, his interpersonal relationship is very poor, he will not reflect on himself, he will not control his emotions, he does not understand some people's feelings, and he always robs others of some credit.

I think that whether a person can behave is mainly manifested in his speech, behavior, attitude towards others, ability to do things, and interpersonal communication.

Be a person: five manifestations of a person's extremely high emotional intelligence.

People who can be human are generally more carefree, but at the same time, they will pay attention to their words and deeds. They care a lot about what they say and do to the outside world at this moment, because in their eyes, words and deeds are more important than anything else. They pay a lot of attention to the standards of being people, and they also pay attention to some of their image in front of others.

Therefore, some people who can behave will behave very well. At the same time, some people who can be a person often behave more casually in front of their relatives, maybe in front of their relatives, he is not a successful person, but in fact, he is a thoughtful, a person. Often these people behave casually in front of others, but when they are important or need to show up on their own, they tend to appear as soon as possible to surprise people.

And this kind of person is very active in completing the work, almost all the work arranged by the leader can be completed by him, this kind of person is very good at being a person. Because they are very good at separating important things from unimportant things, so many times this kind of person will not make some serious mistakes, and at the same time, he will also be appreciated by the leader, this kind of person is very jealous, and he has a lot of friends.

In fact, shyness is a psychological manifestation of fear, worrying that one's shortcomings will be seen by the outside world, or that others will look down on you.

Be a person: five manifestations of a person's extremely high emotional intelligence.

A person who can be a person is shown to be warm, sociable, helpful, and loyal to others. Treat things with a charitable heart, do things meticulously, and be magnanimous.

What kind of person you say is a person, I think it has something to do with a person's personality, not saying that everyone is the same, but there must be the same kind of people, some people are more lively, some people can be more silent, some people are quieter, depending on your personality. Your personality determines what kind of person you will be in the future.

When encountering problems, dare to analyze the situation and come up with measures, can pursue some of their own goals, fulfill their responsibilities to the family, society and country, be happy, and do some things they want to do.

Strong good people, don't be cowardly wicked people.

Life is an accident.

Death is a necessity! The process of being alive.

That's life! Don't ask yourself to make every step you take is right.

I only ask myself to be unapologetic every step I take.

Life is enough! Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once! To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life! If you can't find the value of your own existence.

Just think about it. Myself.

Give yourself an account.

To parents. Friend.

The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her! Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

Smirk. Draw a perfect picture of your life...

The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself. Meaning is working towards one's own goals.

Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy. On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day".

3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. In a word: