Miserable life, what should I do? What to do if life is miserable?

Updated on society 2024-03-06
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I can understand you. Allow me to call you brother, don't be so pessimistic about everything, I don't want to pull your wounds, but since it comes to this, your son he goes to Nala, he goes to heaven, he is an angel. I think he doesn't like to see you so sad, and I think he will be even more sad when he sees his dad so sad for him.

    Your job, I'm sure you're going to find a better job than you've ever done before. Don't you think so? I advocate optimism.

    When there is half a glass of water in a cup, the pessimist says: well, only half a glass of water; Optimists say, well, half a glass of water. There are two metaphors for the old man in ancient poems:

    The sunset is infinitely better, just near dusk. This is pessimism; Someone made a change: although it was nearly dusk, the sunset was infinitely better.

    This is optimism. Don't be swayed by what's in front of you. Nothing is absolute, and I trust God to help you, but you must not be too pessimistic.

    I don't know what you mean by the word husband, but I remember I read a book, you can find it later! Difficulties are not terrible, what is terrible is that there is no courage and means to overcome them. When the sky falls, you lie down, and you are flattened.

    And you straighten your waist and stand up to the sky, and the sky will break. The word heaven is the word husband, and only those who can break the sky are qualified to be called husbands! Don't you think so?

    Maybe right now your son is watching you. You should be a big husband and set an example for your son, I don't think he wants his dad to be a big chimney and a big drunkard now, I don't think he can like you like that. You should go on a greenholiday with your beloved woman, come back and regroup, run a small private family, and make your son proud of you, which is what you should do, let your woman live a happy life with you, let your son be the son of a boss, and make your son proud of you, at least that's what you should do.

    I hope you have read my message and found it inspiring. Go on a green holiday with your lover, and start writing your own life script again when you come back. I'm sure you'll succeed.

    Fuck the shitty job, you're going to work for yourself. At least that's what I thought, I am. Let your son pray for you in heaven!

    Go and welcome a new life and a new beginning with your lover!

    There is an old Chinese saying: Do your best, obey the destiny of heaven!

    There is also a famous saying in foreign countries: responsibility and today belong to you, and the ending and future belong to God!

    I advocate optimism.

    If you have QQ, you can add me, me.

    bye bye

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Life is unfair, and you may be lucky at some point.

    Let's look at the opening point, or you can consider changing the working environment to adjust.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forget the past and start anew!

    Everyone's fate is different, and our fate is still in our own hands!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What life is is but a dream!

    Don't take it too seriously!

    There are a lot of people who are worse than you!

    Be optimistic! There is nothing to say!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A lot of things, look at the front, not look at the back.

    It is important to have a certain amount of determination.

    Everything, still have to go slowly

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forget the past and look to the future!

    You are still young and there is still something to fight for, and starting over at work and in life is your first choice!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, if you encounter tragedy in life, pay attention to the following aspects: Travel and relax.

    When your life is at a low point, you might as well go out and travel for a while, so that you can put aside your previous troubles for a while. While traveling, I feel life and look for the beauty of life. Broaden your horizons.

    When you are depressed, don't just stare at those excellent people, but look at more ordinary people. Maybe you can find a little comfort, a little balance. Fall in love.

    Don't underestimate the role of love, sometimes it can give people a stimulant, so that people can devote themselves to work, study and life with a more enthusiastic and full attitude.

    Confide in friends. As the saying goes, the more friends you have, the easier the road to go. A true bosom friend is the one who will be by your side, never abandoned, not far away, no matter how high or low. Talking to them can solve your worries.

    Family Harbor. It is said that the family is the warmest harbor, and you can remove all pretense and speak your heart unscrupulously. Therefore, when I am depressed, I go home more often to recharge, talk to my parents and my wife and children.

    Find yourself. Sometimes, we have to give up some of our rationality and interests in order to work and survive. When we fall in the workplace and have a bruised nose and swollen face, we go back to our former young selves.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't say that, there are many, many miserable people in this world than you, at least you have no worries about food and clothing. Some people eat the last meal but don't have the next, don't they still live? So you're much happier than they are.

    Be confident and brave to face your future life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't work hard, don't struggle, complain.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Life is miserable, as long as you make yourself less miserable, you can let yourself study for a period of time, or you can immerse yourself silently for a period of time, and think about your future plans.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When your life is more miserable, you don't always think about letting others save you, you should strengthen your own strength, when you become stronger, you will find that life becomes better.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you can find a way to cheer yourself up, it's okay if you're stupid, but you can give your physical strength. If you are not afraid of hardship, you can find a job that suits you. So as to realize their own value.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is a saying that is particularly good, the sky will descend on the people, they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, and starve their bodies and skin, so I think even in this situation, there will be good times, don't give up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Even if life is difficult, you have to keep living. If this road doesn't work, let's change the way we live. Life is so long, we can change it slowly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Twenty-two years old in a hurry to get married? What about the thirty-year-olds, the piles of people who don't die! You can't think about it, do you? Now they are all late marriage and late childbearing, you have to be in a hurry, you don't have to wait in line to choose, now there are more men and fewer women, in your dreams.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, it is not easy for everyone, everyone has their own difficulties, but I think it is better to grasp your own moment, that is, no matter what you do, it must be better than yesterday.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think that the misery of life may sometimes be beyond our imagination, but how? Life still has to go on, and you have to try to look forward.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Life is miserable, don't accept fate, and even more so to know the difficulties and live a good life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Life is miserable, it is not my own fault, and it is not subject to human will. What matters is your attitude towards life. Whether it is miserable or happy, it is not something you can choose.

    Then pack up the mood, no matter how miserable, we first accept it, and then find a way to overcome it and let our fate change for the better. For example, to enhance one's own abilities, both mental and physical. And strive to improve their abilities, so that they have a certain value in society.

    In this way, our lives will get better and better. When life is better, other aspects of nature will also be better. Therefore, it is not terrible to say that life is miserable, but what is terrible is that you do not have the ability and perseverance to overcome it and defeat it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The path of life is never up to you, but you can try to change it, exercise more, and let yourself have a strong body to better plan for the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, life is not sad, but there are sad days in it; Life is not to be laughed at, it just gives you some of what you want, and at the same time gives you some of what you don't want. Don't despair when it's hard, because the difficulties will pass, and don't be complacent when you're successful, because the glory will pass.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What to do if life is miserable? If life is miserable, it means that you have to look a little more open, and then you have to work hard to create what you want.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Live a day to live a wonderful day, the tragic status quo is the result of their own consciousness, from now on, cheer up, do something meaningful within your ability, life will gradually move towards a better future!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hello, don't be sad, it's hard to go well in life, look at books that can enhance people's positive energy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Just live a good life, find a job, and let yourself be a burden to others, at least be financially independent! The rest is slowly reached.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The person you love doesn't love you, and the person you love doesn't.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It shows that your predecessor is still not bad, and it also shows that you are single-minded, and you are not a sage.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Women should always be self-reliant. Go for self-improvement. Make yourself worthwhile! Only when you become stronger, you don't need a man's cheap feelings.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since you have already said that you are an ex, what does it matter if you forget and forget? As long as you can reasonably put him in a corner of your heart, you won't feel embarrassed, confused, lost, or melancholy when you meet again. If you can't catch the people and things, let go in a chic way.

    Life is a long road, don't always look at one place, so you will have limitations. Cultivate your heart and look into the distance, there is a different scenery... And most importantly, self-confidence!

    Always believe that beautiful people and things are waiting for you in front of you, but the premise is that you have to move forward with your head held high, and there is no point in just keeping your head down and spinning in place.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Life itself is a painful thing, and the most painful thing is not knowing what pain is. Regardless of whether you feel good or bad, pain will always exist, and life is the carrier of pain. Born is destined to be bitter, and I don't feel bitter, I am still pursuing all kinds of so-called happiness and happiness, and in the end, pain will follow, there will be all kinds of complaints, jealousy, hatred, dissatisfaction, complaining, and finally helplessly hand over life.

    Getting what you don't deserve can be a disaster. What you get is not necessarily good, and what you can't get is not necessarily bad. People are self-grasping all day long:

    I'm right, and no one else is right. Then you will never be able to see the truth, and to see the truth, you have to have a spirit of selflessness. Truth is manifested by abandoning the idea of self-consciousness, and the pain disappears.

    Anything that increases does not matter what is perceived, and anything that decreases does not matter what decreases, because these aspects are only images of the mind and have no physical substance. Therefore, you must learn to let go of your worries, let go of your separation and go to work and study, then you will be very happy, and your pain will naturally disappear.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The sun is always after the wind and rain... A life without pain is not a perfect life ... As long as you laugh at life, then you will no longer feel its existence!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    People come to this society to live for others, for society, for the laws of nature, and to come to this world to suffer sin, but to learn to live and experience happiness from life. The ancients said: Life is rare and confused.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    A person's life contains all the ups and downs! If you enjoy sweetness too early, then all that's left for the second half of your life is sour, bitter, and spicy. As the old saying goes, "Do you become a master if you suffer hardship"?

    If you experienced all the hardships, pains, bitterness, and bitterness when you were young, then all that was left of you in the second half of your life was sweetness and happiness Oh, everything must be viewed dialectically! Sometimes pain is also an asset!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Why the pain? Suffering. It is also a scenery on your way to growth.

    Without it, you don't know what happiness is. It stands on the opposite side of happiness. Tell you to cherish happiness.

    Isn't it? Nothing is too bad to get by. It's true.

    Even if it hurts so much at this moment, I think I'm going to die. Outcome. I was still able to continue breathing.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Learn to be strong. Helplessness and pain are what hone your will, and what makes you learn to be strong! Pain is not terrible, but you are afraid that your heart is afraid of them, and when you dare not face the pain, the more terrible they are!

    Therefore, the best way to solve pain is not to be afraid of pain and face it bravely!! People evolve because of suffering and helplessness, we keep learning in suffering, take suffering as your best learning opportunity, be brave, don't be frustrated by it! Send you two words:

    Self-confidence, if you don't have self-confidence, you can't achieve anything. Self-confidence alone is not enough, the important thing is persistence. Stay the course. :

    Persistence is victory. Finally, it's about being brave. Men should be strong and cruel to themselves!

    This is the real man. so as not to starve! Let the tears flow in your heart, and let the anger occupy your heart!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    There are always times in life when things are not satisfactory, face it, . . .

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    **。Game. TV.

    Tourism. In love. Rain.

    Hide and weep bitterly. That's it when it's painful. Hope it helps.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Man, who has come down to the gods to experience suffering, wants to open something for himself, and if he has food to eat, he will have tomorrow.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Laugh at life! Friend: If you want to add me 125294312 I've experienced a lot of painful things, can you share it, ah, have you seen Zhang Haidi, Helen Keller.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Life is a difficult road, if it is smooth sailing, you will feel that you have lost meaning, don't you feel very bored, as the saying goes, so the sky will be a great task to the people, must first suffer their minds, work their bones, starve their body and skin Every time life is frustrated, bumpy, rugged, as a test of God to himself, believe in himself, my life is up to me.

    In fact, God is very fair to us, life is like a piece of cake, there is always a piece missing, but the size is different, maybe some people are born more than we get, but in the future life will definitely get less than others Because you lack more than others, you will naturally get more than others.

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