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There is no pure friendship between men and women, and there is always one of them who has illusions about the other, but for some reason, they do not say what is in their hearts, and continue to let friendship hide their love. 」
Only those men and women who have loved deeply and have been together for a long time, understand that they are fundamentally incompatible and cannot continue to get along, and break up peacefully without the existence of a third person, can there be pure friendship. Whether you agree with the above paragraph or not, when you and your best friend of the opposite sex step into the following situation, your mood will always be turbulent.
When the other party has a boyfriend girlfriend If you don't regard the other party as an ordinary friend, when the other party has a boyfriend and girlfriend, you will definitely feel that it is not a meaning, and the other party tells you about patting, you will find the emotions hidden deep in your heart, and the mood must be very complicated.
Your friend likes him and she You will feel like your friend is competing for your beloved toy, but because of friendship and friend's morality, you will still match them, but you must feel uncomfortable.
3》The people around you think that you are not an ordinary pair When others have too much speculation about you, and the other party feels uncomfortable, you understand that you only have friendship, and there is no possibility to further deepen the relationship, and your heart will be sour.
When you encounter physiological changes During the development period, you have great changes and differences in body and mind, and you understand what is the difference between men and women, although you know that this is a natural phenomenon, but it is still difficult to accept it for a while, and you begin to have illusions about each other.
If the other party has the same feelings, it will usually be a happy ending, if the other party does not feel, or do not confess rashly, otherwise even the friendship will be gone.
When you have a boyfriend girlfriend When your boyfriend and girlfriend introduce you to a friend of the opposite sex, if the friend of the opposite sex is unhappy, you will understand that the other person is mostly in love with you, although you will not consider the other person, your reaction will be to rejoice and worry at the same time, happy that it is an honorable thing for one more person to like you, and worry that you are afraid that your pure friendship relationship will not continue to develop, and you will lose a friend of the opposite sex. "The other party likes you The other party wants your relationship to be more than just friends, which will cause you a lot of headaches, first, you are not mentally prepared to accept the other person, and you don't know how to look at the other person, and at the same time you realize that your friendship is a red flag, in order to maintain a long-term friendship, you will try your best to take an inconspicuous and non-hurtful approach.
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Of course, boys and girls can't be friends? Does it have to be a love affair between a man and a woman?
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Is there really a pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex?
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Between pure friends and women, getting along will actually be a little awkward, and the relationship will not be so good as same-sex friends, hooking shoulders and arms, but many opposite-sex friendships have reached this point.
Pure friendship really exists, and it also exists between men and women when they don't understand love, but it is difficult for pure friendship to exist after youth and ignorance.
The party who says yes to pure friendship must see it as friendship, and the other party either loves you unrequited and accompanies you in the name of a friend, or there is a good feeling.
Pure friendship between a man and a woman must be built on the basis of mutual agreement with the relationship.
Because either party disagrees with this relationship, even if it is just a loss, then such a friendship will not exist.
The above sentence is somewhat absolute, so let's put it more precisely:
Once either party disagrees with the relationship of pure friendship, then it can still exist, but it cannot be more profound.
There is social distancing between men and women, and different people are kept at different social distances. The closer the person, the less social distancing. If two people can successfully invite each other, it means that the relationship between two people has long surpassed that of ordinary friends.
Therefore, once the opposite sex around you often eats alone or often walks together, it proves that these two people are in an ambiguous relationship.
It is very difficult to have a pure heterosexual friendship between a man and a woman, and it is even harder to maintain a pure friendship. Whether you are married or unmarried, you must understand the definition and concept of friends with the opposite sex, and pay attention when you should not cross the line.
Even if one party shows a willingness to surpass your friends, you must keep a clear head if the conditions do not allow it, and you can make a humorous joke to fool the past.
If your boyfriend and girlfriend, wife and husband have such a blue-faced, red-faced, and girlfriend, you should always remind them to pay attention to it, and if necessary, you can stop them from continuing to be friends.
It's hard to be friends of the opposite sex just friends, but if you really meet them, cherish them!
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Personally, there is no such thing as a girlfriend of the opposite sex, and there will be a certain subtle relationship between the opposite sex who are particularly close, just like a bomb, I don't know when it will explode, but we don't ...... pierce the window paper
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I still believe that there is pure friendship between men and women. The specific reasons are as follows:
Pure friendship between men and women refers to the establishment of a deep friendship between two people without any romantic relationship. In this relationship, men and women respect each other, trust, support and understand each other, without any sexual attraction or expectation. Although many people doubt the existence of pure friendship between men and women, many people are able to establish and maintain such relationships.
It is important that building a pure friendship between a man and a woman requires a certain level of maturity and a clear sense of boundaries on both sides.
Some people may develop the possibility of a romantic relationship between two people, but as long as both partners are able to recognize these signals, they can keep themselves in a relatively safe place. Careful communication and open discussion are the keys to building a pure friendship, and through these methods, both parties can get to know each other better and maintain this special relationship together.
Especially some friends who grew up together, because each other's life circle, family circle and circle of friends are very related, and the friendship between men and women is simply not simple.
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Between friends of the opposite sex, if the feelings of play are not deep, there may be pure friendship brothers, but the envy is that if the feelings are very deep, or if one party is more active, most of them are not pure friendship, for example, I have a friend by my side, she has a lot of friends of the opposite sex, most of them like her, in the name of friends.
There is a real friendship between friends of the opposite sex, and two people with opposite temperaments and similar personalities and hobbies are likely to become real friends.
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