What to do with people who have no presence among their friends

Hello, I really agree with you.

Two years ago, I was just like you in junior high school.

It later turned out that it was not advisable for me to pander to others. You must know that you have to choose your own circle for yourself, you are tired of yourself, and there are always like-minded people with you, which is the real purpose of making friends.

You pretend to be friends with a group of people with different personalities, and one day they will find out too.

Finally, I want to say from the bottom of my heart, it's not your problem that you can't make friends, it's just that you haven't found it, and you're not alone when you're alone.

And do you give people a feeling of being unapproachable??

Try to smile and get a lot of results.

Believe me, true friends are like your shadow, they will not exclude you, if you are excluded, not because you have done anything wrong, please stay away, and stop blindly letting others look down on you.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Be a proud soul.

Learn to mobilize all the positive factors and make yourself tenaciously good at protecting yourself. Let yourself look down on helplessness and loneliness.

Summary. Hello dear. First of all, you have to adjust your mentality, mainly to be clear about what you want, then set goals for yourself, and finally practice in every interpersonal interaction.

Hello dear. First of all, you have to adjust your mentality, mainly to be clear about what you want, then set goals for yourself, and finally practice in every interpersonal interaction.

My dear, under what circumstances did you feel like you had no sense of existence, and did this last for a long time? In fact, no one can be exquisite in interpersonal communication, and some people like quiet people.

It's easy to talk about the circumstances or situations in which you feel this way, or do you want to get someone's attention?

In normal chats.

I don't get anyone else in the questions I ask.

Why, the teacher is with you. You try what the teacher says, but every time you chat, ask yourself what you want to talk about, ask yourself, and ask what you like to be good at.

After a long time, let one question be extended, and you will find that the content of this chat is all centered on you.

The next step is to find out what people around you like to talk about, and learn about the topics that others are chatting about...And then go on.

Summary. 1.When I am on vacation, I always stay at home, because I have no friends, and I don't know how to play when I go out alone.

2.What gossip about seeing interesting things and want to share, but can't find someone to share with.

3.Treat her as a friend, in fact, for her, you are only one of them, and it doesn't matter.

4.memoized her birthday, and when it was almost her birthday, she seriously thought about what gift to give, and when it came to her birthday, others casually sent a 52 red envelope.

5.I want to share my daily life and complain with my friends, but my friends never share and complain about my daily life with me.

6.People who became friends established a group chat that belonged to them, and I was outside.

I haven't had a friend for a long time, I don't know what a friend is, I feel that it's too difficult to have a friend, and I don't understand what a friend is when I see that the friend that others understand is different from the friend I understand.

Then my spare time is to watch TV, brush Douyin, and brush Weibo.

What would it be like to not have friends.

1.When I am on vacation, I always stay at home, because I have no friends, and I don't know how to play when I go out alone. 2.

What gossip about seeing interesting things and want to share, but can't find someone to share with. 3.Treat her as a friend, in fact, for her, you are only one of them, and it doesn't matter.

4.memoized her birthday, and when it was almost her birthday, she seriously thought about what gift to give, and when it came to her birthday, others casually sent a 52 red envelope. 5.

I want to share my daily life and complain with my friends, but my friends never share and complain about my daily life with me. 6.People who became friends established a group chat that belonged to them, and I was outside.

I haven't had a friend for a long time, I don't know what a friend is, I feel that it's too difficult to have a friend, and I don't understand what a friend is when I see that the friend that others understand is different from the friend I understand. Then my spare time is to watch TV, brush Douyin, and brush Weibo.

1.When I am on vacation, I always stay at home, because I have no friends, and I don't know how to play when I go out alone. 2.

What gossip about seeing interesting things and want to share, but can't find someone to share with. 3.Treat her as a friend, in fact, for her, you are only one of them, and it doesn't matter.

4.memoized her birthday, and when it was almost her birthday, she seriously thought about what gift to give, and when it came to her birthday, others casually sent a 52 red envelope. 5.

I want to share my daily life and complain with my friends, but my friends never share and complain about my daily life with me. 6.People who became friends established a group chat that belonged to them, and I was outside.

I haven't had a friend for a long time, I don't know what a friend is, I feel that it's too difficult to have a friend, and I don't understand what a friend is when I see that the friend that others understand is different from the friend I understand. Then my spare time is to watch TV, brush Douyin, and brush Weibo.

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Psychologist Rollome believes that the sense of existence is the person's experience of himself, and existence is his own choice. People do not passively bear everything in the world, but through their own free choice, and have the courage to assume the responsibilities that come with it, to develop themselves and realize their own possibilities.

People who feel that they have no sense of existence usually start to doubt themselves as soon as others talk about your problems, feel that they are not valued and respected, start to label themselves with all kinds of negative labels, feel useless, poor and other negative emotional experiences, which will have a great impact on their mental health.

What should I do if I don't have a sense of existence? See below.

1. Learn to recognize yourself.

It is very important to identify with yourself, identifying with yourself is the premise of gaining a sense of existence, a sense of miscellaneous is based on self-identity, you must know how to accept yourself and whether you are good or not, in the interaction with others, on the one hand, we show our own good to others, but also do not hide our bad side, people are impossible to be perfect, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, even if they are not the best, they can also get their own sense of existence.

2. Learn to affirm yourself.

Don't deliberately brush your own sense of existence, for example, some people around us like to post their own news on the circle of friends, such as going to **** to play today, what to eat, etc., to get likes and attention, for example, but the real sense of presence is not deliberately brushed out, there is such a sentence on the Internet: It's ridiculous that you are trying to find a sense of existence in the crowd, but time has passed, and the result may not be as you wish, deliberately brushing your own sense of existence will make your heart easy to become prone to gains and losses. There are many people who feel that they have no sense of existence, and it is easy to put some negative labels on themselves, constantly magnifying their shortcomings, and not knowing how to appreciate their own advantages, in fact, many times we are not so bad, but we ourselves are covered by too many negative emotions, so that we can't see our good side, so we have to learn to affirm ourselves.

3. Get good responses from others.

To look for those who can give you a good response, look for these people who can give you good feedback, on the one hand, you can feel your own value, on the other hand, it is also helpful to your own mentality, and your heart is not easy to suffer from gains and losses, one point to explain here is that the sense of existence is to seek the value of your own existence, not to say that others give you, when you are not enough to recognize yourself, other people's feedback can deepen your own affirmation of yourself, when others can give you some good feedbackYou can better experience your own value and feel recognized and valued.

First: Listen more, post less and stand in line more, why there is no sense of existence, in many cases, it is because you are weaker. If you're just an inconsequential person, then people won't pay attention to you, and it's normal.

You see, in the party, the boss who can't talk anymore will not have a sense of existence, why? Because someone else is the boss. The boss has a sense of existence not because of his boss's position, but because he has a little experience, a little ability, and what he says is a little level and a little nutritious.

We need to listen to what others have to say. If you are weak and can't tell why, then don't say it, don't express your opinion, just listen. And then how do we brush the sense of existence?

Just stand in line. For example, if two people are discussing a thing, each with their own attitude, and we don't have any attitude ourselves, then listen carefully, improve our judgment, discern which one is right and which one is more reasonable, and then stand on the side that you think is right.

Questions. Thank you.

Thank you. Second: Some people have the ability and level, but they are relatively introverted, and they are unwilling to come forward in everything, and they will become non-existent over time.

For example, when we have a party, someone asks to eat, and you will find that there are always so many people in it, without any opinions, you can go to **, listen to everyone. Over time, when you meet again after that, you won't ask these people at all, because it's useless to ask, and they can go wherever they go anyway.

If you are really introverted and know that you can't change it, then remember, look for opportunities, and when everyone else is backing down, you take the initiative to move forward. It is often much more useful to let others know your level through a special outburst than to brush up on your presence repeatedly.

Questions. Got it.

Got it. And then boom.

And then boom. Third: Withdraw the two points we mentioned earlier, both of which are looking for problems from their own perspectives, and there is no sense of existence, and there is no sense of existence in the circle, and sometimes it is not our own reason, but the problem of the circle.

As the saying goes, different ways do not conspire with each other. Class reunion, you are talking about investment and entrepreneurship, artificial intelligence Internet, but what about your classmates, they are still talking about how to chase girls and this kind of thing, how can you have a sense of existence in such a circle!

The first is to do something that others can envy you, put your spirit into it, and you will have self-confidence. You know a lot about the field you do, and of course you have confidence. Don't despair, if you don't have strengths, it's because you haven't worked hard to cultivate your skills.

I'm also working on it, hehe, I guess I'll be able to be confident after a few xx. It's hard now. Also, you can't let someone contact you first, not every time you take the initiative.

You have to take the initiative when others don't take the initiative, and if someone else speaks first, he'll get tired of you. It would be better to read more books and see eloquence. Everyone else is desperate, and when you encounter setbacks, don't think that it's just that you're so unlucky, think about other people's difficulties, and comfort yourself.

If you don't have a sense of existence, then you have to work hard to improve yourself, and when you are very good, others will naturally recognize you.

For people who don't have a sense of existence, I think you should work hard to do your own thing and become a very good person.

Love is bland, don't let yourself be wronged in a relationship, learn to control your emotions, and of course, try to make yourself as happy as possible!

Falling in love with someone doesn't tell you how it turned out, it just says that you felt the feeling.