What are some of the moments that make you feel chilled in a relationship and finally decide to brea

It's time to break the camel's last straw.

Breaking up is not a momentary impulsive decision, it is caused by many things.

I haven't, I don't know what it's like.

When a relationship comes to the point of breaking up, it is what we don't want to see. But the emotional thing is like this, once you get to this point, no matter how hard you try to keep it, it won't help. How did you get to this point if you didn't go.

Let's talk about who can be more uncomfortable after the breakup. Generally speaking, it is said that there is definitely one party who is positive and the other party is passive. When breaking up, there is always the party who took the initiative to break up and the party who was broken up.

Some people say that the party who is broken up will be a little more uncomfortable because he is unwilling to break up and passively accepts. Actually, none of this is entirely true. Sometimes, taking the initiative to break up with someone, it is not because he doesn't love him, but because he has to choose to break up.

In that sense, he may be a little more sad. In my opinion, it is actually a fallacy to figure out who is more uncomfortable between the two. Since both of them will be sad.

And this sadness, there is no contrast at all. Everyone is deeply in love with each other, but they break up for practical reasons, such as the office location, the unwillingness of a certain party's family, the purchase of a house or the bride price, etc. It is very heart-wrenching to say that it is very heart-wrenching for each other, after all, the two still love each other, but they have to separate, and this damage is both sides, so the heartache is basically the same.

If one party invests more in the relationship, and the other party is more selfish and asks too much, the breakup of these problems is relatively more painful for the investor. It is usually the party who has given his love wholeheartedly, but the other party only knows how to ask for it and enjoys the other party's dedication and love. Gradually, he will feel that the other party is becoming more and more clingy, and the investment in each other is also deserved, and at this time he proposes to break up, so the sense of loss, frustration, and abandonment of the invested party will be more serious, so the heartache will be even worse.

If the relationship between two people is lukewarm from the beginning, just reluctantly together, they just feel that they haven't found a better one, and they just make do with each other, then this kind of breakup may be a kind of getting rid of each other, there should not be much heart-rending pain, and it is very likely that it is more important to wish. If two people are equal, but one party changes his mind, the other party will be more distressed. After all, the rebellion in love is the most distressing and escapist.

It is even more sad that the loved partner proposes to break up, because the other party has given his heart, time, money, and wealth, and is abandoned in the end.

It is even more sad for a boy to break up, because girls often can't break up with a boy ruthlessly, and once a boy decides to break up, it is impossible to reconcile.

No matter which of the two people proposes to break up, it will have an impact on the other person's mood.

In a relationship, when the other party treats him coldly, and then when the other party murders him, he especially wants to break up, and he feels that the other party doesn't love him anymore.

When the other party cheats on himself, he has a moment when he wants to break up, and he will feel very uncomfortable in his heart, and then the other party is very close to the opposite sex, and he will not consider his feelings at all, and he will also have this feeling of wanting to break up in his heart.

When I complained to him about being wronged, he said it was my fault. When I went to work on a rainy day, I wanted him to drop me off, but he said that he was afraid of getting wet when it rained. When we quarrel, he walks away and doesn't comfort me.

In love, there will always be relationship problems and impulsive thoughts.

In the relationship, the quarrel is very fierce, and they are unwilling to bow their heads, and the bad things about the other party emerge in their hearts.

There are many moments of breakup, but I can't express it, and I don't even want to say it.

When he doesn't understand me, when he gets angry and cries, when he doesn't think about my feelings, when he is not there when I need him the most, when he is lonely.

The other person doesn't care about himself, the other person is selfish, etc. The other party doesn't care about himself, he feels that he has found an indifferent person, the other party thinks about himself in everything, and it will be very tiring to get along with such a person.

It's obviously the love of two people, the other party never gives, doesn't value your feelings, and doesn't remember anything important about the two people.

It was only after a while that he agreed to be with me, of course I cherished him, but he never treated me well, and I was tired.

I once took time out to visit him at his school. Because I had a lot of things to do, I had to find a 24-year business place nearby to study. It was almost 1 o'clock in the morning, it was a cold winter in Beijing, the wind was strong and cold, and my phone was out of battery.

When we walked to the bookstore, he said he was sleepy and wanted to go back to sleep, and then he went back without looking back. I was left alone in a cold bookstore, and at 3 a.m., my phone was out of battery and there was no cash, and I couldn't take a taxi back to school. I'm already holding the heart to go back. This made me decide to let go.

If a relationship makes me let go. The coldest thing is that he will never keep you again, and he doesn't even have the intention of turning back. It can be said that it is very sad and desperate.

I decided to let go when he was getting more and more impatient with me, and I felt too disappointed to be too cold.

When I found out he was starting to lie, I decided to let it go when I knew what he had done and didn't want to explain it to me.

He said that I was not as considerate as his predecessor, and that I had already given so much, but in his eyes I was just a burden.

In a relationship, I decided to let go, and what was cold was the cold violence of the other party, because cold violence meant that he decided to break up with me.

Watching him talk and laugh to the person I hated in front of me, and he knew I hated that person.

It may be that I have been disappointed again and again, and my cold heart is accumulated in the disappointment again and again, and when it reaches a certain level, I will let go.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered Chang Collapse before, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

I'm like this in Chongzhou now, I can understand your mood to some extent. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.