What is it like to be slapped in the face after lying?

It can feel awkward and confusing.

It's a very, very awkward experience.

That is to feel the air suddenly quiet.

I felt very embarrassed and speechless.

Because self-esteem does not allow self-admitting mistakes, even if you lie and are exposed, you are unwilling to admit your mistakes, after all, where is the face. Not down.

This is related to the psychology of this person, and his heart has decided that he has it, how to go? He was already used to such lies, so even if he was exposed, he still had to continue to protect the tomato.

1.Self-preservation: Some people may choose to continue lying to protect themselves from the consequences of lying to them. They may admit that if they admit their mistakes, they will lose the trust and respect of others, or face other adverse consequences.

2.Psychological addiction: Lying can become a habit or an addictive behavior, and these people may feel unable to stop lying, even after being slapped in the face by the facts. They may have become accustomed to the act of lying and think that this is their way of coping with the problem.

3.Lack of responsibility: Some people may lack a sense of responsibility and don't think they should be held accountable for their words and actions. They may feel that no matter what they say, they don't really have to face the consequences, so they can continue to lie.

4.Refuse to admit mistakes: Some people may refuse to admit their mistakes because they may feel that they are not wrong or that their views are correct. They may choose to continue to insist on their claims, even if they have already been slapped in the face by the facts.

5.Fear of consequences: Some people may worry that admitting mistakes will have undesirable consequences, such as loss of job, rights, status, etc. They may choose to continue to stick to their claims in order to avoid these consequences. Chang Qin dressed.

In conclusion, the reasons for continuing to forcibly lie can be varied. Some people may choose to be honest about their mistakes, while others may choose to continue to stand by their claims. In either case, you need to think about how to handle the situation and take appropriate steps to resolve the issue.

It will definitely be particularly embarrassing and embarrassing, because the panic I said has been debunked, especially when it is debunked, I will especially want to find a hole to get into. Lying is originally to not want to embarrass yourself or to give yourself a better step, but if it is exposed, it will appear more shameless, and I believe that everyone who is exposed to a lie will be embarrassed, after all, it is he who lies first. Sometimes lying is not your original intention, but because of the situation, you can only choose to lie, then the lie is debunked again, the mood must be bad, and you are not only embarrassed but also lose your face, and the lie is probably one of the most embarrassing things in the world.

I remember one time I was forced to lie because of the helplessness of the situation, and the lie was exposed by a person next to me after a while, and I was embarrassed at that time, I didn't dare to look at others, and I left with my head down, my face was very red. Lies are also divided into well-intentioned and malicious, sometimes a white lie is for the good of others, but if the white lie is too much, it is not good, and it may bring bad results. Lying is not a person's original intention, except for the kind of people who often love to lie, ordinary people will not lie, unless they have some forced circumstances, but the lie is exposed, it will be extremely embarrassing, a slightly thick-skinned person can resist this embarrassment, but a thin-skinned person will feel that he wants to find a place to hide.

Whether our lies are white lies or malicious lies, as long as they are exposed, it will be very embarrassing, and the atmosphere will be embarrassing, so let's talk less panic in the future, unless there is a last resort, it is really embarrassing to lie and be exposed.

To be honest, I lied a lot since I was a child, and every time it was to cover up the mistakes I made, so when my lies were exposed, I was usually nervous and scared.

When I was in elementary school, my mother rarely gave me pocket money, but I liked to eat snacks. Mom had a habit of collecting coins together, and I remember putting them in a drawer on a table and locking the drawer back. Then one time my mother lost the key, and I stood by and watched as she knocked the lock with a small hammer, and the lock was very loose.

I don't have pocket money every day, but I want to eat snacks, so I want to take my mother's coin on my head, and at that time a dime is good, so when I have nothing to do, I use a small hammer to pry the lock open, and steal a piece or a few cents. At first, my mother didn't notice it, and then sometimes when my mother went to pick me up, she would find me with a snack in my hand, and I would tell her that it was a classmate's treat.

After a few days, when my mother opened the drawer, she found that there was a lot of money missing, and then she called me and asked me if I had taken it, and at that time I knew that the secret could not be kept, and I was very nervous and scared, because when I was a child, my mother used to beat me for not doing well. Although the lie was exposed, because I was very stubborn, I didn't admit it, and finally I was silent, in fact, I was very scared, and I was beaten up in the end.

Later, when I grew up, I stopped stealing my mother's money, but secretly fell in love. When I fell in love in junior high school, I didn't even know the teacher, so my mother didn't know, and I spent junior high school very safely. After high school, my grades fell quickly for a while, because I was talking to a boy at that time, but because the relationship was not smooth, I fell out of love, resulting in me not interested in studying, and finally my mother asked me if I was in love, as I said earlier, my mother was very strict with me, so it is absolutely not allowed to fall in love, and then I said I didn't, but the questions in the last exam were too difficult, so it will decline.

Actually, I was already very weak and a little nervous, and my mom didn't show too much suspicion of me for some reason.

After that, the teacher called me into the office and said a lot to me, and I knew that he knew about my relationship. Because I am a resident student, I only go back once a month. I went home that weekend after being found by the old class, and then my mother asked me if I was in love, I think the old class has already said it, so the performance did not answer, but in fact, my heart was afraid, and sure enough, my mother finally said it, and finally developed into a quarrel.

Lying is a dishonorable thing, whether it is good or malicious, it is not good for the person who lies, and the person who lies at this point is also a kind of torment, so once the lie is exposed, the person who lies will definitely feel nervous and afraid, and some people will even feel ashamed.

Once I saw a kitten on the street, it seemed to be sick, and when we teased it, it was just a weak meow, not as lively as before. The classmate suggested that we take it to the doctor, and when we took the kitten to the pet hospital, the young lady told us that we had to pay for the kitten's treatment, and we couldn't see a doctor without money.

So I think my mother will definitely not agree to ask for money for such an improper reason, so I didn't tell my parents, stole fifty yuan and stole it the next day, and when I went home at noon, my mother deliberately asked me if I saw the money in her bag, and I lost fifty for some reason, I blushed humbly, or said no. My mother knew that I took it, and then I was forced to tell the truth, and my mother taught me a hard lesson.

The second time I lied was a serial crime, and we had a small box full of change at home, and I saw so much that my parents would definitely not pay attention to it, so they secretly took a few to buy ice cream every day. Because I eat ice cream every day, I don't like to eat more and more, and my mother also finds that she has lost her money. Then one day when he saw me taking the money, he caught me and asked me what I was doing with the money, and I remember crying and being sad, and I thought that my mother would definitely not like me anymore.

Actually, our parents have always loved us, but our lies will break their hearts, so let's not lie to our parents.

Sometimes if you inadvertently lie and are recognized, you will have a very embarrassing feeling, and lying will definitely have different degrees of impact on yourself, after all, you lie to hide the truth of some things, to hide the truth that you don't want people to know, once you are recognized, you will feel that you are a failure.

Originally, I had a feeling of weakness when I lied, especially when I was discovered, which made me even more embarrassed. After all, this is also a dishonorable thing. If you are caught lying at work, then you will feel that you have no place in this work environment, after all, in a workplace, credibility is very important.

And if you lie at work, it will not only bring trouble to your colleagues, but also to your workplace, so as an employee, if you can use your own economy to make up for the mistakes you make at work, it is best not to lie, if you are caught, this is a thing that hurts others and is not beneficial to yourself.

The feeling of being slapped in the face for lying is to make you very embarrassed, and then very humble, and at that time I can't wait to find a crack in the ground to get into.

One time I remember being slapped in the face for lying was when I was a freshman in college. At that time, I was quite insecure when I first came to school. There were a lot of rich classmates around me, and the concept of money was not clear at that time.

Naturally inferior. So when we had dinner with a dorm mate, we exchanged all sorts of topics. She talked about how much money her father could make, and she talked about how powerful her family was.

I didn't know what to talk about, I had to brag, I bragged big, and I bragged about what I saw in the movie.

But what, I was slapped in the face. When I came home during the winter vacation, my father came to pick me up, and the dormitory was also picked up from home. Parents started talking, idle and chatting. In this way, not only was I lying and was slapped in the face, but every dormitory was slapped in the face.

I was blushing at the time, in fact, I was afraid that my father would tell the truth. I listened to the special worry, the special fear, but I couldn't say it. I really felt that I had no face to be a person at that time, and what should the people in the dormitory think of me in the future, the most important thing is that I also have a special hypocritical feeling.

Being slapped in the face for lying, especially in front of many people, is not only a special embarrassment, but it is very likely that it will be very miserable.

I don't have this kind of experience of lying and being slapped in the face, but let me talk about the experience of the bear child in my village who lied and was slapped in the face, it can be said that the end of the bear child is very miserable.

The bear child was in the third grade at the time, and his parents asked him to let him go to the primary school in the village in order to let the bear child receive a better education, but let him enter the county seat, and go to the primary school in the county seat. In order to take care of the bear child, the bear child's parents specially rented a small attic in the residential building next to the primary school in the county seat.

Maybe it's because he hasn't played computer games since he was a child, so when the bear child was in elementary school, he was taken by the children in the county town, and all he thought about was computer games.

As a result, one day, it was Friday, and the bear child came out of the attic where he lived after his lunch break. He bumps into another bear kid who often plays computer games with him.

Then the two of them discussed that they would not go to class in the afternoon and go out to play games in the Internet café. As a result, they did go, and there was no class in the afternoon, when the teachers and parents were already crazy.

Later, after the two of them finished playing the game, they came out and returned home at night pretending to be fine. Then the bear child told his parents that he had gone to class, but at this time, the bear child's teacher and another bear child's parent came to their house.

Later, that day, the cry of the bear child resounded throughout the community, which was very miserable.

It felt like I was actually being slapped in the face, and I really wanted to find a place to get in, and I remember one time I just told a lie because I had just started high school. I saw that all my roommates were quite rich in their families, and then the money my parents gave me for a month because I lived in the dormitory was okay, and I spent more lavishly, and then they all said that my family had money or something, so I didn't say anything.

Luckily my roommates, I didn't say anything after that, and then I went back to the dorm and they didn't talk to me about the past, that's how it happened, and since then I feel like I can't lie anymore. It's really not a good feeling.

Although sometimes, we always tell white lies, but for some things, it is better not to treat people as fools and deceive others, and you will end up being laughed at.

I remember at work, there was a problem with a product, at that time the whole department was revolving around this thing, and the leader did not come, and someone privately asked who made the piece before the product, at that time it was either A or B, only one of the two of them went through the matter, and everyone was talking about it. As a result, colleague A arrived first, and when others asked, they might feel that they would not alarm the leader in the end, so they casually said that she didn't do it, and threw the pot to B by default, but B came later, and the colleague who was in charge of this matter before chased B and asked, but B was at a loss, didn't A do it, she was responsible for the product distribution at that time. The colleague who asked was completely dizzy.

Is this product unclaimed? Could it be that a ghost did it?

Unbeknownst to him, B asked A rhetorically and told him the specific details at that time, and A was at a loss, saying that she had forgotten that she had done it.

At that time, the atmosphere was extremely high, and the colleague who asked did not know how to end this awkward conversation. But fortunately, the matter itself is not a big problem, but A's behavior has spread since then, lying without blinking. Let others trust her in the future work.

Admitting mistakes, although the price is dropped, but it is better than the embarrassment of being exposed on the spot for lying, it is more down-to-earth.