Why is it hard to be a good person?

Being a good person also satisfies yourself, don't care about other people's opinions, doing yourself well is the most important thing. In fact, most people still want to do good deeds, but now this society is too chaotic, and doing good deeds is often used by a small number of people, resulting in good people being wronged, framed, and deceived by good deeds, so everyone is vigilant and unwilling to do good deeds at will, so it has led to the cold world and indifferent people. Therefore, there are fewer good people and good deeds, giving people the phenomenon that it is difficult for good people to do!

This can be answered from the Chinese philosophy of contradictions: loyalty and filial piety cannot be both, and it is impossible to be a good person, so it is difficult to be a good person.

Addendum: Damn, 15 points is like exchanging for a debate draft, officially whimsical. I thought it was a sigh.

Sometimes it is really difficult to be a good person, and often you have to bear more grievances and responsibilities, which increases the burden of thought, which has an impact on a person's emotions and the quality of his life. But we still have to be a good person, after all, there are still many good people, there is no need to deliberately ask for returns, and the most important thing is to have peace of mind.

Because that's how society is now.

Sometimes you do it.

It's a good thing, but people think you have ulterior motives.

Because people nowadays are afraid of being deceived, everyone will guard against each other.

Doing a good deed, or being good to a person, cannot be judged as a good person! A good person is the evaluation of a lifetime, insisting on doing good deeds all his life, not at a certain stage or in a certain thing! The hardest thing in the world is to persevere! So.

Being a good person is hard to do! You need to do good deeds at all times and not do things that hurt others!

Because people are selfish, it's hard to think about others in everything.

Being a good person means sacrificing for others. Everyone has a selfish side, big or small, it is indeed difficult to dedicate oneself without oneself, but being a good person is responsible for oneself and is more valuable. Don't be a bad guy and endanger society.

Man is a complex creature! It's hard for good people to survive in this society!

Because now there is no one reason for us to be good people in this society.

Because it is easy to do bad things, and good deeds have a beginning and an end. It's simple and straightforward.

Because everyone wants to be good, everyone thinks they're right.

As a result, everyone has different standards.

It's hard to be a good person.

First of all, what is good? What's bad? What are the criteria?

Secondly, you can't get everyone to be nice to you.

I think the good or the bad depends on your own inner opinion, feel that you are doing well, then do it, although sometimes you will accidentally hurt others, but I believe that you will eventually gain the understanding of others... Be yourself, have a clear conscience and won't be scolded, and that's it!

Hehe. This is society.

Without them, society would be crippled.

There would be no Das Kapital.

Go your own way and let others do the talking!

In fact, do you have to repay good deeds? Do you have to ask someone else how to do it? It's just worthy of my heart, alas

Hehe. I won't say much.

What the. Good luck.

Happy every day.

Because it is often misunderstood. Also, there are still a lot of bad people in this society!

Because there are too many bad guys, and it's too easy to be a bad guy

No one in the world is perfect, and even if you are really a good person, there will always be one or two out of 10 people who will say that you are bad.

The determination of a good person, not to harm others and self-interest, helpful people are good people, this kind of person is not much in the world, dare to say that I am not a good person, I don't want more, as long as the quality of people in this world is high

It takes a lifetime to be a good person, and it only takes one thought to be a bad person.

Yes, because there are too many people who don't understand people.

But the wicked are more difficult to do, the good people still have others to judge, and some people say that you are good, but the wicked are not.

Because the bad guys are too good to do.

It's hard to do. Good people are questioned.

Bad guys are discriminated against.

While doing good deeds, you also satisfy yourself, don't care about other people's opinions, doing yourself well is the most important thing.

That's because the bad guys are good at it.

That's when you don't think about it from their perspective.

Good people are easy to misunderstand!

Good people don't necessarily have good rewards.

Some people just take kindness as aluminum dry fertilizer.

It's hard for people in this world to be good people, it's even harder to be good people, but it's super hard to be bad people.

1. I think it's really not difficult to be a good person in today's society, and there are many good people. The problem is that there are conflicts of interest between different groups of people in society, which creates contradictions. Some interest groups are powerful and occupy an advantageous position in social competition, so other interest groups that conflict with them will feel oppressed.

Some people can't stand this kind of oppression and try their best to join the dominant group, so they become the "enemy" of the group they belonged to before, and become the "bad guys". Some people suffer from this oppression and feel that they are the pitiful party and the "good people".

2. As the saying goes, "Good people have good rewards, bad people have bad rewards, it's not that they don't report it, the time has not come".

However, many wicked people are still living in style, but there are many good people, but good people have been punished.

I myself am very entangled in whether people are inherently evil or inherently good.

My parents taught me from a young age to be kind to others, and to suffer from others. However, my good ones will always be bullied and deceived. Being bullied by a good friend and cheated on by a man you like.

I want to be a bad guy. However, the mind that has been taught since childhood has been imprisoned into a specific pattern and way of thinking, and it eats soft rather than hard.

It's really tiring to be a good person and be a good person who can think about others.

3. In recent years, things like porcelain touching and moral kidnapping have emerged in an endless stream. In fact, it reflects a common problem, a large part of the elderly group has become impetuous after a long time in society because of the lack of education they received in the past, and they have begun to use their status as elderly people to seek improper benefits for themselves. It's just a generational phenomenon.

With the popularization of nine-year compulsory education and the increasingly prosperous scientific, educational, and cultural undertakings after the reform, there will be more and more high-quality people in the future, and these pathological phenomena will become less and less.

One day, after eating from a restaurant with my friends, I saw a stroller falling to the ground at the door, and my friend and I turned a blind eye and didn't dare to help it! In case the owner of the car sees it and says that we knocked it down, we are afraid that we will not have the money to pay.

4. I have a scooter, and I usually drive it less, and my friends often use it to drive, and I don't care. But one incident made me realize that I can't borrow a car at will. I remember that at noon that day, she called me and said in frustration that there was a car accident, and she was fully responsible for crippling an old lady, and I was stunned.

My colleague's family was not in a good financial situation, so I ended up adding a lot of money to buy another car. Helping others is fun to polish your eyes, sometimes it's asking for trouble, I saw a ** female college student Xiao Yuan riding a bicycle and encountering an old man falling to the ground, Xiao Yuan immediately helped the old man up, and the old man then pointed out that Xiao Yuan hit himself. In the end, it was brought to court.

5. In fact, everyone is making decisions, and there is a very important dimension behind decision-making, which is the ethical dimension, that is, ethical decision-making. The reason why ethical decision-making is difficult is because there is an ethical dilemma behind ethical decision-making, which is a dilemma. What's more, no ethical approach is absolute, and no decision is unique.

Behind the difficulty of being a good person, it may be the price that ordinary people are difficult to bear, not only from the "very stupid and naïve" Taoist model ridicule, but also from the "impure motives" personality suspicion, more likely to suffer heavy physical injuries, pay the price of blood, and even defy the unjustified disaster of the judicial judgment of "presumption according to social reason". Countless costs have been added layer by layer, and finally become the straw that breaks the camel's back.

If you are careful enough, you may realize that when being a good person will inevitably pay a cost, people's hearts and morals will inevitably freeze. So many people turn a blind eye to the old man who is crawling on the ground, so many people do not save the child who is in pain* when he sees death, and even some children want to help, most parents also block it. The reason why public morality is disgraced is precisely because people have a calculation of costs in their hearts.

Over the years, in the face of moral dilemmas, people have repeatedly shouted "save the indifferent self" and "save the vanishing compassion", in fact, it is because of the huge cost that must be paid to be a good person that everyone who tries to be a good person has almost fallen into excessive silence. Martin Luther King Jr. once said, "In recording this period of social transition, history has found that the greatest sorrow is not the arrogance of the bad men, but the excessive silence of the good men."

The excessive silence of good people is indeed a great sorrow of society, but in order for good people to stand up, it is necessary to dilute the cost of being a good person, eliminate the risk of being a good person, and give the courage to be a good person. Every important person we meet (parents, teachers, friends, etc.) on the road of life will teach us to be a good person and a kind person when we grow up, but after the first half of life, I found that it is difficult to be a good person, and a bad person is easy to be.

Hangzhou's 57-year-old Aunt He unfortunately entered the lotus pond during morning exercises, and the 82-year-old Uncle Sun desperately entered the pool to save people.

Why is it hard to be a good person? Because being a good person is not an easy thing to do. In real life, sometimes being a good person may be misunderstood, neglected, and lose benefits.

However, being a good person is a positive quality and an attitude of responsibility for oneself and others. Here are some of the difficulties of being a good person:

1.It is difficult to maintain a mindset: To be a good person, you need to maintain a positive attitude, but in real life, it is easy to lose confidence due to external factors, which requires you to be firm in your beliefs and goals.

2.There is a lot of moral pressure: to be a good person needs to abide by certain moral norms, but in real life, some things may make people feel and attack to contradictions and confusion, which requires a trade-off between morality and reality, and requires enough courage and wisdom.

3.Pay needs to be persistent: to be a good person needs to continue to pay, and the return of pay is not necessarily immediate, it takes unremitting efforts and dedication to see the real results.

4.In the face of setbacks, you need to be strong: in the process of being a good person, you will inevitably encounter setbacks and failures, and you need to have enough psychological quality and emotional control ability to learn from them and move forward.

In short, being a good person is not an easy thing to do, you need to maintain a positive attitude, abide by ethical norms, and continue to give and face setbacks. However, being a good person is a positive quality, and it is also an attitude of being responsible for oneself and the world, which is worthy of our pursuit and persistence.

How many kinds of people are there in this world? There are only good people and bad people, but there is another kind of people, people who are somewhere between good and bad, not too good and not too bad. Most of these people like to be "spectators" and "commentators".

There is a story like this in the third drama of "Ma Dashuai": A person accidentally fell into the water, and there were many bystanders, but none of them went to save people. I don't know who is still so boring and mischievous at this time, kicked the onlooker Ma Dashuai into the water, and finally rescued the person who fell into the water.

When the TV host interviewed Ma Dashuai to save people, Ma Dashuai said: "At that time, I didn't have time to think about it, and I fell into it after a plop." "If it weren't for being kicked down, if it wasn't applause, if it wasn't vanity, would Ma Dashuai save people?

Who is Ma Dashuai? Who is the person who didn't save people and kicked the horse? Those bystanders, who are the people who applaud Ma Dashuai?

I think it's a so-called "not too good and not too bad" person.

But what I want to say is that it is difficult for us to be good people in society, and the difficulty is that there are too many such people who are "not too good and not too bad".