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Yours"Not many people listen to me"It shows that the root of your thinking is to manage others, and young people nowadays don't like others to manage the most. If you are under the control of your parents at home, and you have to be managed by your teachers at school, you can still stand the management of student cadres. If you want to establish your authority, you need to be friends with your classmates and discuss with them how to carry out the class work.
You respect them, and they will listen to you.
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1. Cadres who can do things are not good cadres, but cadres who can use people are good cadres.
2. On the other hand, don't think that you have to be ruthless if you are the class leader, your classmates choose you not to control them, but to make the whole class progress, so when you make progress yourself, don't forget to help your classmates and continue to get along with them. Learn how to be a good squad leader who can do a good job easily and without offending people.
3. Have courage on stage, show your affinity off the stage, it is best to have a fixed circle of friends, but you also have to deal with each classmate. Let others see that you are responsible for the class, do what the class leader should do, and help your classmates. In fact, you don't have to be too serious to be a class leader, someone speaks or does something wrong, just go to him and whisper a reminder, really don't listen to him in public, the most important thing is that you can never offend your classmates, you can't abuse your power, you have to be convincing (for example, your sense of responsibility, grades for the sake of the class and your ability to do things, etc.) Don't always think of yourself as the class leader when you don't care about people in the audience, you must integrate into your classmates.
When you are the class leader on the stage, you will always consider the interests of your classmates, give advice to the teacher and the class, (just say your own ideas) to do it on and off the stage, I believe that you can do a good job in interpersonal relations, and live up to the teacher's entrusted responsibility, if you do a good job as the class leader, I believe there will be many people who are convinced of you.
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Establishing prestige takes time to build, and I'm also the class leader, so I can teach you a few secrets:
You can't be tough on those who are not very obedient, it will only make them more resistant.
You should have more contact with them, play with them more after class, and play basketball with them during physical education class to enhance your friendship and make them your friends.
At the same time, you can't act like a class leader, you have to think of yourself as an ordinary classmate.
Secondly, you can break through individually, you can talk to those boys individually, talk about your ideas, they are also human beings, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and one day they will admit that you are a good class leader.
Finally, academic performance is very important, take the lead, and actively help those students who do not have good grades. Hope a few of my methods work for you.
As a squad leader, we should take into account the overall situation, consider everything from the work of the whole class, strive for excellence, take the lead in daily work, not only be diligent in learning, but also be good at thinking, and strive to improve our own quality.
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A squad leader must first have an aura, stand forward, hold his chest up, and raise his head. The second point is that the voice is loud, and the words spoken are powerful. The third point is strong ability and quick work. Fourth, the results are good and can convince the public.
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I think the most basic thing to be a good class leader is to treat everyone in the class sincerely, and the second is to be able to contact with classmates as much as possible, and then to help the class to engage in activities and improve the status of the class in the whole grade or the whole school.
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For example, the class president and the secretary of the League have a certain right to decide when evaluating the awards, but if you want to give these to whom, you must pay attention to make the students feel appropriate, even if you are not satisfied, you can't jump out of the problem, and it is best to let the classmates know everything in the class. Also, as a squad leader, it is best to have a good relationship with the league secretary, because the status of the league secretary in the class is the same as that of the squad leader, so that there are no people in the class cadres who are opposed to you. Make the class fee public, and don't make people think that you are doing something with the class fee.
It's actually nothing about others not listening to you, when you are more popular, others will listen to you, and you should pay attention to your tone when you speak, so that others feel that you are thinking about him.
Another point, the student cadre is really not a leader, it is the responsibility of the student cadre to serve the class and the classmates, as for who to control is not very important, you let him know the importance of the problem no one will not understand. As a student cadre, whether it is a student union or a class leader, if you don't understand this truth after working for a while, it will be for nothing! Of course, student cadres do bring some benefits, that's for sure.
For example, the most important thing for you to be a class leader is to fight for the interests of the class and your classmates outside, organize activities, and it is quite difficult for the class leader who does not understand the activities to establish prestige.
The squad leader can be a little more aggressive and incendiary when organizing class meetings and activities.
Work down-to-earth and serve your classmates.
To deal with the relationship with your classmates and let others trust you, the voice of the representative of our class is very soft, but she is very popular in my class and no matter how noisy the classroom is during the Chinese class, she will be desperate to manage, you have to remember: the position of the class leader is not something you can do if you want to!! >>>More
First of all, I am very happy to see you say so much, and what I want to say is that you are now in a rebellious period, and just like what you said, I feel that the reason why you are so troubled is that you think too much, and you think more rebellious, maybe those relatives can let you help with the work, but because they can treat you as their own children, this is the career emotional basis that should be in the enterprise, and it cannot be denied that you are also a more likable child. But try to change your mind, and you'll be better. The so-called prestige you said I want to give you a few suggestions is, you are still young, prestige for you need is the foundation, a person wants to establish prestige in the hearts of others, the best way is to reflect in action, you are young, the prospects for development will be very good, but you need to continue to work hard to practice and continue to progress, so that in the hearts of others you will have prestige, maybe this prestige is not in the mouth, but in their hearts. >>>More
Then by being a squad leader, you can exercise your ability in related aspects. >>>More
First of all, you must be sincere, sincere, and use your own efforts and diligence to win the trust and support of others for you, and then treat everyone equally, usually care more about every student in the class, most of the classmates can accept and support you, the rest are those diehards, treat them, can't be hard-hitting, talk to them in private, and finally, also grasp the relationship with the class teacher and the teachers of various subjects, in short, slowly you will understand, I am also talking about some of my experience when I was the class leader, I hope it will be useful to you, I graduated from high school two years ago, a provincial outstanding class cadre, in fact, you are quite good, and it is not so complicated, and it would be good to do something seemingly simple.