What kind of touching story is Crested Hairpin ?

"Hairpin Phoenix" is talking about the love tragedy of Lu You and Tang Wan:

The Lu family once used an exquisite family heirloom phoenix hairpin as a token to engage with the Tang family. Lu You was nineteen years old (fourteen years in Shaoxing) and married Tang Wan.

Unexpectedly, Tang Wan's talent and Lu You's intimate relationship caused Lu's mother to be dissatisfied (a woman's lack of talent is virtue, Lu You also said when he wrote an epitaph for a woman surnamed Sun that talent is not a woman's business), and then Lu's mother thought that Tang Wan had delayed her son's future, so she ordered Lu You to take a leave of absence from Tang Wan.

Lu You once built another courtyard to house Tang Wan, and after his mother found out, she ordered Lu You to marry another meek and dutiful Wang daughter as his wife. Tang Wan was then led by his family and married Zhao Shicheng, a royal descendant of the capital Shaoxing Mansion and a scholar from the same county.

In 1151 A.D. (the twenty-first year of Shaoxing), after the failure of the Ministry of Rites, Lu You went to Shen Yuan to play, and met Tang Wan by chance, and both of them were very sad. Lu You sadly inscribed a poem "Hairpin Phoenix" (Red Crisp Hand) on the wall.

In 1156, Tang Wan came to Shen Yuan again to catch a glimpse of Lu You's inscription, and couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion, so he made a "hairpin head phoenix: the world is thin". In the autumn of the same year, he died of depression.

Tang Wan is the daughter of Lu You's maternal uncle Tang Cheng, who has been quiet since childhood, although Lu You's mother doesn't like this niece very much, but in the old days, they liked to kiss each other, plus the two of them were childhood sweethearts, and the two had no guesses, so Lu's mother also agreed to this family affair and married her cousin Tang Wan when Lu You was twenty years old.

This is a major event that caused a sensation in the entire Sanyin, talented and beautiful, and they are all official eunuchs. In the days after marriage, Lu You and Tang Wan loved each other, but because Lu's mother and sister-in-law did not agree with each other and made things difficult for their niece Tang Wan, Tang Wan was expelled from the door of the Lu family in the second year after marriage. Due to Lu's mother's efforts to break up, Lu You couldn't resist his parents' orders, and finally said goodbye.

Shen Yuan's poem "Hairpin Phoenix" tells the love story of the patriotic poet Lu You and Tang Wan, which has been passed down as a good story since then. But the end of the story is tearful. In this love, we ignore another person - Zhao Shicheng, the one who really spent the rest of his life with Tang Wan.

Everyone in the world knows "Hairpin Phoenix", no one pities him Zhao Shicheng, he does not accept concubines in the world, does not remarry after death, and is affectionate only to Tang Wan alone. Three years later, he took the initiative to ask Ying, died on the battlefield, and finally went to find his Tang Wan. The love between Lu You and Tang Wan is a tragedy, and Zhao Shicheng's love is also a tragedy, and it is a tragedy that is not heard.

Zhao Shicheng was born extraordinary, a descendant of the royal family, and was influenced by the scholarly fragrance and court etiquette since he was a child. He likes to make literary friends, and he admires the talented Lu You. In Shen Yuan, when various literati and scholars discussed poetry together, Zhao Shicheng also met the talented girl Tang Wan for the first time, and fell in love at first sight, at this time, Tang Wan was already Lu You's wife.

The way of a gentleman is not to win people's love. He silently buried this affection in his heart. Tang Wan is Lu You's cousin, the two have been childhood sweethearts since childhood, and their married life is also very sweet.

However, it backfired, Lu You's mother wanted her son to gain fame and shine on the lintel, she thought it was Tang Wan's reason, which caused her son to be unenterprising, so she forcibly let Lu You divorce his wife. The two have been dealing with each other many times, and even moved out of the Lu family to the world of two, but Lu's mother did not stop there, and finally on the grounds that Tang Wan had been married for three years and had nowhere to go, Lu You was forced by his mother's life, and in desperation, he could only be separated from Tang Wan in pain. Later, Lu You married another Wang family according to his mother's wishes, After learning that Tang Wan was divorced, Zhao Shicheng's heart was mixed, happy that he finally had a chance, and worried that Tang Wan experienced this encounter.

After being suspended, Tang Wan's face was haggard and her body was getting thinner, so Zhao Shicheng often visited her and comforted her. When Tang Wan's life was bleak, Zhao Shicheng illuminated her whole world. Zhao Shicheng's sincerity finally deeply moved Tang Wan.

In ancient times, when a woman who was out of the court remarried, there would always be someone to point fingers.