Why do you work so hard and I don t want to learn

Think about the good life in the future!! If you have done the exam, you can get it. You can get compliments.

In the future, I will be admitted to a good university, and I can get a class reunion again. Mom and Dad will be pleased... After studying, you can do whatever you want.

I'm studying well.,I'm a little tired now.,And then you can do whatever you like.。。 And... If you study well, you can find a good partner when you go to a good university.

You can get a job or something in the future... What did I graduate from...

In fact, everything is a floating cloud ... If others work hard and don't want to learn, then relax. It's best to give yourself a little time and play crazy for a day.

It's okay to skip class, do something that I didn't dare to do before, but I really want to do, but promise myself that I will study hard after I am crazy. Calm down. Maintain a happy mood in order to relax and study well.

After all, you have to be responsible for your own future.

It's like we want to learn, but we can't read a few pages of a book when we open it.

I want to work hard, but I just can't work hard, and I can't calm down my heart, but I worry about being overtaken by others every day.

Many people have this kind of anxiety, want to improve their level, want to work hard, but are always emotionally disturbed and can't learnWhile I can't put down my mobile phone and computer, I am worried about being surpassed by others.

Why is this happening? I think there are three main reasons.

For example, one of my classmates, after graduation, went back to her hometown to take the civil service exam, and then she felt that the development was not good, and she wanted to improve herself, but whether it was reading books or training, she always failed, and her own analysis was because she already thought that she had a stable job and did not need to work too hard, so she would allow herself to slack off again and again.

So if you really want to learn, you need to throw away those excuses and retreats, set some motivation that you have to do, and make yourself nervous.

A lot of times it's not that you can't do it, it's that you allow yourself to be unable to do it, to allow yourself to relax and slack off.

Some people always use attention or willpower as a shield when they can't learn, but if you think about it, when you do other things, are you just as inattentive as when you study? Not necessarily, I'm afraid

I have a friend who likes to play slingshots, and spends his days studying materials and discussing techniques with others, but if he is asked to do other things, he will not have that kind of concentration.

Most people only focus on things that interest them, and it's human nature because you can feel a sense of pleasure and accomplishment from them.

But if you're really determined to do it, try to find ways to make you feel fulfilled in your efforts. In this way, you can be motivated to learn, otherwise it is really difficult to stick to a boring thing that is not fun and worthless.

Many times working hard is not for the sake of the thing itself, but the collateral value that may come with it, such as promotion and salary increase, such as social status, and so on.

There's nothing wrong with utilitarianism, but once most of your eyes are on it, it's easy to become impetuous, fantasizing about what you'll be like in the future, and worrying about how you'll be able to handle yourself if someone else overtakes you.

Learning is more than just learning, with too many other factors distracting, your heart is filled with too many things.

The best thing to do at this time is to go back to what you are going to do, refine your goals, and think about what you should do every day.

Whether to learn alone or to find a partner together, whether to study by yourself or sign up for a training class, whether to learn a little every day or to assault on the spot, this is all different from person to person, there is no right or wrong, only suitable and unsuitable.

There may be many reasons why you want to learn but can't learn it, everyone is different, and the three more common ones are sorted out above.

Learning is a long-term process, and if you feel that you can't learn, you can analyze yourself and find a way that suits you to continue walking.

Adolescent adolescents are in the period of psychophysiological development and can have certain psychological problems.

Emotional problems or learning problems. Such as inattention, memory loss, emotional instability, decreased learning efficiency, etc. Most of them are related to mental and psychological factors.

For example, study pressure, interest in learning, bad study habits, etc. Physiological factors include excessive fatigue or lack of sleep.

Memory loss, or slow brain responses, is simply manifested as cognitive ability.

There is no pathological basis for a transient decline. It is necessary to adjust the mentality, improve self-confidence, enhance physical fitness, increase nutrition, develop good study habits, cultivate interest in learning, good emotional state, attention, can improve memory, improve learning efficiency and other thoughts and actions are very far away Easy to think about but very difficult to do, learning itself is a painful process that requires strong perseverance.

At that time, I didn't think about it so much, I always thought that I could have a good job when I left school, and when I went to interview, the company would invite you, and I could do a job for a lifetime, get a lot of money, and have a head start and prospects.

After leaving school, I realized how happy I would be to be able to go to graduate school and become a teacher.

If you go back to college, you should set your goals from the beginning of your freshman year and use the right time to lay a solid foundation.

From the beginning of the freshman year, you should actively get in touch with club activities, make friends with all kinds of people, and cultivate relationships with teachers;

It is necessary to find the person you like from the beginning of your freshman year, without leaving regrets, and have goals, and have a plan to understand the professional content and ** on the Internet from the beginning of your freshman year, don't close your eyes and listen, learn to use various network apps, contact global consulting, and have a more professional understanding of the industry. Strive to improve yourself, perfect yourself, and plan a more long-term future for yourself! Let yourself shine in the eyes of others, time will not go back, here I hope that everyone will not waste time and can not neglect themselves.

The three years of high school are a year of hard work for every student; And these dreams are often the motivation to urge them to take the initiative to learn. And every student who stands out in the college entrance examination will have their own goals, and in order to achieve this goal and desire, no matter how hard and tired they are, they will stick to it with tears.

So, in high school, in the whole process of hard work, what kind of motivation allows you to enjoy this "bitter and happy" process? Or is it because of an idea that you realize that it's worth it to go all out and learn? Let's take a look at what netizens think.

Netizen 1: In order to catch up with the beautiful student, don't leave regrets for yourself.

If you hide this love in your heart and transform it into motivation for learning, then you will win the praise of teachers and parents. I am such a person, in my freshman year of high school, I secretly fell in love with a girl.

However, her academic performance is excellent, and she has always been ranked in the top 10 of her grade; I saw the gap with her, but I really didn't want to stop there. So, for three years of high school, I kept looking up to her, silently watching her behind my back, and, in order to be able to come together with her one day, I studied hard. Although the gap with her still existed in the end, and I didn't dare to confess to her, my grades improved quickly, and when I graduated from high school, I was successfully admitted to a good university.

Netizen 2: The teacher's heartfelt words made me feel ashamed.

When I entered the first year of high school, I was admitted to the first middle school in the county with a high score, and at the same time, I began to live in a boarding school. Because of the influence of my classmates, I gradually learned to skip classes, and my studies began to be abandoned; I knew it wasn't good to go on like this, but I didn't have the determination to break my bad habits.

Until one day, my father came to the school to look for me and gave me living expenses and clothes, which was looked at by the head teacher; The next day, he talked to me alone, from his upbringing, about my family background, and about my grades in school life, saying that I still have hope for going to university, and I should work hard for my father. Thinking about my father's gray hair, I was heartbroken, listened to the words of the head teacher, changed my seat, and began to study hard.