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A person has low self-esteem, no self-confidence is the most terrible, whether you are in school, or in the outside world, you will not succeed in doing things, you must learn to encourage yourself, in your most helpless, the most lonely, the most lost, you yourself must learn to adjust your mentality, to boldly let go of yourself, you can open your heart to your good friends to communicate the troubles in your heart, there is a saying: what kind of ideas, what the future. In addition, you have to know how to plan for what you do every day, know how to learn, and have a goal to enrich your daily life, and you will find that you have grown a lot...

Maintain a good attitude towards everything around you. I hope you can escape from low self-esteem and regain your self-confidence.

Why?

When I first arrived in a new group, I didn't talk to people, and they didn't talk to me, and then because I had good grades, they still call me arrogant. Slowly I took the initiative to talk and laugh with them, and they all like to surround me now, of course, there will be "villains" pointing at the back, making something out of nothing. I wouldn't take it seriously.

Why did I behave the way I did when I came to the new collective? Because I was also left out in the cold, probably because of my 'pride'.

My best friends are gone, and I'm the only one left. It's really uncomfortable.,I can only play with those who are not familiar with it.,Good Luck is about to graduate.,That's it.。

Maybe you have a lot of reasons, or maybe you don't look good at it (there is one in the class now), and they like to judge people by their appearance. I also talk to him occasionally. He never pays attention to the bad things people do to him, he takes the initiative to talk to people, and he will always be the first to announce any news, even if no one pays attention to him.

Let me tell you, the people in each class will be divided into a faction, that is, everyone has a circle, and most of the time they play in their own circle. A lot of it is scored by grades. You can try to get in touch with the bottom, because those who have a little achievement will have a character.

Just like this little by little, self-confidence is refined in this way.

Don't be defeated so easily, on the contrary, you should defeat "him".

I don't recommend that you look for a job now, you won't succeed in your career like this. Isn't the most important thing for people to achieve a career?

Try to open your heart. Study harder, do more good deeds, and increase your knowledge, and then you will feel that you know everything.

I think the most important thing for people is to make others happy and happy themselves. To make others happy, you must first be happy yourself. That's what I thought.

Since you call people who don't want to fall behind, I think you must want to get ahead, and now going to work is an escape from reality, you should first solve the problem of why you are lonely, is there anything wrong with yourself, or something that makes you unhappy, causing you to be reluctant to communicate with people, if you encounter the same problem in another school in the second half of the year, what should you do? Now that the economy is in crisis, it is not easy to find a job. So I think it's better to go to school.

In fact, many great people in the world have low self-esteem for one reason or another. Low self-esteem is not necessarily a good thing, keep a low profile, put down your posture and be a person, you also have many opportunities to live a wonderful life.

Be confident on your own, believe in yourself, change yourself, and good luck.

Hello. In the era of market economy, low self-esteem and cowardice will put you at a competitive disadvantage. However, it is very difficult to change your personality, and in this case, I think you have to take the initiative to grasp the market changes and turn the disadvantage into an advantage in order to be successful.

I think that there are no good-for-nothing people in this world, and everyone's existence has its value. It's just that you don't find the right position for you to show your value and so that you can perform your life well, so you have to think positively about your strengths and weaknesses, and in some cases, make your weaknesses become advantages. For example, if you are not suitable for working in a crowd, then working as a salesperson is your disadvantage, but if you choose to be a writer, work hard every day, and make a living from the remuneration, sentimentality will become your strength; Perhaps, you can also choose to be the Internet and use your loneliness to create a world ...... that belongs to youAll this, the so-called "all roads lead to Rome", "the line of champions", relax your mind, you will always find the right one! Above.

Do business. Very exercised.

Love yourself, copy accept yourself, low self-esteem, self-confidence, fear, fear, just the normal feelings of ordinary people, accept it, learn to live with him, and don't see him as a problem, despise it appropriately.

When doing things, you just have to think about what I want to do, not that I'm afraid, I don't want to be afraid, I have low self-esteem and I have to be confident. Just say okay, I'm afraid that I'm inferior, then I'm afraid of inferiority, but I really want to do this thing, whether I fail or succeed, whether I do it once in my life, I tremble, and I feel inferior to do what I want to do. Think about the thing itself, don't remember success or failure, you can do anything, whether you have low self-esteem or introverted.

But don't do things that you don't like, such as being an introvert and being alone will make you feel calm, but you want to be like those extroverts, who often make a lot of noise. You'll be more miserable. You don't have to do things you don't like in order to prove that you're an extrovert.

Participate in more activities, you are more interested, stronger, and recognized by everyone, so that you will gradually become confident.

What do you have low self-esteem? In fact, you should make it clear, otherwise how can others help you?

Are you a boy or a girl? If you are a boy, you will naturally have self-confidence if you are rich.

You can't give up, be a self-respecting person, come on! Even if your family is not rich, when you have low self-esteem, you should think: I don't have as much money as them, but I want to study better than them. Otherwise, you're a person with no self-esteem! (It's not sarcastic to you).

In which way?? Don't tell me every aspect is

1. Cultivate interest, at least to pass the time.

2. Find a friend who can be trusted to talk, as the saying goes, words are happy locks!

3. Find a small goal that is easy to achieve every day, achieve it, and get a sense of accomplishment. Self-confidence grows.

1. Paying too much attention to one's own and others' words and deeds is a characteristic of self-confidence.

Being too careful about one's words and deeds is manifested in not being good at expressing one's own opinions, usually having no attitude towards certain things, and not talking much in public, because they are afraid that it will be bad if they say the wrong thing; Caring too much about other people's words and deeds is very concerned about what others think of you, and in fact, it is also a manifestation of being too concerned about yourself.

Be good at ridiculing, good at self-deprecation, sometimes everyone is laughing together, just someone is kind to have fun, you put down your own shelf, talk with others, no matter how immature your opinion is, say it, try to express your inner feelings, contact more extroverted people, go to more crowded occasions, after a long time, you will naturally be lively and cheerful, and you will be full of confidence in yourself.

2. Introversion is also a manifestation of lack of self-confidence.

Introverts are often very unconfident and wandering, for fear that they will be disgusted by others if they have some negligence and do not do things well. In fact, you don't have to, as long as you do your best, before doing anything, you or grind to have a full preparation, what you want to say, what you want to express, first make a rough list, there is a spectrum of psychology, and when the time comes, show all these according to what you think, don't be submissive, hesitation will cause introversion of character.

3. Introversion and extroversion are only differences in personality, it can also be said that each personality has its own advantages and disadvantages, and extroverts may not all be good. In any case, I think happiness comes first, and only when you are happy, can life be glorious.

Friend, you must be sad, right?

I don't know anything about body shape, so you can look it up online or ask a friend.

However, I don't think the fundamental pain for you is your appearance.

Actually, your boyfriend didn't break up with you because of his size. Perhaps, but it's superficial. Have you ever thought that someone who truly loves you will not break up with you because of some lack of your body?

You know, true love is the unity of the souls of both parties. The appearance is only temporary, and it is the heart that can really make both parties last for a long time.

So, in this way, even if you have a good body, you will not be able to last long. Don't be too sad, there will always be someone who truly loves you.

There's no need to put a lot of thought into what he does, because it won't do you any good. Think more about something positive and constructive.

It will take a while, but if you are willing, and if you work hard, you will definitely overcome!

There will always be setbacks in life, and it's important to face them. Aren't you good-looking? Don't you still have a lot of good points?

Everyone has shortcomings and strengths, and it's important to face them and not just focus on them. At the same time, don't worry too much about yourself. Everyone needs to change, grow, and focus more on the person you aspire to.

A person who can break up with you because of his body shape, what is there to care about?

Don't want this kind of person, it's a waste of your youth!

How to overcome low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem is detrimental to one's own growth and development, and it also hinders normal interactions with others. Failure and lack of objective evaluation are the main causes of low self-esteem. To change this, we must first raise awareness and evaluate ourselves correctly.

In fact, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and for people with low self-esteem, they should be good at discovering their own psychological strengths. Calmly analyze whether the expectations and evaluations of the people around you are objective and well-founded, and do not negatively and subjectively deny yourself.

1. Affirm yourself.

By listing each of your strengths and looking at them with appreciation, you will establish a strong belief in your psyche that you are a valuable, capable, and unsuccessful person. Analyze yourself objectively and correctly, neither doubt your full ability because of a certain aspect of the flaw, nor be self-degrading because of a momentary failure, so that you can establish good social relationships.

2. Adjust expectations and express yourself appropriately.

If expectations are too high or too low, it is difficult to have a successful experience, and the inferiority complex is often formed due to frustration and doubts about one's own ability in the process of expressing oneself. People with a strong sense of inferiority may wish to choose more goals within their ability, pay attention to the accumulation of success, and gradually establish self-confidence. Because, after the individual properly demonstrates his or her talents, he is bound to be affirmed by those around him, and once he or she discovers his inner potential, he or she will become more confident and aggressive in order to achieve greater achievements.

Adjusting one's expectations, narrowing the gap between ideals and reality, and expressing oneself correctly are indeed effective ways to overcome low self-esteem.

3. Face up to your shortcomings and actively compensate yourself.

As long as you face up to your own shortcomings, do not feel sorry for yourself, but work hard to make up for them, after all, "where there is a will, there is a way".

Playing to strengths and avoiding weaknesses is also a good way to compensate. Those who are not good-looking can compensate for it by cultivating inner beauty and talent; Those who are intellectually deficient can play to their strengths in sports and skills. There is more than one path to success, as long as you have enough confidence in yourself, you can also conquer the world.

4. Hone your will and improve your character.

Only with good will and character qualities such as strength, courage and perseverance can we be able to move forward bravely in actual life and work, without fear of difficulties and obstacles, difficulties and setbacks; Only then can we always have lasting self-confidence, refuse and overcome inferiority.

5. Be wary of signs of low self-esteem.

over-reacting to criticism;

often feel criticized;

Avoid others; overly positive reactions to compliments and flattery;

Trying to control and defeat others.

Compare your strengths with them.