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Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that you suffer losses, be deceived, even your ordinary falls are the most valuable experience in your life What you have to do is to accept all this Cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, and fraternity are even the most painful things. Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.
Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much. You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm! I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself!
In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely. So, isn't it all a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened?
Is that right? For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc.
People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them. Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live?
Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied? So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body.
That's why people feel tired! In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life? In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it.
Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life! Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.
There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! So much to the point. You should work harder to face life.
Even a storm is a necessary part of your life! May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)
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Talk less, it's the easiest way to live!
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Leave everything to time and don't hold yourself back too much.
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If you think simply, you can live simply.
The smaller the expectation. The less disappointed.
If you can't force it, let it go.
Fight for what you can!
People, give yourself a suitable position! ·
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People with feelings will care about everything around them, and worries are indispensable in life, which makes you feel the ups and downs of the rhythm of life, the ups and downs of life.
Many things are actually very simple, and the more you think about it, the more complicated it is!
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To get rid of pessimism, there is no pressure in the heart. It requires positive psychological adjustment on the part of the individual.
1. Don't dwell on the negative: You probably remember how many times you were "robbed" and treated unfairly by others. Or you always say that you are unlucky, and you certainly don't have a moment of ease and happiness.
Second, improper desires and stupid people: optimistic people often feel good about themselves and have a bit of a "Madahar" spirit. Pessimistic people regret that they did not do a good job, and they unconditionally achieve the achievements and honors obtained by others, and finally have endless desires and regrets.
Third, it is more critical than being picky: people with a sad face are not used to everything in society, and hope that everything in the world is in line with their ideal model, people should learn to be tolerant, and optimistic people are often "honest" people.
Fourth, give in once in a while: calmly accept what happens, give up what has become a burden in life, put an end to unattainable hope, and redesign a new life, as long as it is not a matter of principle, do not be overly stubborn.
Fifth, don't create interpersonal barriers: for example, if someone says bad things about you behind your back, you don't have an eye for an eye or a tooth for a tooth, which will make it more complicated. Be friendly and don't avoid the other person, and doing so will help you find the best way to be emotionally healthy.
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Life is like this, we can't avoid unhappiness and pain, so how can we make ourselves happy after experiencing these sadness and pain? I think true happiness comes from the comprehension and interpretation of pain, because it is impossible to feel happiness in a life without pain, and happiness is always relative. Only in this way can we learn to give up, know how to cherish, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, and analyze the pain in life, so that it can become a wealth of your life, an experience, a memory, a comprehension rather than pain, so that we can calmly look at the past, open life, happy life, no regrets in life, life has real happiness, not to escape and cover up, It's not even about making a smile.
Because I believe that life is for us to face, not to escape, we can be sad but we must not indulge and escape.
Zen. Liu Yan & Ouyang Yongzheng.
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