Do you have low self esteem because of poverty? Do you feel inferior because you are poor?

Poverty is not just a matter of material things and money, poverty is a constant reminder that you are worthless, that you have nothing. There are many ways to make money in modern society, and you will see countless inconspicuous people making money because of various methods, what you don't expect, what you can't do, and maybe even what you despise. But they rely on these methods to take root in the world and change the world, and you are always a wandering spirit, unable to do what you want to do, and unable to do what you don't want to do.

Poverty and spiritual abundance, talking about the ancient hermits, has nothing to do with you, you just know that when you have any need, any thought, poverty will start to remind you that you are worthless, nothing. In modern society, it is easy to just support yourself, but when you have needs and desires, no amount of chicken soup can fill the powerlessness brought about by poverty, until you can get rid of the basic threshold of poverty. <>

Never. The strength of the heart is the real strength.

I think money is a man's guts, as the saying goes: no money is absolutely impossible. I only seek to be practical, not utopian, and I have the following points:

1. Now it is a commercial society, not a bartering society, and money is the criterion for measuring commodities.

2. Whether you are in the deep mountains and old forests or the bustling city, money is a necessity.

3. The current measurement of people, with their assets, although a bit exaggerated, is actually like this.

If you don't even care about necessities, standards and other people's eyes, then you can only live in an ideal world, if you care, it will produce inferiority, but inferiority is not terrible, it will also become the motivation for your efforts.

Work hard. Confused thoughts.

Low self-esteem refers to a complex psychology composed of subconscious desires and emotions centered on the inferiority complex that a person thinks that he or his environment is inferior to others. It is related to lack of self-awareness, family economic factors, social and cultural factors, growth experience, and personal personality characteristics.

Money is not the cause of low self-esteem, what really makes you feel inferior may be because of the sense of security given by money, or the gap caused by the lack of strong possessiveness.

The role of money is limited.

There is a well-known marginal effect in Western economics, the effect of eating the first bun and eating the second and third buns is gradually decreasing, and in the end, eating it has no effect at all, and even has to be counterproductive. The same is true of the role of money, from satisfying necessary expenses to saving a little, and then to having a lot of money and even getting rich, its effect on people is getting smaller and smaller, until it is useless, or even counterproductive.

Wealth and fame, from morality, like flowers in the mountains and forests, are comfortable and multiplying. People live for a lifetime, and the grass and trees have a spring. Self-cultivation and morality, go and do something meaningful. Just spend enough money, don't let the money of desire shackle virtue.

I don't think there is anything that can make people feel inferior to being poor, and it is a sad thing to be poor but not want to make progress and only know how to take. There is a saying: Don't bully young people to be poor, I think so.

Don't feel inferior because you are poor, work hard to pursue what you want, as long as you put in the effort, you will always get what you want. If you can't achieve your aspirations after trying your whole life, it may be that your efforts are not in the right direction, or the goals you set are unrealistic, or that your personal environment is in a problem that limits your personal development, and most people are unable to achieve their ideals despite their best efforts. None of the three reasons will make people feel inferior.

After struggling and working hard, the inner satisfaction is sometimes greater than the material satisfaction.

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Being poor makes people feel inferior.

There is a saying in politics class that the material base determines the superstructure, and the superstructure includes the spirit, character, consciousness, etc., so a person's character will be affected by the material.

In philosophy, matter determines consciousness, economic base refers to the material base, and superstructure refers to something on the spiritual level. Without material foundation, there is no qualification to talk about spirituality. When the people of a country do not even have enough to eat, it is impossible to talk about education and art, and when a person does not even have enough to eat, he will not take into account dignity and shame.

In addition, at present, most people in China do not feel poor, because we have basically achieved a well-off life, food and clothing without worry, if it is really a problem to eat and wear, it will feel inferior, and this inferiority complex will become the driving force for you to work hard, as long as the inferiority complex exists, the motivation has always existed, and the stronger the inferiority complex, the stronger the motivation, in the end, either you achieve achievements, or you will always be defeated by inferiority!

Some people may think that as long as people are poor, they will definitely feel inferior, but in fact, it is just a psychological confrontation, and there is a tendency to feel inferior. In the end, normal people will come out. Low self-esteem is a mental illness, which will be reflected in thoughts, personalities, and behaviors, and will have a very long-term or even lifelong impact.

The so-called "poor" is not an appropriate expression, it should be material scarcity. Many people with backbone and ambition have huge spiritual wealth, and they will not feel inferior because they are poor, lose their ideals and beliefs, and lose their hope and vision for a better future. is like Sun Shaoping in "Ordinary World", normal people are like this.

In the face of material scarcity, we should learn to self-enlighten and self-explanatory emotions. There are only a few who are born to be rich in the second generation, and more are ordinary people, you can't compare and be vain, read more books and study, and use your emotions to study hard and work, and you will get better and better.

I rarely feel inferior because I am poor, but in the past, my inferiority complex was quite "intriguing", and now it seems that it is not necessary at all.

When I was in middle school, I was very sensitive to age, and even more so about my own age.

I heard my mother say that because when I was in kindergarten, the policy restricted the age of children, and my age was just stuck and I couldn't go to school, so I went to kindergarten for one more year and went to primary school one year late.

Later, I heard my mom casually mention that if she and my dad had bought a cigarette and bribed the principal of the elementary school, I would have been able to go to the first grade a year earlier, after all, we are all from the same village.

Then I remembered it, and every time I saw someone in my class who was a year younger than me, I would complain that my parents had saved money for a cigarette and delayed my youth for a year.

This realization has always been with me, and the older I get, the more age has become a topic that I am ashamed to talk about, and even let me fall into the whirlpool of inferiority complex for a long time.

When others talk about age, I always feel embarrassed, and even deliberately avoid it.

Fortunately, after struggling in the whirlpool of inferiority complex for a long time, I learned to save myself. Age is just a sign of your past choices and experiences, just work hard at your own pace.

Many parents will often cry poor in front of their children, such as "We work so hard to make money, the money is spent on you, and now we have no money", "We don't have the money to buy you new clothes and new toys, just take the old clothes and play with them", ......These children can only wear other people's old clothes and play with other people's old toys, because he has been instilled from an early age that money is not easy to come by, and studying hard is also to be able to earn money in the future, his heart is full of desire for money, and all the efforts he has made since then are to get money.

In fact, we do not deny that children will become thrifty and sensible because of their parents' "poverty", but in the long run, children's hearts will become inferior, and their desire for money will become crazy. It's a pity that many parents are not aware of the harm of crying poor and continue to implement this education law.

1. Why do parents "love" to implement poverty education for their children?

1. I hope that children will develop a good habit of thrift and thrift.

Some parents deliberately "cry poor" in front of their children, for fear that their children will become profligate because of the money in the family, and will refuse when their children want anything, and even do not buy gifts for their birthdays, so they send a big red flower to show encouragement. They think that in this way, the child will become thrifty and not spend money indiscriminately.

2. Prevent children from developing the habit of comparison.

Some parents are worried that buying things for their children will make them care too much about material things, and even compare with others, so it is better not to buy anything, and directly "cry poor" in front of their children and say that they can't afford it, so that they can keep their children away from material comparisons.

3. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility.

Parents cry poor in front of their children and want their children to fully understand the difficulty of making money, so they will often say, "It's too difficult to make money, you can grow up and make money to help us share it!" "They think that in this way, they can cultivate children's sense of responsibility from an early age, understand how difficult it is to make money, and know how to share.

When some reasonable requests of a child are cruelly rejected by the parents in the form of crying poverty, it will have an indelible impact on the child's psyche. It will prematurely make the child's soul suffer undeservedly, and make the child become inferior, introverted, and picky.

Second, crying poor education will lead to children's inferiority complex of "you are not worthy".

Have you ever felt envious because someone else owns a luxury car or a famous car? Have you ever felt sad because your girlfriend dislikes the poor and loves the rich? Have you ever been jealous because your efforts are not as effective as a sentence from the rich second generation?

At the end of the day, all of the above troubles are caused by poverty, and in today's society, the gap between the rich and the poor is so wide that the poor get poorer and the rich get richer. In a life full of material desires, poverty will bring a series of troubles and troubles, but will poverty make you feel inferiority complex in your bones?

Low self-esteem refers to a psychological state in which there is a gap between the psychological and the reasonable standards prescribed by the heart, resulting in wrong identification and judgment, and leading to low mood. The inferiority complex is manifested in the formation of a wrong understanding of oneself, the lack of self-confidence, the constant denial of oneself, and the always think that oneself is bad, so it will be timid to do things, dare not express, and lack assertiveness. Psychologist Adler mentioned in the book "Inferiority and Transcendence":

Everyone has an inferiority complex at different stages, including in childhood, people are always asking themselves to grow and progress, and when their hearts are not satisfied, they will induce inferiority complex.

Poverty is a factor that can induce low self-esteem, but the general environment is the dominant factor that affects a person's mood.

First, in our impression, people will have such a consciousness: everyone is in a different social class, from ancient times, power and money reflect a person's social status, the ancient emperor has supreme power and wealth, and the position of the supreme ruler is unshakable. If people think that poverty represents the lowest level, they will think that they are inferior to others, which will magnify their inner inferiority.

Second, now the society is full of material atmosphere, there are a few people who can regard money as dung, and there are countless people who have become money slaves, so in life or work, poverty will make you receive different treatment and feel different atmospheres, and the gap between the rich and the poor will make you suffer a certain blow both materially and spiritually, and it is also difficult to feel inferior.

Yes, children from poor families are only deeply powerless.

Some people say: "In a poor family, while instilling in the children the idea that the family is poor, they say that they are not bad for money, but when you need the money necessary for life, they say this and that." In fact, the vast majority of children living in such families know that they are thrifty, but every time they ask for money after being told like this, they still carry a sense of shame and guilt.

Many people living in poverty will have this mentality, and they will have a sense of guilt when they spend their parents' money.

There is a saying that "the children of poor families are in charge of the house early", and this sentence is indeed true. How can the poor have any self-confidence? The academic performance is not comparable, the talent has never been learned, the appearance and personality are not good, and the rare tenderness of others to themselves is already a gift, isn't it?

Don't dare to cause trouble, and if you are bullied, you can only swallow the bitter fruit.

Children of poor families, when do you feel powerless?

Some netizens have always had an inferiority complex, and this inferiority complex has never left. "When I was a child, I didn't have anything, and when I grew up, I felt that I was not worthy, and when I got something a little more expensive, my first feeling was not happiness, but fear, I felt that I was not worthy, twisted and pinched, and was afraid. ”

Some people said: "Since I was a child, I wore clothes given by others, cheap clothes that were sold on sale, and when I grew up, no matter how much I liked the clothes, as long as the price was expensive, I felt that I was not worthy, and I felt very afraid." This is probably the psychology of many people, because their desires were not satisfied when they were young, so they were used to suppressing themselves, and finally felt that they were not worthy of anything.

Children of poor families, when do you feel powerless?

A friend of mine said this before, she said: "Because my family is poor, I am worried that I will not be able to get into college, I am worried that I will disappoint my parents, and I am so stressed that I am almost depressed." Because his family is poor, he retreats when he meets a boy he likes who is better than his family, and he doesn't even have the courage to confess. ”

The poverty you have experienced, your parents have also experienced, your grievances, in the eyes of your parents are even more sad, parents for you to live a better life, pay a hundred times a thousand times the effort and sweat, would rather suffer themselves, than let their children suffer.

Maybe your parents didn't bring you much wealth, but they gave you life and raised you, and that's the best gift for you. Don't hold grudges or envy others. Your own is the best!

You have to be considerate of your parents' difficulties, she must have done her best.

You can make changes for this family, make yourself stronger, poverty is just a stage, not a state, I believe you have the power to change all this.