Don t expect others to save you when you re alone

Updated on psychology 2024-03-06
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You haven't rescued anyone either, don't take other people's kindness for granted.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Warm that person will always cherish you the most.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, so don't complain too much.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Only your family will care about you, and the rest of you will not have time to care about you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You are so right, no one in the world pities you, except for your parents, there is nothing to be nostalgic for, the beauty in the world is only used for politeness and wishes, and it does not exist in real life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Well, that's true, but we always expect other people to do what they want them to do, and usually forget whether others can do it, whether they like to do those things or not, I think they should do it, and the results that don't match their expectations will be sad...

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, it is not absolute, but the person you meet is not right, you can tell your feelings directly to the other person, whether the person cares or not, he must know the consequences of doing so.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sometimes it's not easy to be disappointed if you take things lightly and take your weight lightly, and sometimes you care too much and are easy to be disappointed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Never expect anything to be gained, because you tend to get nothing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, the most important thing is yourself, and you will not be too desperate to give yourself hope. Loving yourself is the best reward for yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Sometimes I accidentally fall into it, and when I find out, it's already sad time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Dreams are your own, hopes are also your own, pinning your trust on others is a sign of cowardice, and if you have a dream, you must be bold to chase it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I only care about myself, no one is more important than myself!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Kindness! Yes, you always have to learn to be independent

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You're whispering to him, and he's taking it as a joke!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Praise, you should do your own thing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Well, with the same feeling, the icy Scorpio ......Hehe.........

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. I don't want to mention my past to others anymore, those loneliness and desolation struggling in nightmares, or leave it to time, slowly indifferent.

    A few meters. 2. Boil a pot of tea and fold a white plum blossom.

    Hold a green umbrella and the rain falls.

    The myrtle trees bloom all over the grave and cause wind and sand.

    Whose thoughts sprout on the stele.

    In a dream, she painted under the city.

    Paint a picture of the landscape.

    Snow is falling. Buried the mille-feuille tower.

    Life and death are separated from the end of the lonely world.

    Dream a girl's graceful style.

    Play a piece of white-headed Shaohua.

    Snow is falling. Buried the mille-feuille tower.

    Like the moon in the mirror, he doesn't know whether it's true or not.

    The oath of Chang'an, the history books have not been written.

    Tang Qigongzi. Hua Xu Yin" 3, cherry blossoms only bloom for one season, and true love is only once. If it's just lonely, don't love me.

    4. You said that you know the end of life, I did this growth and you see, you said that no matter how lively you are, you will eventually need to be separated, I did this life and you see, you say cold and warm self-knowledge, I did this winter flowers and summer snow to see with you, you said that you love the good old days, I made this ukiyo-e depicting the golden embroidered phoenix and you see.

    You said that you should be worried about the high places and the cold, so I will give up the rivers and mountains to please you.

    At the end of the day, sadness is just a conversation with loneliness.

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    Partial life should be flowered, and this urgent situation should be passed

    5. In this life, we have to walk many roads, there are straight and smooth roads, and there are sheep intestines; There is the scenery of spring, and there is the desolation of winter. In any case, you have to walk the road by yourself, and you have to eat the hardships by yourself, and others can't help. Looking up at the stars in the sky and looking back at the footprints left behind, we have been trekking in loneliness and persevering in loneliness.

    As long as you are willing to walk, all you have stepped on is the road; As long as you don't evade and retreat, the applause of life will eventually ring out for you.

    6. I used to think that love is the whole of life; One day, however, I realized that it was only part of the time I had wasted. I used to think that if I fell in love, I wouldn't be lonely; However, one day I found that loneliness still fell in love with me.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Lonely and proud.

    Lonely: lonely; Standard: The standard is high. Lonely and self-appreciative, proud of the world. The original description of the chrysanthemum is an independent form. It is a metaphor for the arrogance of the personality and the non-conformity with the vulgar.

    Arrogant. Lonely: lonely; Pride: Pride. It refers to being arrogant and withdrawn, and it is difficult to get along with others.

    One man no man. It takes two to tango. The metaphor is that the power is lonely and difficult to accomplish.

    Alone. Only: Alone. Refers to being alone. It is also known as "only shadow solitary form", "only shadow single form".

    Puppet Shadow Travel. Even: spouse, partner. Take the shadow as a companion and travel alone. The metaphor is lonely.

    Alone. Alone.

    Lingding is lonely. Lingding: Lonely, no support. Lonely and miserable, without support.

    Standing alone, hanging from each other.

    Cocoon: The appearance of loneliness; 孑: lonely; Shape: refers to the body; Hang: Condolences. Alone, only with their own figure to comfort each other. Described as helpless and very lonely.

    Hanging from each other. Hang: Condolences. Alone, only with their own figure to comfort each other. Described as helpless and very lonely.

    Lonely and weak. The forces are lonely and weak. It means that there are few people and horses, which is not enough to resist the predicament.

    The roots are lonely and thin. The power is lonely, and the intelligence is shallow.

    Alone. Describe loneliness and hardship, helpless. The words come out of Jin Li Mi's "Chen Qing Table": "Zero Ding is lonely, as for the establishment." ”

    Lone hanging figure. It is said to be alone.

    Zero Ding is lonely. Lonely and miserable, with no one to rely on.

    No relatives and no reason. There are no relatives and old people. Describe loneliness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    With others, we are always in a social state; It is only in solitude that we approach the state of nature.

    Loneliness is walking towards oneself. When we don't have to be forced to talk to others, we have time to talk to ourselves.

    Writer Yang Daxia pointed out that turning loneliness into value.

    Social interaction can reflect a person's external worth, but loneliness can shape a person's inner value.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Whenever the New Year comes, everyone will say to each other: all the best, all wishes come true! If life is going to surprise me, I hope that the one that I have been working on with all my heart, dedication and dedication to will have amazing results in 2019.

    Some people do a lot of things in their lives, and some people only do one thing in their lives, and I am the little person who focuses on doing one thing, pursuing the concept of only doing one important thing and going all out. Half-heartedness will only lose oneself, and there is only one most important thing, and that is to let yourself do the most important thing at the moment. Surprises are for those who are prepared, although it is not yet known when the surprise will come, so the only thing that can be done now is to do the daily things well and beautifully to the extreme, hoping that when the surprise comes, there will be enough to catch it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If life is going to surprise me, I hope it is health. Because my body is not as good as a year after I have entered the aging order, my health has become my most critical and most important priority. With a healthy body, I don't get sick, I don't have to be hospitalized, I can live independently, I don't suffer from illness, I don't cause trouble to my children, I want to be healthy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If life surprises me, I hope that I can travel through the past, make up for my regrets, make up for my mistakes, and re-choose every step I have taken, so that it will not be too difficult. But reality is reality after all, too many regrets, too many wrong things, all gone forever, step by step into the status quo, the only thing to do is to work hard to change, not to regret, remember the lesson, move forward bravely, believe that one day, the best sunshine will shine on yourself, bathe in hope, and achieve all the things you expect.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This question is not difficult for everyone to answer, just really say what is in your heart, even if the answer is perfect. There are all kinds of wishes, big and small. Due to the different positions, different angles, different ages, different family conditions, different economic conditions, different environments, different levels of education in time, different nature of work, different contents, different understanding, depth and breadth of knowledge.

    Therefore, the content of the wishes, expectations, and hopes in your heart is also very different. There are all kinds of wishes to be realized, but also hope that every moment, there are constantly surprises, good luck comes, the mood can be understood, I am the same, in the New Year, I hope to have good luck, big surprises fall on their own heads, very natural, to meet the wishes of everyone.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    One day I will be 42 years old, and I hope to give birth to a brother or sister for my son, after all, it is easy to get money. I really don't want to be alone in the future when he grows up, when everyone else has brothers and sisters to help each other. No amount of wealth was left to him as much as someone could help him in times of difficulty.

    Sometimes I really want to persuade those who are old enough to have children and not to let their selfishness delay their children's lives. It is true that siblings also have a bad relationship, but it is still much better when there is something wrong. There are many good friends in society, but there are few reliable people when it is critical.

    The second child is not only what you like, but also a family responsibility. A hundred years from now, at least someone really remembers that you have been to this world.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There is never an if, if it is just a kind of hope and sustenance for people's life. There is no such thing as a free lunch, and there is no pie in the sky for no reason. Surprises are created by people, and if you want to surprise, you have to achieve them with your own hands and hard work.

    Down-to-earth is the last word, don't fantasize all day long about being able to get rich overnight and be able to get something for nothing.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Since I became a security guard in March last year, I have two sets of short-sleeved clothes in summer and one set of long-sleeved clothes in winter, plus a black rainproof winter suit, a pair of long-term water shoes, two pairs of military shoes in fabric, and I have been issued with 5 pairs of shoes, which are basically enough to wear and change clothes for commuting. Ten days ago, my eldest boy helped each person in my family buy a cold-proof down jacket, the first "surprise" in my life, I would not buy more than 200 yuan a piece of clothes in previous years. This down jacket should cost more than 300 yuan, and it was purchased online.

    But this is not what I want to hope for, I just hope that I can bring a girlfriend he likes home for the New Year together, and I don't know when this "surprise" will be realized.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I hope to give me a boyfriend who will make me feel safe and gentle.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let me make sure to win a jackpot of tens of millions, so that I will be happy enough to fly.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Suddenly a billionaire who claims to be my biological father appears.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I didn't have children, and when I got old, I would have more or less regrets in my heart, but it was difficult to talk about it. In a person's life, it will be very empty without children, it is okay when you are young, you have friends and relatives to accompany you, and when you are old, who will accompany you? I'm afraid it's hard to find someone to talk to, and at this time, it's not as good as those who have children and grandchildren.

    From another point of view: life without children is an incomplete life, you can't experience the taste of being a parent, and you don't know what it means to be fed. Therefore, it is better to have a child, and when you see his healthy growth, you will be satisfied.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There are many things that you can't understand when you're young, but when you do, you're no longer young. Some people don't want to be dragged down by their children when they are young, and they will choose Dink, but when they are old and need someone to accompany and take care of them, they will change their minds as they get older, and they will regret having children when they are young; There are also some people who do not want children and choose to go to a nursing home to be taken care of by a nurse when they are old, and it is possible that they adapt and get used to the situation of not having children, so they will not regret the problem of having children. People's ideas are free, we can't impose and change, but culture needs to be passed on from generation to generation, from this point of view, it is recommended that everyone do not dink, assume their own obligations, and be responsible for the society.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't know if I don't regret it, but I don't know if you don't have a chance to regret it in the future.

    Because people who will be entangled in this problem will basically give birth in the end.

    Those who really figured it out, when they thought that their lives could completely delete the option of "children", they would only be refreshed and glad that it was too late.

    Worried about regrets? Inexistent.

    In reality, there are many people who have given birth to children, and they already regret it after giving birth, but it is a pity that they can't go back. Selectively ignoring such facts, and seeing the possibility that you will regret it in the future, shows that your heart is actually inclined to give birth.

    So, don't hesitate, let's give birth. If you don't have a spouse yet, take the initiative to find a spouse. Early birth and early recovery.

    The path of a few is for those who know clearly in their hearts what they want.

    As long as there is a trace of hesitation, regret, and doubt, then there is no need to hesitate and choose the path of the majority.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Hello, I personally feel that I don't want children when I am young, and I can't talk about regrets, at least it's a regret. When some people are young, the husband and wife have their own things, and they are busy with their careers and work and have no feelings. I even feel that the child is a burden or that I can't afford to raise it.

    As you grow older, especially when you reach the age when you should retire, you will feel more or less lonely. After all, it is still influenced by traditional culture. If you have a child, even if you are not around, it is at least a kind of sustenance.

    It's also an instinctive reaction. Of course, it is not absolute that you cannot have a happy lifestyle without children. In short, with the development of the times, people's ideology, especially young people, is relatively advanced.

    Just feel happy and happy. Thank you!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    People who don't want children when they are young want to live a free and easy life, they don't want to carry their children on their backs, they are really living for themselves. If two people have been dependent on each other until they are old and have no disease**, they should not regret it! But if you have nothing to rely on, you may regret it when you occasionally see a family with children enjoying the joy of family life, but you are lonely.

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