The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment, what mistakes do women often make in ma

Women are naturally sensitive and thoughtful creatures, and Cao Xueqin's "daughters are flesh and bones made of water", which is destined to be soft hearts and intestines since ancient times. Compared with men, women are more likely to be trapped in love and are more likely to be hurt in relationships. Some of a woman's behavior in marriage seems to her to be a deep affection for the other half, but it is a wrong behavior that pushes the marriage to a dead end.

1. Focus your life entirely on your feelings. Some women deeply adhere to the concept of "husband and child" and have no life of their own at all. Every day, I was surrounded by my husband and children from the moment I opened my eyes, and I even gave up my job.

Such behavior is stupid, no man will thank his wife who is a stay-at-home wife, he will only think that it is his burden, and over time there will be a deviation in the status between the two people, and the man will lose interest.

2. Impose one's will on the other party. Some women belong to the more powerful category, like to let everyone around them do things according to their own wishes, especially in marriage, and as soon as the husband expresses disapproval, he immediately turns his face and argues in the name of "don't love me anymore". This is really an unreasonable and unreasonable behavior, after all, everyone is a different individual, and naturally they will have different ideas.

Marriage is different from love, it is to seek common ground while reserving differences and tolerate each other in order to go the way.

3. Indulge yourself in stagnation. Many women accuse their husbands of not being as attentive to themselves as they used to be after marriage, but many times it is also because women themselves no longer break through and change after marriage. For example, in life, it is lazy and lazy, and it is very boring; For example, giving up one's appearance and facing listlessness; For example, all day long I only know how to watch dramas, chat about idle days, etc., which will make me regress and make my husband feel that there is no point in moving forward in life.

A good marriage needs to be maintained, and a good couple also needs to be cultivated. Any relationship needs to be carefully cared for, and the slightest carelessness will lead to a loss. Therefore, women must learn to improve themselves and avoid detours.

The first mistake is that women have high expectations and blindly expect others to do something for them, the second mistake is that they always love to nagging in life and do not take into account the feelings of others, and the third mistake is that they have little patience in doing things.

The first is to have too high expectations for each other, feel that the other party should do everything for themselves, and then when two people get along, they always feel that the other party should love themselves, but the other party pays on the one hand, and it is also a mistake to often be suspicious of each other in marriage.

The mistakes that women often make in marriage are that they feel that their other half can do anything, and they are particularly better than other husbands, so they often compare themselves with others.

It is very easy for a woman to look up to each other in marriage. There will be too high expectations of the other party's bag, in fact, this is not necessary.

If the expectations in the marriage are too high, you may face disappointment, and of course you may not face disappointment. The key is to see how you adjust your mindset and what kind of life you want to live.

In ordinary life, I believe that many people are thinking about what kind of marriage is the most suitable. However, there are also many people who know that marriage is not what you want to do, the key is how you manage the marriage. Of course, there are also some people who have high expectations in marriage, and always hope that men and women will know their love and concubines.

But we also know that expectations are too high and it's easy to be disappointed, and there are many reasons for this. But if we want to manage our marriage well, we also need to start from the following aspects:

1. Adjust your mentality

In fact, the mentality of doing anything is very important, if you can't adjust your mentality in time, you will often push a thing to the bottomless abyss. In the face of such a situation, it is still recommended that everyone be cautious. For marriage, nowadays it is either free love or blind date, but two people will enter the palace of marriage only if they have an emotional foundation.

After all, there are really few marriages that are forced to buy and sell nowadays.

Since two people have an emotional foundation, they need to adjust their mentality in time. In the face of this marriage, after all, there will be firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in the marriage, and how we deal with these trivial things in life is the way to manage the marriage, of course, we can also avoid disappointment.

2. How to manage a marriage

In my daily life, I see that my friends around me are very happy, and I think they are doing a great job in their marriage. In fact, when such a situation occurs, everyone should think about it in advance, in fact, the situation of each family is different, it does not mean that every family can manage the marriage well, and of course, it does not mean that every family cannot manage the marriage well. Therefore, when we face marriage, we should not only be cautious but also learn how to manage marriage.

After all, we can avoid disappointment after managing our marriage well, and of course, we can make our lives better and better.

In fact, when it comes to a marriage, everyone's thoughts are different, as for disappointment, expectations, or even hopes, the situation that exists in each family is different. Since it is different, we accept it calmly with a peaceful mind. I believe that in the near future, we will manage our marriage better and better.

After all, this is the life we want. In addition, everyone is struggling with how to manage their marriage in the end, but in fact, the problem they face in the end is how to manage their marriage and how to adjust their mentality.

Yes, because I had very good expectations for marriage when I wasn't married, and the feeling after marriage changed completely.

Of course. The higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment, so let's not be too demanding of marriage. And don't put any hope on others, you must put it on yourself. You can control your own destiny and your own mood.

Be. Because if the expectations are too high, the greater the disappointment. You will feel that you can't do it.

Yes, as the saying goes, high expectations are high disappointments, so we shouldn't have too high expectations for each other, just be appropriate.

Yes, because marriage is a very complex, very large matter, and the more hopes we bet on it, the greater our expectations for it, the more likely it is to be disappointed.