I can t control the quantity, I can t see people talking, I see the wind making the boat, what to do

The country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, this is determined by the person's character, there is no way to change it at once, it is recommended to communicate with the kind of sleek friends together, play, and see how he deals with the problem. Let's try to change myself a little bit.

Being honest is a blessing, but it should be that kind of honesty. To be honest is to work hard and be a down-to-earth person. Such people are often highly skilled, have good character, and live and work smoothly.

Sometimes it is inevitable to suffer a small loss, but it is not too careful, if you can still laugh at this time, then this person really has a good life, calmly. Your situation shows that you are not an honest person, you are dedicated to the interests of the future, and you just want to flatter yourself, what role will you play in a TV series? I don't know what kind of line you do, but the work should be down-to-earth, real, whether you are a worker or a trader, you will be welcomed by leaders or customers, and your work or business will naturally go smoothly.

If you want to improve your position is to enhance your own value, for example, if you are skilled, then you don't need to flatter, the leader will naturally use you. You may say that you have limited ability or do not know how to improve your value, then go to a skilled industry, such as welding, maintenance and so on. If you have an academic qualification, then learn English, computer science, etc.

But if you want to learn to get ahead, you have to work hard. Opportunistic things are not reliable in the end. And you blindly whisper and flatter, which is annoying.

In addition, be diligent and thrifty, but also be generous, that is, when the money should be paid, and when it should not be out. Spend when you should spend, don't spend when you shouldn't. If your work environment is like this, that is, you are all sycophants, then you should leave as soon as possible and find a real job, otherwise you will be in a struggle for the rest of your life.

If it's just that you have flattery in your heart, and the environment is not, then work honestly and don't be too greedy.

There are many such people, and there is no need to have psychological pressure; Having more contact with friends, and needing someone who can confide in you, has been by your side to spur you on, this will make you change a lot, but you also have to listen to what people say, think, and ask why if you don't understand. Especially in everything, anyone should think about it in their hearts first, the world is relative, then anyone and food are also relative, such as quarreling with friends, then whose fault is not the most important, the important thing is how to maintain this friendship. You don't have to find out the wrong person, and then criticize others, that time, you think about things from all angles, look at problems, you can learn more, you think from the perspective of your opponent, although not necessarily the same idea, but the general direction will not be wrong, you stand in the perspective of a bystander to see the world, think more.

Many times, it is also a good thing for people to be honest, and there will be gains if they lose, and you can figure out that you can do it if you think you can do it, and you can't force it.

Hahaha.

You're the quintessential teenager.

Lack of social experience.

You'll know the results in a few years.

This is the potential of the great man bai, I believe in myself, my ears are soft and fickle, I know how to know the times, I don't hold grudges.

A guy with a lot of topics, genus.

In the end, it's all mediocre followers. The world needs a guy like you, please keep up. In addition, congratulations, women love you the most. Don't worry, it's a late bloomer, you're only 18 years old, what are you anxious about.

It's all up to you.

After all, everyone has a love for beauty.

So as long as you grasp the actions and hearts of the other person.

You're successful lovers.

It's right not to look at the surface, but how can you really be inside, that is, get along, or no one has a perspective eye! You get along first and see, don't be in a hurry to have any substantive contact, don't let the other party get you casually, you observe, whether he is in a hurry, whether he is in a hurry because you didn't give it to him, he has become different from before, you fall in love again, the feeling you experience is the most real. If you think he has given you happiness and beauty, then he is good!

It's actually a very simple thing.

In life, what is the most valuable and precious, that is, time.

If a person is willing to spend energy and time on you, in addition to his life, work and normal social interaction, he still has time to spend time?

Alas, it is also true that you can't look at people at the surface. But you can't be bitten by a snake once, and you'll be afraid of the well rope for ten years. There are still good boys.

There are many men who are not attentive, and there are few who are not lustful, and it is normal for you to not be able to guess the hearts of the people over time, just as we can't guess the women.

Don't guess, just look at it, believe in your own eyes, naturally other people's opinions still have to be listened to, many boys still want to ask you girls what it is, it's hard to understand, you can't answer this answer at all, there are still some men in this world who are men and women, this can't be said, as for whether men don't have a heart and a color, there must be an ironclad one, and it's good to be a woman, this is not a distinction between men and women.

It's not a "flower" person at all, what do you want him to do, as long as he is a responsible person, he is worth getting along.

No matter how honest a boy is, he will be attentive, as long as you do it, make your boyfriend feel that it is not easy to catch up with you, and he will cherish you.

It will be helpful for you to study the constellations, remember the constellations and look at the solar calendar.

There are those who don't care. It's not normal if it's not colored.