My boyfriend said we weren t going to get married and we d break up sooner or later

Then prepare for both.

Can't get too involved.

Since the boyfriend said this before marriage, even after marriage, there will be more serious words than this.

Love yourself well, if you don't love you, let him go.

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years, but he has stressed to me a few times that it is impossible for the two of us to have a future and will not get married, and that sooner or later we will break up. I hadn't thought about it, and I knew I might not have a future, but I was very upset when he told me personally. What should I do in this situation?

I feel like I love my boyfriend so much that I don't want to break up with him, but. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years, but he has stressed to me a few times that it is impossible for the two of us to have a future and will not get married, and that sooner or later we will break up. I hadn't thought about it, and I knew I might not have a future, but I was very upset when he told me personally.

What should I do in this situation? I feel like I love my boyfriend so much that I don't want to break up with him, but I don't think it's a good idea to think about what he said, we met and were together when we were studying abroad, and we both are still studying abroad, and I don't think he's playing with me, but we're talking about college from high school, and I'm very uncomfortable when I think about him marrying someone else, and I don't think we're going to be married to him, and I don't think we're together, especially at this age, but I'm so upset when I hear him say that.

If you want to never get married for the rest of your life, then you should communicate with your boyfriend beforehand, and if he can accept it, you can be together. But if you're only temporary, you'll change later, just without thinking about marriage. If you are still afraid of marriage, then you can communicate with your boyfriend and slowly make adjustments.

You might get married. But if he wants to get married and have children, and you don't agree, he may break up.

You just want to fall in love with your boyfriend and don't get married, and I personally think that it is possible that the other party thinks the same way, so you don't need to have a psychological burden, and it is possible that when you want to get married, the other party may not be willing.

Then you have to negotiate with your boyfriend, tell him the truth, and see if he will not get married, if your boyfriend plans to get married and wants to have a child, you may make him disagree with it and may choose to break up with you.

Personally, I think that when he finds out about your idea, he should choose to break up with you, because he will feel that you don't really like him, you just fall in love for the sake of falling in love and don't give your sincerity.

Looking at your boyfriend's current state, if you just want to fall in love and don't think about getting married, you will naturally not break up with you.

If you have this kind of thought, then you have to make it clear to your boyfriend to see if he can accept it, if you accept it, you will continue to be together, it is normal not to accept that he wants to break up with you, don't deceive, be frank and say what you think.

This is disrespectful to your boyfriend, most of the time your boyfriend will choose to break up, after all, only being in love and not getting married will make your boyfriend not feel your sincerity, and not getting married also means that your concept of love is incorrect, so your boyfriend will still break up with you.

This must understand the boy's inner thoughts, whether it is the same as you, but it needs a temporary one, or it needs to be a lifetime.

Yes. Because the other party can't accept a relationship without the protection of marriage, there is a high chance that they will break up.

Absolutely. Because you don't have the idea of getting married, the two of you don't have the same mind.

I talked to my boyfriend for four years, and he said that he would not marry me, and proposed to break up, and I thought I should break up with him. First of all, after talking for four years, the other party doesn't marry you, and they don't love you enough at all. Secondly, there is no happiness in barely being able to.

Plus, you're wasting too much time on him and should stop your loss.

Some girls have been in a relationship with their boyfriend for several years, but the end result is that the other party does not marry you and proposes to break up. Faced with this situation, the end of girls is often very tragic, and most of them will humbly beg each other not to leave them. Personally, I think you should break up with each other decisively.

There are several reasons for this.

First of all, after talking for four years, the other party doesn't marry you, and they don't love you enough at all. If a man really loves you, he may want to marry you after a year of love with you. If a man talks to you for four or three years and doesn't marry you, it proves that he didn't think about marrying you at all, or that he doesn't love you enough, he just rides a donkey to find a horse and uses you as a spare tire.

If he finds someone better than you, he'll dump you right away. Since the other party doesn't love you enough, there is no need to keep it.

Secondly, there is no happiness in barely being able to. If you beg the other person not to leave you now, even if he doesn't break up with you, you and him will not be happy together. Because it's a matter of time before he leaves you, soft-heartedness doesn't mean he really loves you, and being touched doesn't mean that he really can't leave you.

The relationship is a two-way street, there will be no happiness if you are barely together, and the twisted melon is not sweet. Girls should be chic, and breaking up decisively is the best choice.

Plus, you're wasting too much time on him and should stop your loss. A girl has several four years, you have already wasted too much time on someone who is not worth wasting time for him, and should learn to stop losses in time. If you're still going to be with him, you're likely to waste another year or two for him, or even longer.

If you have this time, why don't you find someone more worthy, at least it won't be worse than him.

The above is my attitude towards a girl whose boyfriend proposes to break up.

1 What should I do if my boyfriend proposes to break up? Don't blame yourself. Many girls always blame themselves for being broken up at the first time, whether they did too much before, what they did wrong and didn't apologize to the other party, whether they didn't do well enough when they got along, and then had the urge to beg the other party to keep and start over.

2 Since you have said that you have broken up, don't regret it, the other party has not responded, there is no intention to take the initiative to retain, and you have tried hard to apologize, and if you keep it, there is still no result, which means that the relationship between two people has come to an end, so don't force it to stay, it is also mutual respect to get together and disperse, no longer hurt, clean up your mood, and continue to find the right person. 3 Have a good cry. Find your best girlfriends, talk to them, and cry to them.

I believe that tears really have a healing effect, and it is much better to cry out with all my strength than to endure silently by myself.

4 Don't listen to sad love songs. When I fell out of love, the whole world was bleak, and I really wanted to stay alone in a corner that no one could see, and listen to sad songs repeatedly, and those sluggish lyrics seemed to be bosom friends. Stop, so that you will be mired in the memories and will only make yourself more miserable.

Say no to him and ask what to do if you break up.

In the relationship between men and women, if there are any kinds of performances, it means that you have "exhausted"?

1. No longer respond quickly to the other party's messages.

If two people love each other, they must especially want to see each other's messages, and no matter how busy they are, they will reply as soon as possible, afraid that the other party will be worried because of their slow reply. But if two people don't care about each other anymore, they will be indifferent when they see each other's messages, and sometimes they will not reply for many hours, or even disconnect. If two people are not as close as ordinary friends, they should learn to let go, because such feelings are not worth nostalgia.

2. Reluctance to date each other.

When two people are in love, they want to be with each other every minute and every second, even if they are busy at work, they will find time to go on a date; But after the relationship between the two people faded, they didn't have the heart to see each other at all, and they wouldn't miss each other if they didn't date for a week. This can show that there may be a problem in the relationship between two people, or they have fallen in love with someone else, and the other party has become dispensable, which is the manifestation of "fate".

3. It is unacceptable to think that the other party has more shortcomings than advantages.

When two people are in the stage of passionate love, then in each other's eyes, each other's shortcomings will become particularly cute. In the eyes of others, their lovers are very ordinary, but they seem to be with light, this is "in the eyes of the lover", love a person will also love all of him. But if after the fate is over, you will always see the shortcomings of the other party, crying, coquettish, making little money, and looking average, which cannot be accepted by yourself, and you will especially doubt your own vision, why did you fall in love with such a person in the first place.

I will always complain about the other person's shortcomings and hope that he will correct them, but even if he has changed, he will still find other faults. A true lover should not be in such a state, being so picky can only mean that there is a problem in the relationship, and love has disappeared.

You should take the initiative to understand the reason for the other party's situation, if it is because there is no affection between two people, or because of practical reasons, you should stop the loss in time, and then start a new life.

Personally, I think that at this time, you should communicate well with the other party and ask what the reason for the other party not to get married, if the other party does not love you, then let go as soon as possible, such a relationship is fruitless.

Since he brought it up, it means that he has thought it through, so there is no need to keep it, break up with him as soon as possible, sort out his emotions, and move on with the rest of his life.