The ancients said, People have three inkins , except for uncles and uncles, who else?

As a country of etiquette, China has strict norms and requirements for etiquette. From ancient times to the present, etiquette has been reflected in many aspects, such as seating arrangement, seating position, and so on.

In a big family, except for the people who are closest to the blood relationship, the others are relatives.

With the evolution of history, some old sayings about relatives have been handed down, such as "people have three non-relatives", "when relatives enter the door, they are either running for money or running for people" and so on.

Although modern society is not as cumbersome and complicated as ancient society, there should still be etiquette, especially around the Chinese New Year, people have to visit relatives and friends, once they arrive at a relative's house, the relatives will ask some questions, such as whether they are married, where to work, what to do, how much money a month and so on.

It's still acceptable to ask such a question occasionally, but when you ask it when you meet, your ears will be calloused.

Of course, relatives are also separated from each other, the relatives on the father's side are all relatives, and the relatives on the mother's side are all relatives.

Speaking of which, many people know who the "three non-relatives" refer to.

That's right, uncles, uncles, and aunts.

Why these three? In fact, it is mainly related to the family. First of all, my uncle is my aunt's husband, and I have no connection with us, and secondly, my aunt is not in charge of my uncle's family, and it is only because of my aunt's relationship that you have contact, so my uncle belongs to the ranks of the three non-relatives.

The same is true for the uncle, the uncle-in-law is the husband of the aunt, the aunt is the sister of the mother, the uncle-in-law himself is not related to us by blood, after the aunt marries the uncle, the uncle-in-law is the person in charge, because of the relationship between the aunt and the aunt, you can have a connection, so the uncle-in-law will be included in the ranks of the three non-relatives.

It's the same with my aunt, my aunt is my uncle's wife, and she has no contact with us, and she only contacts us because of the relationship with my uncle, and besides, my aunt is also one of the three inconsistencies.

Although this old saying is relatively rough, Li'er is such a reason.

It makes sense why modern people pay attention to a "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors".

Everyone has feelings, as long as you are righteous and kind to others, even if it is not related, others will help you. Relatives are just a bond between a person, relatives are far and near by themselves, after you become strong, relatives will take the initiative to come to the door, you are not as good as relatives, your relatives will definitely gradually distance themselves from you.

Modern society pays attention to a reality, "the poor in the downtown no one asks, the rich in the mountains have distant relatives", the gap between the rich and the poor is very large.

The ancient Chinese were very wise, as can be seen in the proverb.

While there are more and more colloquialisms that are being eliminated from society, there are also many new ones that follow.

The other one is my aunt. Because of these three types of people, they are not directly related to us. It won't be particularly close to us.

Generally speaking, there are aunts and uncles, in terms of blood relationship, these are all collateral relatives, and their blood relationship is not so good, so they are not close enough.

There is also a brother-in-law, after all, the brother-in-law is just a foreign surname, and he will not really be good to you.

The three non-relatives refer to relatives who are legally related to themselves, but are not actually related by blood, referring to uncles, uncles and aunts.

refers to uncle, uncle and aunt, these three people are definitely not close to him, and they will not be too close.

refers to uncles, uncles, and aunts, which is also relatively normal, because these three types of people are indeed not related by blood.

As the rural saying goes: "People have three relatives, three are not relatives", what does this "three non-relatives" mean?

As the saying goes: "People have three inconsistencies, uncles, uncles and aunts" makes sense.

As the saying goes, "People have three intimates, uncles and uncles, and the third is the least intimate", do you know who it is? People don't recognize their three relatives Relatives are still courteous People don't kiss uncles, uncles and aunts What are relatives Distance determines feelings.

The folk saying that people have three non-relatives refers to relatives, and these three non-relatives are uncle, uncle-in-law and uncle's daughter-in-law.

Uncles, uncles, and aunts are all foreigners, and they don't belong to the family originally, although there are collateral blood relatives there, but after all, there is no blood relationship, so it seems unfamiliar. Folks say that this relationship is separated by a layer, so it is difficult to have a very close idea in my heart.

"People have three inkins", and the three inkins mainly refer to uncles, uncles, and aunts, because they have no direct blood relationship with themselves, and sometimes they are difficult to get close to from the heart. That's why there is a saying about three non-kisses.

The three inconsistencies refer to the uncle, uncle, and aunt, all three of them belong to the opposite sex, and I am a blood relative, so I will not be close physically and mentally.