The people, things, and things that are most interested in people are themselves

Some time ago, I felt a lot, so I updated a few articles in a row, when I shared it, some said that I felt the same way, and some said that my feelings were sincere, and people have always been unable to withstand praise and exaggeration, so complacency came to my heart. A sudden comment made me turn cloudy from the sunny inside, and after a polite reply, I began to think. The content of the comment is probably:

The whole article is my own confession, so if someone I don't know reads it, can I feel that a little bit of it is about the reader or can help the reader? "When I saw this comment, I was unhappy at first, because I thought that the commenter didn't know what the starting point and purpose of my article was, and that writing an article was not to be simple, to write about true temperament, and what was the point of considering so many people.

Yes, I've always been like this, it's hard to accept some good advice from others, even if others are right, they won't accept it very positively, they will always go to a few words first, and then slowly think about it, and then accept it silently when they feel that it is really beneficial to themselves.

Everyone's personality is different, the age group is different, the experience is different, so of course the view on things will be different, in order not to let yourself be troubled by this matter, I also discussed with my friends some points of view about writing, some said to go your own way do not care, some said to see what the purpose of writing the article is, listen to the different opinions or still need to think about yourself. I have been bothered by this problem for several days, because I care too much about my own impression in the minds of others, and because everything must have a result, so I pay great attention to everything in life that can have this information. When you have been thinking about something, you will find that this thing will always come to you like magic, reading the second chapter of "The Parchment" at noon, the knowledge of interpersonal communication, when I saw this title, I was not much interested, when I saw the text, it was mainly told with a number of stories of interacting with people, undoubtedly curiosity drove me to continue, and when I saw this chapter, all the previous confusion was lifted.

You're right, when I started to pay attention to my performance when I interacted with people in life, when I looked at the words I used when I wrote articles, it really fit my performance, people are most interested in themselves, so the whole article is about themselves, all confessions, it seems to show themselves to all people, to gain the recognition of others, to gain more praise and praise. At the beginning, writing articles was on the one hand to find an outlet for my emotions, on the other hand, I hoped to help others, and in the process of implementation, I only cared about myself.

When you want others to do to you, do that first and foremost. When you want to be recognized and liked by others, talk more about them than about yourself. If you can learn to listen carefully to others and talk more about topics that others are interested in, you will make a good impression on others, and you will no longer be so self-absorbed and only care about yourself.

Everyone is most interested in themselves, and this is also where the great knowledge of interacting with others lies.

Gorky said, "Books are the ladder of human progress." "After reading a book, it is like taking a step forward on the road of life, and the book has an important place in every place and every era, containing endless knowledge. As long as you read with your heart, you can realize the joy in it

Every day, no matter how much homework I have, after each homework, I have to dig into the stacks of books and read it. Each book has a different story that I was fascinated by. Books can not only enhance our enjoyment of life, but also make our lives more colorful.

We enrich our knowledge and gain insight through reading, which makes our lives more fulfilling and meaningful.

At a very young age, I began to love reading. Ever since I knew that I had the book "Journey to the West", I pestered my mother to buy me a copy. Mom had no choice but to buy it. As soon as I got the book, I couldn't wait to open it and read it. This is my first time reading a book.

I remember when I was in sixth grade, when I finished my homework at home, I immediately found the newly bought book and opened it. I looked at it and threw myself into the book. At this time, my mother called me to dinner, but I didn't hear it, and I was still immersed in the world of books, and I didn't wake up until my mother shook me several times.

Books are my friend, and what interests me the most is reading.

There are definitely many things that interest you the most, such as birthdays, outings, mountain climbing, folding quilts, washing dishes, and making new friends. Wait for you to choose any one to wash, then you can do anything, choose any one Ha Ji top me!

Do what you want to do most.

Do the experiment – weigh the goldfish and try it yourself.

There are a lot of them! But you should be respected, only you know. If you are asking for an essay, I can help you compile it, and contact me afterwards.

lvyichen stayed.

I want to say something that interests me, and I make myself very happy, and then I get into it, which is very good.