Can t talk to girls? These conventions are enough for you to use for a lifetime

Be eloquent in reporting to the leader, be eloquent in social contact with people, and be eloquent in getting along with your partner in daily life, as if you can't express yourself and will be eliminated. Some people say that the success rate of people with good eloquence is at least 50%, and you are so good, don't lose in not being able to express yourself. We invited an expression expert who even Wang Han, Ou Di and other hosts admire, and asked him to help you tear off the label of "stupid".

Course Contents: Lesson 1: Getting to Know Expressiveness.

Lesson 2: Voice expressions, moving with emotion.

Lesson 3: Express yourself well and improve your self-confidence first.

Lesson 4: Observing Words and Looks, in one sentence.

Lesson 5: Be humble and win hearts and minds.

Lesson 6: The more you practice, the more you will be able to get started.

Avoid having nothing to say about the mu liquid; Avoid flim tongues; If you don't sigh, don't show what you don't understand, and don't be good at the field of quick things, don't hold on, don't pretend to understand; Ling Kai don't judge girls.

To learn to shout will find some words that the other party is interested in, learn to create a relaxed chat atmosphere with Chi Biye, often take care of the other party's feelings when chatting, and learn to guide the topic.

If at this time, the girl's interest in chatting is aroused by you, and suddenly the topic is exhausted and there is nothing to say, then the hard-won connection between you and the girl will be dissipated and lost, and the sense of trust and intimacy will also enter an extremely fragile state. In short, don't chat with girls when you have nothing to do.

When chatting with girls, be sure to follow these three principles:

1. The principle of time reciprocity.

Don't know that fighting is true love.

If you notice that a girl always comes back to you in an hour, pause for a while before replying to her. Hitchhiker.

2. The principle of word reciprocity.

Many boys like to post a large short essay, and you have to remember that not being verbose is an essential quality for men!

The number of words in the chat can be streamlined, especially when the girl will only let you "oh oh" and "uh-huh", why do you still send a large paragraph of words in the past?

And remember, when there are too many words, send them in segments!

3. The principle of not killing the poster.

Many boys, when they met a girl, they didn't reply to him for more than ten minutes, and immediately made up for the girl's dislike of him and didn't see the news, and then they desperately chased after him, and some even hit ** directly.

Boys must remember that when the girl doesn't reply to you, don't chase after her, and be sure to wait for her to reply.

It's very likely that she has something to do now, maybe she went to take a shower, maybe she is shopping, studying, etc., you must calm down!

The boys who can't hold their breath are basically rejected by the girls very quickly!

As long as you follow these three principles, you will control your heart and behave so that you will not be used as a licking dog by girls!

She has to be interested in you, or she has to be interested in the topic you're talking about.

In the topic, talk more about your feelings than just state the facts. For example: Have you eaten? Eaten. In this way, the conversation is dead, and the question-and-answer style is the most boring.

Have you eaten? You have to explain what you eat, what it tastes like, what happened during the meal, and expand the topic, and it will be endless, and finally ask her out to eat with you.

Of course, the premise is that this girl doesn't hate you and still has some feelings for you.

If girls are not interesting to you, then it doesn't matter how hard you try.

For example, if the chat starts, and you talk a lot, she simply says "oh", that is, she doesn't want to talk, because if a girl who is a little interested in you, she will naturally share her own feelings in the topic, even if she doesn't like the topic you said, she will not be perfunctory, she may directly express that she is not clear, or start another topic.

In my opinion, your question is the simplest thing, but at some point it is also the most difficult question, let's ****1, chat with the girl, first you have to know the girl's hobbies, and then start from her hobbies, you can move from one topic to another and keep talking, try to find a question that the other party is interested in, you can also find a hot time, or travel and other topics.

2. You have to learn to guide and be good at finding topics. Get the girl's preferences from the conversation, so that you find a point, there will be endless words to communicate, find the topic she is interested in, she will like to approach you, and moreover, a thoughtful girl is easy to be moved. What a girl needs most is that you can feel her emotions and be taken care of by you, so that you can really impress her.

People, with two ears and one mouth, just listen more and talk less. Any time, place, person, and event, as long as you follow this rule, will definitely make the other party open the conversation.

When interacting with girls, it is easy for boys to be in a hurry to show themselves and talk eloquently, focusing on self-presentation, ignoring the girl's thoughts and emotional needs, which leads to a hard "performance" for a long time, and the girl has already been too empty. If boys can guide girls to speak more, it is best to let girls express more, as long as boys listen quietly, respond a few words at the key point, or focus on asking questions, then girls often have a sense of confidant, the conversation box is open, and the emotional door is naturally open.

When people interact with each other, they start with communication, two people talk about life, see each other late, and emotional resonance ......Friendship and love naturally come naturally.

You can get to know the girl and then learn about some of the things she is more interested in, such as some of her hobbies, so that if you talk to her about these topics, she will definitely have endless things to say to you.

You can talk more about your common hobbies, and let the girls talk about what fun things they encountered today. Or go talk about some cosmetics that girls like.

You can talk about your daily life, the interests and hobbies of the two people, you can find some interesting arguments, and at the same time, you can also share each other's work experience, and so on.

I think that understanding the preferences of girls and chatting with them will allow them to have endless topics to talk about with you. But in addition to that, it depends on the appearance, as long as you are good-looking, girls are still willing to take the initiative to chat with you.

At this time, you can ask each other about your interests and hobbies, and you can also talk to each other about some topics that the other party is more interested in, or you can talk about the childhood experiences of two people.