Tell us when did you begin to understand your parents verbosity?

When I was a child, I always felt that my parents were annoyed to say this and that all day long, and it sounded like my parents were so many words, and I knew what they would say in the next sentence, and I didn't understand why they kept repeating so much and weren't tired? Later, when I grew up, I went out to work in the far south, the world was so big, I was unlucky, and I met a lot of bad people. I often feel lonely when I repeat my work every day, except for the occasional company of a few good classmates.

Since then, know how warm home is. I began to understand my parents and especially missed them. Those so-called verbose words have always been the love of my parents.

It was also from then on that he began to repeat the same words every day. Have you eaten? What to eat?

How's it going? Where did it go? Wait a minute.

Later, I went home, got married, and had children. When the parents are not there, they call ** to ask the child when they have time, repeating the same words. What are you doing?

Have you eaten? Where did you go? What are you going to eat?

We'll buy it for you. I felt so warm in my heart, and I knew that it was words of love. I'm glad that my children and I have always been surrounded by long-winded parental love.

Once I didn't have enough money in my bank card, I used my classmate's Tmall to buy a very valuable thing, not only precious, but I also like it very much, and I always look forward to it coming to me soon, so I unconsciously often ask my classmates if they have sent the goods, where is it. Why hasn't the logistics been updated? I know what my classmate said:

Okay, don't always ask, I'll tell you when I get there. I just felt like I was too nagging. From this, I suddenly understood why my parents were so nagging and always telling you this and that, because you were too heavy in their hearts.

They can't worry about what you do, and they always want to take care of every aspect of your life.

When I was in school, my mother always called me **, once a day, and always told me to rest assured, don't think about them, and study at ease, and I felt very nagging at that time. I didn't take the initiative to go to my mother**, and then I realized it and felt ashamed. After graduation, he was assigned to work in an engineering team in the field, sleeping in the open air, and sometimes he couldn't work in the first place, so he could only wait to return to his residence to play long distances.

I received my mother's ** is still the same, let me rest assured, they are very good, work with peace of mind, shh At that time, I felt annoyed and told them that they were busy with work and could not contact every day, and that the project had to catch up with the schedule, and I would pay attention to safety, so I hung up. Until the end of the first phase of the project, it was 48 days later, during which there was no contact with home, when I rushed home and saw my parents haggard, I couldn't hold back crying.

48 days, nearly two months of torment, my mother told me that she and my father, without my ** life like a year, all day long, and afraid of beating ** to alarm my work, so they couldn't sleep well, and finally let go of my heart when I returned safely. At that time, I really wanted to beat up my ignorant self. After this incident, I deeply realized that only home is the warmest, and my parents' verbosity is because of their love for themselves.

In the past, I always felt that my parents were nagging, taking care of everything, and trying to cheat some money. As time goes by, as I get older, I slowly and slowly communicate less and less with my parents, and the distance becomes farther and farther away! I've been boarding since high school, and I go back once a week to eat some meat, and because my parents only went to elementary school, I didn't have much intersection in my studies.

Later, I chose a university close to home, and only went home once a month after going to college, and every time I was in a hurry to eat, and then I went back to school. After work, I only go home once in two or three months, and there is no nagging from my parents around me, only the hope of being far away, hoping that I will be safe and sound, and that I will go home more often. Now I communicate with my parents through the Internet, and although I say the same thing every time, I feel guilty every time, and I can't reassure my parents when I grow up so big.

Parents are always the strongest backing for their children! Never nag your parents, because that's love for you, and they can't find a better way to express it!

Begin to understand the verbosity of parents, that is, after you have a child! Especially when the child grows up to school age, he feels more and more verbose, but he is not willing to admit that he is verbose, and he still feels that his parents are more verbose than himself. Later, when the child went to college, worked, and was also talked about by the child, he really began to feel that his parents' verbosity was a kind of love, a kind of care, and a different kind of worry!

For the verbosity of parents, everyone knows that it is for their own good, but basically no one can stand it. I used to be very impatient, and I was so verbose that I even lost my temper (ignorant). My grandfather is eighty years old, and my father is in his fifties.

Grandpa's body is quite tough, and every time my dad goes out, he will habitually nag a few words: "Come back early", "Don't delay eating", "Slow down when riding, let others pass first when you encounter a car...""Then every time I go out, my dad will tell me like my grandfather told him, I was not sensible in the early years, but now I think about it, nagging is also a way of inheriting Chinese family affection.

Many people dislike their parents' nagging and feel very annoying, although they know that their parents are for their own good, but they still feel very troubled. Of course, when many people have their own children, they know that it is not easy to be a parent, and they love their children, and begin to understand why their parents nag. This kind of experience and understanding is also the most profound.

Before the age of 30, I hated my parents' verbosity, I thought I had grown up, and I was very disgusted with my parents' verbosity. Parents' verbosity is a manifestation of love, so as children, we must understand our parents' verbosity and regard our parents' verbosity as the enjoyment of life.

I don't blame it, even if my parents had the ability to buy it, I wouldn't have taken it. One is because I'm a girl, and the second is because my parents have to go on with their lives, and it's already a great blessing that we don't cause trouble to our parents. Let's take a look at how to honor your parents.

Don't complain about your parents.

Children always hope that their parents can always be happy in front of them and create a relaxed and happy family atmosphere for themselves, but parents are also human beings first, and they will inevitably complain when they encounter unhappy and frustrated things.

Don't complain about your parents.

Parents are always accustomed to caring about their children, but also because they are too worried will be too verbose, afraid that their children will not take good care of themselves, eat badly, and dress badly, so all aspects of life will tell you in detail, but this kind of care is a little too much in the eyes of children, and it seems verbose.

But how long can parents be verbose with their children? Don't always listen impatiently to your parents' ramblings, and then complain about your parents, the next time your parents are verbose, please patiently tell your parents: "I know, don't worry." ”

Don't blame your parents for being slow.

The parents who used to lead you and couldn't keep up now need you to lead him and urge him to hurry up. When parents enter old age, the pace of life becomes much slower, and no matter what they do, they will be very slow, but children are living a fast-paced life, which seems to be the opposite of their parents.

But life should not be too fast all the time, and you also need to slow down to wait for your faltering parents, to adapt to the slow life of your parents, which can be regarded as a kind of adjustment for yourself.

Don't complain about your parents' abilities.

Parents have no choice, many children always dislike their parents for not having the ability, inability, and can't give other people's parents what their parents can give their children, but their own future needs to work hard, although parents can't give you a good starting point, but will do their best to help you reach a higher height. So please don't complain about your parents' lack of ability, those easy moments in your life are your parents carrying the weight forward.

No one is perfect, as a child, these may be difficult to do, and it is impossible to take care of all aspects when taking care of parents, but I hope that children can try their best to face their parents, so that parents can really feel your filial piety to him.

You're about to become an adult, and you're at the peak of your adolescence, and your temper is already hot, plus you don't have much communication with your parents, so it's annoying. Psychology like yours is what we call "college emotions." This sentiment is something that every student around the age of 18 has to have:

1> You have a lot of pressure at work and need to relax yourself. For example, going out with friends.

2> your parents are verbose and love for you, and those who have lost their parents since childhood, although they are very strong, do not feel the feeling of having their parents by their side. So, parental love, please cherish!

3> Your temperament is too impatient! No matter what parents do wrong, they are our parents after all! Their verbose nature is a characteristic of parents all over the world, and they care for their children! And it's your fault that you're impatient!

Now, with all that said, do you now understand what you should do with your eyes open? Hurry up and give your parents a ** and apologize to them! And do what you can to annihilate Tong and forgive them! Amen!

Because, Chinese parents are more verbose, it is the family love and sense of responsibility of "sweet calves", the selfless teaching of rich life experience, and the national cultural heritage accumulated by China's long history of scientific civilization.

Therefore, all sensible parents in China will be even more impatient and endless.

Although children don't like to listen to it, they will still have an impression after many years, and their hearts will still be warm and useful.

There is no distraction from a career travel friend or anything.

It is inseparable from one word: love.

Elders and juniors, the age of growth. The environment. The education received is different.

In their respective circles of life, they come into contact with different people and things, and their thoughts and behaviors form certain differences. If this difference is not repaired and allowed to widen, the invisible wall between the two generations will grow thicker and thicker, and misunderstandings will become more and more likely to occur. This is the generational gap of Duan Chun in the theory of heart-shaped Burning Qing, to paraphrase a modern language, that is, the so-called "generation gap".

The "generation gap" is a very normal social phenomenon, a historical event that is inevitable in time, and at the same time it is a biological event. With the development and change of society, the older generation and us, the emerging human beings, have different social experiences, and with the development of history, the social environment and social tasks in which people live are bound to be different; From a young person to an old age, the physiological changes will inevitably bring about psychological and behavioral changes As a child, after you understand this, you should also think about it for your parents. There is no parent in the world who does not love his children.

You have to be considerate of them. People, especially women, will nag when they reach a certain age. You are her children, and they will worry about it for the rest of their lives.

There are some things that don't need to be explained at all. They'll tell you over and over again. And you, think you're an adult.

Parents don't have to worry about it anymore. Your parents' instructions make you feel redundant. So the contradiction arises.

I advise you, learn to tolerate your parents' nagging. Or what you think is wordy. If you don't like to listen to it, you can pretend to listen carefully.

And they did. There will also be a lot less quarrelling. Why not.

To be honest, parents' verbosity is well-intentioned, they are worried that their children will not be able to do things, so they will urge but the children think it is verbose.