Of all the relationships, what can be done to make them more durable?

Don't be overly careful, personal gains and losses in the relationship, you have to think of paying, whether it is love, family, friendship, you have to pay to get.

In a relationship, what can be done to make the relationship more durable? First, try to ensure that each side is financially independent. Second, the other party is always only a part.

Third, keep a normal heart at all times. Fourth, don't be too accommodating. Fifth, never be too nice to a person.

Most people's first reaction will be that it is too quick to determine that the relationship will not last long, but whether the relationship can last for a long time actually has a lot to do with whether the two people are both careful to manage the relationship. The disagreement of two people's views also plays a decisive factor, and if one party does not have a strong ability to solve problems, then the relationship will not last long. How can you manage a relationship for a long time?

1. Common progress, two people want to manage their feelings well, they must have the consciousness of common progress, if two people do not progress together, then the party that makes rapid progress will get rid of the other party who is standing still, one person is moving forward, the other party is not moving, the gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, and the distance will become farther and farther, which is not conducive to the development of feelings.

2. Don't rely too much on each other, even if you love that person again, you are an independent person first, love yourself first, and then love each other. Have your own independent personality, no matter how much you can handle all aspects of your life, you can handle it well.

3. Trust each other and learn to give yourself a sense of security. In many things, leaving the choice to the other party will have unexpected gains. If you restrain the other person in everything and let the other person do what you want, so that you can feel at ease, it is a big mistake.

Some things can never be controlled, and they will only add unnecessary contradictions to the two of you.

Defining a relationship too quickly can reduce the value in the relationship of one of the partners. Two people do not know each other deeply enough, which will lead to crossing the adaptation period and directly entering the love period, and the conflict outbreak of the later breakup contradiction will also come extremely quickly, burying a deep hidden danger for the breakup or the breakdown of the relationship, at this time, we must make a careful decision based on the actual situation of the other party. Therefore, it is generally recommended to take your time in the process of establishing a romantic relationship and not to rush too much.

1. Don't be too quick to say words of forgiveness.

If the other party doesn't, give back to you with the same degree of love for you, and know how to tempt and persecute.

It's like: if you talk to the other person often, but the other person is not very enthusiastic and often perfunctory.

The cold is cold, that is, to let the other party know that your enthusiasm can only be obtained by relying on the positive response of the other party. Otherwise, even if you are cold, I will be cold.

2. It's okay to quarrel small fights, don't quarrel big fights, and don't leave overnight feuds between couples.

I don't want to argue with you about this now, I'll talk about it tomorrow. "The result is that tomorrow will be gone.

If you pay close attention, you will find that those couples who often quarrel can't break up no matter how they quarrel, but those who don't quarrel too much will break up.

3. No matter how romantic love is, it will eventually return to firewood, rice, oil and salt.

If you go on a date, you will know that he doesn't know everything, and he can help you solve everything; She's not really gentle, and sometimes she's fierce; When you are cheerful and love to laugh, you really love to laugh, but when you are negative and pessimistic, you will also be misanthropic and withdrawn, like a depressed person.

After being together for a long time, I found out that she would not wash her hair for a few days, and wear a hat when she went out to get the express; He would go days without washing his socks, as if he had a hoarding fetish.

4. If you can give the other party what they want, the other party will love you, and even love you more and more.

Boys: 1Adored 2Gentleness 3Be understood.

Girls: 1. A sense of security 2Sense of Ritual 3Be pampered.

To make a relationship more durable, then you need to work together with each other. Respect each other, understand each other, and love each other, only in this way will the relationship maintain temperature and be happy for a long time.

Be loyal to each other, never have different intentions, and show your hobbies for each other well, and put them into practice.

Good wine does not lie in drinking too much, nor does it care what brand it is, as long as it is the right person.

Everyone will yearn for love and feel that love makes people's lives beautiful, but if you want the relationship to last for a long time, you need each other's efforts, so that you can get the long-term happiness you want.

Two people want to go to a long time, hope that each other's feelings have a good result, don't do everything, let alone interfere in all things of the other party, everyone is eager for freedom and their own space, so when the other party proposes to need space, do not interfere, let the other party have their own circle, so that the other party will feel their sincerity.

Every relationship will be mixed with each other's family, and most of them will be each other's parents at a certain stage of love, especially after marriage, and they will live with each other's families. If you really love each other, you should respect each other's family, so that the other party will think that you really treat each other as a family, so that the other party will not be embarrassed. It's the same for yourself, I hope that my family can get the attention of each other, so I need each other's efforts for the sake of affection, and treat each other's family members well so that everyone will feel very happy.

Nowadays, adults are under a lot of pressure when they are not satisfied, so when the other party is unhappy or when the work is not satisfactory, you should learn to understand the other person. In fact, many times the other party just wants companionship, don't add oil and vinegar when you are sad, otherwise it will affect each other's relationship.

Relationship has always been a matter of two people, if you want to go to the long term, it should be two people working together, so that everyone can see each other's efforts. There should be a little more understanding and tolerance in the relationship, so that people will feel that their lives are respected, so that they are willing to pay for each other, and they will feel that the other person is worthy of their own.

If two people want to be in a relationship for a long time, they need to maintain frequent communication, be more understanding and tolerant, solve any problems in a timely manner, and don't contradict the problems, only in this way can they be truly long-lasting.

How long? There are many ways to do this, but the most important one is the heart. The hearts of two people are always together, they are inseparable, they will be reconciled no matter what, and even rarely quarrel, so that they will not quarrel with people whose hearts are not together.

A little thing the size of a sesame seed can quarrel and break up.

I think it means that you can be shared for a long time in the relationship, that is, two people must work together, that is, they can pay together for life

In the relationship, you definitely need to talk to your other half more about your thoughts, and in the relationship, you should still make yourself sensible and not too willful.

Two people should help each other understand each other in life, and they should also understand each other's difficulties, so that the relationship can last longer and longer.

In a relationship, two people must help each other, and they must be considerate of each other and tolerate each other in order to go long.

Dare to reflect honestly on yourself, focus on your inner feelings, and focus on your inner feelings.

There are many couples around, some have talked for a few years, the relationship is getting weaker and weaker, and finally they separated, some have a deep relationship, and finally, they entered into marriage, and they are also an enviable couple in marriage. I also wondered why those couples could be together for so many years like when they first fell in love? Doesn't their feelings pass over time?

Wouldn't they have cracked their feelings because of the quarrel?

In fact, if you think about it carefully, whose relationship can be smooth sailing, there will always be difficulties, tribulations, and setbacks in life, and when we face these, our feelings will be affected. And it is precisely because of these tribulations, setbacks and difficulties that make our feelings stronger and stronger. Because the more you experience, the more you understand the preciousness of feelings, people say that when you climb to a high place, you will receive a lot of flowers and applause, but that is not the most cherished, the most cherished is that when you are at a low point, the person who is still by your side and pulls you along.

I think the relationship is also like this, every time they go through a difficult problem, only if two people are willing to work together to face it and solve the problem, then their relationship can continue. If you just blindly avoid the problem, you can indeed get short-term happiness, but the problem will snowball, getting bigger and bigger, and eventually you still have to face it and find a way to solve it.

In addition to facing difficulties, I think the more important thing is understanding, respect, support, and trust. When the person you love makes a choice that may be a little difficult for you to understand, you can still understand him, support him, trust his choice, and respect him. Then this person will thank you from the inside out, and she will understand your goodness.

You have a relationship with him as a lover and have an emotional foundation, and this will only make him love you more, so your relationship will naturally get better and better, always like when you were in love. Because you've always maintained your heat and your love for each other.

Most of the problems in a marriage are the problems of both parties. But if you only express your partner's problems, blame and criticize him, your other half will feel that you are attacking, not only will not change, but will quarrel with you, be silent or have a cold war, and the relationship will get worse and worse. If you can start from yourself and drive your partner to change after a problem arises, the relationship between husband and wife will enter a virtuous circle.

When you get married, you must understand each other, care for each other, and forgive each other, so that the relationship can last for a long time.

To make love have a long-term and tenacious vitality, it does require both parties to be careful + patient + careful management to maintain.

When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems that it is quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as:

Understanding, consideration and trust.

These three factors are indispensable, is the essence of all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely be a wish.

Here's a little trick:

If you want to make it last, you need to keep it fresh from time to time, that is, you need to find some fatal "killers" to deal with each other's impatience, long-term sensory numbness, aesthetic fatigue, etc., and can quickly deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love at the fastest speed, and transform them into "compound" feelings that are like family affection and depend on each other. Only love with this kind of affection is the strongest and most long-lasting, and it will become more and more durable and unbreakable with the passage of time.

When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life.