My mother is divorced and was dumped by a scumbag when she was 6 months pregnant. What to do?

Make quick decisions, knock out the child, and learn a lesson. Otherwise, it will have an impact on your family and society.

Since he is already divorced, the child he conceives should be beaten off, because. She and that man are no longer family, he has abandoned you, why do you keep this child for her? What you do is to persuade the mother to resolutely kill the child.

Now, you have to go to court to sue.

Child, your mother is really naïve, people are dumping you, I don't want to be in charge, hurry up and let your mother go to the flow, you two have a good life.

What else can you do but knock the child out? And as soon as possible, the general hospital will not induce labor for more than 7 months of pregnancy. In addition, your mother is so unreliable, how confident is she to marry a 26-year-old boyfriend at the age of 37?

Does she have money or something? Life is really made of people, isn't it too normal to be deceived by someone with a mind like your mother? The whole love brain, I don't think she is as clear as you, you still have to spend some effort to help your mother check it in the future, if you are a girl, I have to remind you that if your mother wants to find you a stepfather, you have to learn to protect yourself, rely on your mother, I think it's the end.

Hello, I see your question, and I really think that your mother is particularly immature in her heart. Why did she get pregnant again and again, miscarry, and miscarry? The doctor should have warned you that if your mother continues like this, there will be serious problems with her body.

The best thing is to get rid of the fetus, since the other party can't give your mother a complete home, it's a burden to have a child, it's not too late to know that he is a scumbag now, it's better than knowing after the child is born.

This situation is actually very simple, pregnancy during cohabitation, and promise to take you over steadily, then your mother can give birth to the child, and give it to him directly after birth, in the legal sense, he is the father of the child, and has the obligation to raise the child, and having this child is the biggest punishment for him, and it is difficult to find a girlfriend in the future.

Your mother is already an adult, she should know how to deal with the crisis, you don't have to worry too much, if you have the conditions, you can raise them yourself, and if you don't have the conditions, deal with it early, don't delay.

So, if you give birth to a child if you can, the child is innocent, and if you can't, you can think about it and give it to the child.

Child, your mother's mission can't control your mother's water is such a water to scrape in her eyes, she is willing to make friends, willing to endure hardships by herself. and was six months pregnant with a Zhang Nan. What did he think?

I don't know if you don't care about your mother's business, your mother is such a person, you can't control it, he is in this life. He won't end well, he's such a person, he's such a life. After a while, it's time for him to find a boyfriend again.

If your mother's physical condition allows, of course, it is best to have an abortion, because he will not be responsible for the birth of such a man, and it is not fair to the child who is born.

If you have suicidal thoughts, I think you should kill the scumbag first and find a way to cut the root of his life, so that his life is worse than death, so that the next woman will no longer be injured and deceived, so that even if he dies, he will die well!

If you are medically permitted, you should change the city and start over, and you should remember it for a long time. It's still easy to identify people, and casual behavior is always real.

If the child is too old or he is reluctant to kill it, he will give birth to it, raise it by himself if he has the conditions, and give it to the family who wants to raise the child if he does not have the conditions. In the future, observe each other carefully before dating to see if there are any plans to get married and have children, and if not, don't continue dating.

Within the scope of the law, from the perspective of children's growth and self-rearing, they should give up, but they should consider whether it will cause harm to their own body.

Children should not be born, children are not healthy without the company of their parents, and they are the most important thing to take care of their bodies.

Particularly likable boys, you must be wary.

At this time, the purpose of this scumbag is very obvious, he chooses to abandon you after you are pregnant, he is afraid of taking responsibility, afraid that you want to use the child to blackmail him into marriage, or he just doesn't want to bear the medical expenses of beating the child. Now that you know he's a scumbag, let's give up any illusions about him first.

As for the child's problem, he can only choose to get rid of it. After negotiating with a scumbag to no avail, even if you pay for the medical expenses yourself, you must choose a better hospital and be responsible for your own body.

Don't have some compassionate thoughts, this child must not be wanted, the child born in such unhealthy growth conditions must be unhappy in the future, let him know that his parents are the result of such love, and how cruel it is to him. If you can't be responsible for him, don't let him come into this world.

And the birth of this child will have a particularly bad impact on your future life path, in short, don't ruin the rest of your life for such a scumbag.

Although experiencing such a series of blows, girls don't feel disheartened, you are a good girl, you must love yourself seriously in the future, polish your eyes, when choosing objects, you must distinguish between good and bad, don't give everything to yourself.

Although you will have a hatred for this scumbag, you don't have to bother to retaliate against him. This kind of bad person will have heaven to clean him up, and the wicked will have evil retribution after all. Work hard to live your own life, find an excellent man who loves you in the future and marry, and live a prosperous life, this is the most powerful counterattack for him!

I think you should be sensible and think about your own life.

You should kill this child first, although the child is innocent, but you shouldn't ruin your life because of this scumbag and this child. For such a scumbag, you are not worth leaving his own flesh and blood for him, if you want to get married in the future, this child will become an obstacle between you, which is very bad for you. How much more do you have to bear so much sin?

So you should let go of the past and start anew to meet a better future.

My thoughts are realistic, because this society is inherently realistic, so girls must know how to protect themselves. After girls have met scumbags, they will become emotionally mature, and they will know how to distinguish between good and bad men in the future. So you must forget the past, although it is this child who is sacrificed, but your future is still very good, you will be better than before, and you will also meet people who are good to you and cherish you more, such people are worth your life for him.

I think the first thing you should do is to give birth to the child first, the child is the most innocent, she should not be a victim between the two of you, and you can also take good care of the child after breaking up with your boyfriend, after all, the child is a gift from God, don't love her because of your boyfriend, you must know that children can give you a lot of happiness, and you can also make your life no longer so lonely. If you choose not to look for another one in the future, then this child will definitely play a very important role in the rest of his life.

Today's society does not have as much hatred for unmarried pregnant people as the old society in the past, and women can find a good home even if they are unmarried and pregnant. In fact, sometimes when love comes, it is not controlled, if a person loves you, then he will not care about your past, and there will be a good ending between you. After all, the fate of people who have experienced scumbags will arrange a good marriage for you, you will definitely meet a better person, he will not care about your past, will give you a better life, such examples are not very difficult to have in today's society, I have also seen many people who are married for the second time are better and happier, and their husbands are more loving.

This is a big event about your life and your family and your children, don't really think that you are superhuman, you have to measure your ability first, "Do I have the financial and energy to raise a child?" Will my parents help me and my child? Can I really make my child grow up happy and healthy after he is born?

"There are so many problems waiting for you to think about and solve them, and I hope you will think twice.

If you really can't give your child a good life, then give up on him, I know you will be sad, you will be sad, but not letting him experience the suffering of the world is the best protection for him. If you want to choose to love someone, then you must first learn to love yourself, if you can't even protect yourself, why should you tell others not to be afraid! Rather than let your child come with you to suffer in the world, it is better to wait for his return at the best time.

I think it's the least worthwhile thing for a girl to ruin her life for a boy. You must be strong so that you can protect the people you love, and the weak can meet happiness, but they will never have the ability to hold happiness firmly in their hands.

Whether you want children or not is still your word, but everything happens, you have to accept it, don't run away, there will always be someone to tell you, don't be afraid, we are here!

First of all, I want to regret that you didn't find out that he was a scumbag sooner. But now that you've come this far, you have to face it bravely.

If you can support yourself, have a stable job, and feel that you can afford to have a child, then it is recommended that you give birth to a child. Although his father is a scumbag, this does not mean that the child is not good, he is an innocent little life.

Now there are also many inspirational single mothers, such as Dong Jie, who has attracted more attention recently, and it can be seen in variety shows that she has educated her children very well. You can endure a lot of pain, during childbirth, during confinement, and later when you are alone with your children, you can't eat or sleep well, and you can't be idle for a day.

But when you do have a child, you will find yourself incredibly strong. No man is afraid of anything, women can hold up half the sky, and now it is not the era when a woman divorces and is looked down upon by others when she takes care of her children, and more care and respect are given to single mothers.

If you feel that you are not capable of raising a child, it is better to beat it up. It may be more damaging to the body, but considering your future, this little suffering is nothing. This painful experience always reminds you that you should keep your eyes open when looking at people, and don't be deceived by scumbags next time.

The other thing is, don't think too seriously about your pregnancy, this is something that almost every woman has to go through, and you don't think of it as a stain on your life or something, it's just a life experience for you.