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Sarcasm don't please yourself, don't behave badly. A little joking in your conversation can really liven up the atmosphere. However, jokes should be moderate, less sarcastic, and less personal aggression.

Only then will I think your friends will be able to share your jokes. There is no doubt that if the joke goes too far, it will affect your friendship with them, so it is not advisable to joke in this way.

The sarcastic person is divided into objects, this kind of person is more powerful, and it is deliberate to ridicule those he despises, and by sarcasm others, he superiorizes himself and satisfies his vanity. Wait for others to get angry and don't want to make the relationship stiff, and then say something nice. Flatter those who are better than him.

This kind of person is more hateful.

Although I like to be sarcastic.,But it's relatively pitiful.。 They are the kind of people who are straightforward and open-mouthed, and they think of what they say without going through their brains, but there is actually no malice! And when the other party is angry, the brain reacts, and only then does he know that he said the wrong thing.

Unlike the first type of person, this type of person is simply emotionally intelligent, and when he says those words, he is not aware of the consequences behind them. They are a habit of speaking, and it is the same for most people.

Jealous and jealous, if you can't eat grapes, you will say that grapes are sour, but in order to brush up your sense of existence, attract the attention of others by sarcastically attracting attention and attracting attention.

No matter what the occasion, you can't talk without joking, and if you ask him to speak properly, he won't be able to speak. But if you want to sarcastically say a few words, he immediately came to the topic. It seems that he is smart, and he is endless. Regardless of whether the other party accepts it or not, pour it out quickly.

According to the situation, distinguish the occasion, be able to grasp the proportion, just right, use very clever language, and artistically ridicule the other party, so that everyone wakes up in the aftertaste, and then laughs.

When old friends meet, they will be courteous before guests, wait for the other party to throw out the topic, and then carry out a lightning counterattack until the other party is knocked down, so as to show their existence and domineering.

This person really has a bad mouth, and there is a classmate who is this kind of person! He sarcastically ridiculed a cowardly person every day, his words were unbearable, and others were present to make a noise! Onlookers are insensitive? In fact, they are all afraid of scoundrels and do not speak to cowards!

Actually, some people can't tell the difference between jokes and truth, sometimes you joke with them and they will think you are telling the truth, I used to be a bit like this, so it's best not to joke with such sensitive children, if you really want to play, you can say after you are joking and he shouldn't be angry. Generally speaking, people who are self-confident, experienced and have the wisdom of life can make harmless jokes. It has to be harmless, that is, not a joke that frustrates people's sore spots.

There is a saying that which pot is not opened, which pot is not opened, people are short, people are poor, people are looked down upon, people's girlfriends run away, people make mistakes, people's shortcomings are ridiculed, etc., don't make these jokes. The more confident and intelligent a person is, the better he is in all aspects, and he can stand up to jokes. The more unsatisfactory the other party's life is, the more cautious you must be when joking, otherwise it is easy to cause trouble or disaster.

Joking also needs to be divided by occasion, and it also depends on the relationship between two people, if you joke with some people, they will be very angry, indicating that your relationship has not reached this level, and some people also don't like to joke.

Because everyone's personality is different, the acceptance of so-called jokes is also different.

Some people can afford to joke, while others can't.

So it's up to the person to joke, not everyone.

People with small faces are usually easy to calculate, and generally such people can't afford to joke.

Summary. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, this is the adjustment of the state of mind, it takes a process, don't worry.

Recently, I often take other people's jokes seriously and get angry, and after a while, I feel that I have a problem, why should I be angry about other people's jokes.

First of all, you don't give yourself this kind of psychological hint, be good at actively analyzing other people's speeches, every time someone else says think about what position the other party is standing on, what motive to say, maybe he is just teasing and teasing you, repeatedly channeling emotions like this, and slowly will be open-minded, and at the same time suggest that you should also be a person who can joke, so that you will understand each other better.

I'm also a joker, and I didn't take jokes seriously before, but I don't know why I've been getting angry with them lately.

It's very distressing, and I don't know what to do.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, this is the adjustment of the state of mind, it takes a process, don't worry.