How do people communicate with their families often when they are out of town?

In fact, sometimes, not communicating with the family depends on your own mentality. Especially for people who go out to struggle, it is easy to have thinking and cognitive biases (the so-called three views are different) with people in their hometown, so sometimes they will refuse to take the initiative to contact, and even face some family problems and choose to escape. After all, working outside the home is also relatively stressful.

However, only family members will always care about you, love you, and believe in you unconditionally. After stepping over that hurdle in your heart, you will find that communication is no longer difficult. Even if you send a sentence of "there are a lot of people on the bus" at work in the morning, or share what you have eaten at noon, or even talk about your recent personal mentality when you are working overtime, these sharing will slowly bring you closer to the problem with your family, and when your family really becomes your safe haven, your communication will no longer be limited to way or time. ‍‍

Find some time every day, such as before and after meals and after work. It's okay for all these times. Talk about the annoying trivia of being out and about.

Don't let your family worry about yourself, and you will suffer whatever you want. If that doesn't work, it's good to find a job not far from home. After all, money makes up for the distance from home.

Wechat. We only need to establish a WeChat friend relationship with our parents, and our parents also know our status; Of course, we also know the state of our parents. In this way, you can maintain communication with your parents, remind them of the precautions, and talk to your parents about homely things, and you will feel that you are still in your hometown, caring about the small changes in your family.

Parents also know about your recent developments, increase mutual understanding, give more words to parents, and bring a touch of blessings to parents. ‍‍

Communication, this is the most common way, now the fee is very cheap, different from ten years ago, at that time, the fee was expensive, there were not many places without signal, or even no, and it was very inconvenient to communicate with the family. Now the conditions are also better,**,**It is also very convenient to call, call your parents more**, ask about family life, talk about work, although my parents don't understand, but I think they still like us to talk about these topics. ‍‍

**Chat, QQ message. Now computers and mobile phones have a **chat function,We try to have a **chat with our dear parents,Some parents have QQ,But never chat with parents,In fact, how long can this take us,In fact, a conversation with parents far away from home,They should have a happy and reassuring mood for several days。 Through **, you will find out whether the parents are happy recently, whether they are slowly getting older, and whether they are really healthy. ‍‍

**Cell phone. We are away from our parents for a long time because of our careers, because of study, because of marriage and other reasons, and our children need to be more considerate and caring for their parents, how to make our fathers and mothers happy? I think first of all, we have to let our parents know that we are safe, that is to say, we need to set a time, preferably every three or five or 1-2 times a week, to go home **.

Don't be too troublesome, don't feel that you have nothing to say, ask about the situation at home, and chat with your parents a few words of homely things that don't cost you much phone bill, some people's mobile phone data costs are much higher than phone bills. ‍‍

WeChat, QQ Teach them when they take time to go home during the Chinese New Year, so that they don't stay away from technology, stay away from you, ask for it appropriately, and ask for it appropriately when their parents are free, send some special products, make a big quilt and so on.

I have been in the field for more than ten years since college, and when I went to school, I called my mother every day, and at that time, the fee was very expensive, and I used IP cards, 201 cards, and other long-distance cards, and a basket of cards at home. Now when I see these cards in the past, I feel like a memory! With the progress of the times, it is generally rare to play ** now, it is all WeChat**, which is very convenient and cheap!

Parents are here, not far away, what a happy thing to be able to stay by their parents' side! ‍‍

In real life, there are many dialects that cannot be translated in Mandarin, and each local language has its own characteristics, but this does not affect the expression of the content and the way of communicating with real feelings.

Therefore, in the process of communication, we must pay attention to learning to be respectful and polite, so that communication will be smoother and more pleasant.

1.Be humble when communicating.

I'm right", this attitude will only lead to the deterioration of the communication relationship and make it impossible for communication to continue. When communicating, it is best to keep your profile as low as possible, that is, you should fully respect the opinions of the other party, and express your opinions and opinions appropriately and without being excessive.

Even if you think that your statement is not wrong or there is a problem with the other party's opinion, you should first listen to the other party's words, different people have different thoughts about missing this, and the ability to express and understand is also different.

2.Keep a calm mind when communicating.

It is important not to be emotional, because being emotional may make communication stuck halfway and unable to communicate, and even lead to abandonment and failure of communication. If you feel particularly irritable and restless in the process of communication because of your emotions, you will have to stop communicating and wait for a period of time to calm down before you can continue to communicate, which will actually make all parties in the communication unhappy.

3.When communicating, you should focus on the other party.

Unnecessary self-esteem and pride can only become a stumbling block to communication, so at the very least, you should abandon your so-called self-esteem when communicating. Don't say "My self-esteem won't allow me to ......In that case, it will only make communication impossible.

4.Be open and honest in your communication.

It is very important to be honest with each other in the process of communication, and there is no concealment, honesty is an important step for you to deepen your cooperative relationship through communication. First of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to be honest with you, and then promote the smooth and happy communication of the beam.

5.Communicate clearly and clearly.

No matter what the problem is, why, how, what the reason is, etc., you must fully explain to the other party, even if there is no reason to act, you must inform the other party of your own considerations and ideas, and get the other party's understanding and support in action will be of good help to the development of communication and the development of the next situation.

People who are not good at talking always don't know how to communicate better with their family members in life. If you want to have a good communication with your family, you should do these things well: communicate from the bottom of your heart, give yourself more courage, communicate sincerely, and so on.

Only by constantly practicing and changing can you connect family affection with words and make family members your strongest support.

1.Communication starts from the heart. No matter when, no matter what, as long as you are willing to open your heart, communicate with your family attentively, complain less, be less perfunctory and quarrelsome, and make things clear, you can gain something.

2.It takes some courage to communicate. When many people encounter problems, they often lack the courage to communicate, resulting in the idea of retreating and escaping.

Such an approach is meaningless, does not help you, and may even have a bad effect. So if you want to communicate better with your family, pluck up the courage and take action.

3.There needs to be a sincere expression. The reason why people have achievements is because of communication. And when it comes to communication, the most important thing is sincerity. And should speak appropriately and respect elders. When you talk to your child, you understand and care for them.

4.Get to know each other better. If you want to understand the other person, you need to put yourself in the other person's shoes, learn to empathize, and understand what the other person is doing this for.

5.Be able to listen carefully to what the other person is saying. Sometimes what your family says is not to contradict you, but to help you. Therefore, when communicating, stand on the level that they care about.

6.Chat appropriately and don't be impulsive. The most taboo in communication is impulsiveness, because people tend to lose their minds when they are impulsive, which causes dissatisfaction on both sides. Therefore, in communication, you should pay attention to speaking appropriately and avoid saying something slanderous.

1. Communication starts from the heart. At any time and anything, as long as you are willing to open your heart, communicate with your family with your heart, complain less, perfunctory, quarrel less, speak openly, and make it clear and clear, you will definitely be able to gain something. 2. Communication requires courage.

When people encounter problems, they often lack the courage to communicate, and they are prone to retreat and escape. This will not help you until you face the problem and solve it, and it may even make the situation more immeasurable. So take courage, open your mouth, and open your legs.

3. Be sincere in expression. People's greatest achievements come from communication, and the greatest failure comes from unwillingness to communicate. When communicating, be sincere.

So how to be sincere? Treat elders to speak appropriately, respect each other, treat children with understanding and love, and not impose their own ideas on children. 4. Enhance mutual understanding.

To understand each other is to consider the problem from the other person's point of view, learn to empathize, understand why the other person is doing it, and understand the intention. 5. Listen carefully to each other's ideas. Sometimes the advice of the family is not all to refute you, the family members want to help you more, based on the level of care, they will be willing to listen to the other person's ideas, and get good communication from it.

1.Parents will worry about you, but they will also respect your choice, they just want you well. So, don't be afraid, be bold and speak up to your parents, let them know what you think, and support you.

2.You can try to test your parents' attitude in some ways, such as first telling your parents that you plan to go to work, and then asking them what they think, if their attitude is positive, then it means that they agree with your decision.

3.If the parents' opinions are strong, then you can try to communicate with them. First of all, you have to express your attitude, then tell them why you chose to leave the house, what the reasons are for doing so, and finally express your desire to go out and work.

4.When your parents don't approve of you going out of town, you can try to reason with them, because sometimes reason is more important than feelings. If you can explain it well to your parents, I believe they will understand and support you.