I m a high school student, but now I m confused, is it better to study or fall in love?

If you fall in love, it doesn't matter if it doesn't affect your grades, some people will improve your grades when you fall in love, but if it affects your grades, it is recommended that you still focus on your studies, if your boyfriend (girl) friend is really good for you, I don't want to see you not get good grades.

I'll give you a piece of advice, study well, get admitted to a good university, get a good job, fall in love, mm, think as much as you want. It's better to look farther away and give me points!

Some students don't let them fall in love, their grades may be good, and some children fall in love, and their grades are still good, mainly depends on how much they can control themselves emotionally, and if you insist on talking, you have to find a good partner, first of all, the other party is not water-based, you must be able to urge yourself to study hard, and more importantly, it is easy to succeed (don't make a mistake and say that it is easy to succeed, I don't) Because the first failure will make you very painful Okay, I wish you happiness and success.

To understand this question, we must first understand the question of why learning. Having said, hey. The ultimate purpose of learning is to live, and pure learning is either a fool or a nerd.

Since this study is to clarify the problem of a better life, you say, if there is no lover in life, it is not normal. (Plagiarism).

This is the norm for candidates during this period. You don't have to be noisy, it depends on who can h0de better.

1. Attend every class well. This is the most basic requirement! For those who know, just calm down and listen to it again, it's a pleasure!

Don't you think? Others forget, and there are still people who will have questions about you, he won't? Just steal the fun!

For those who don't know or are not very familiar with it, just use this time to figure it out, isn't that exactly what you're for? Because at this time, there will be more, but there will be very few who will not, and I am facing the so-called college entrance examination, and I am not at ease with myself, so I am at a loss. Agitation.

Not necessarily. I live by all means.

Second, high school students are very happy now, because there is nothing to worry about, as long as they take the exam, they can be admitted to college, the difference is only what kind of university they are admitted to. In recent years, there have been more enrollment plans for the college entrance examination than candidates. Nothing to worry about. Put your heart in your belly!

3. Rest on time is the most important, generally 11:00 p.m. rest the most, if it is settled, don't change it, even if you are not sleepy at that time, you have to sleep, understand that the class time is the most important. A regular rest period can ensure your state tomorrow and is also a good way to reduce the fire caused by sleepiness!

As for the time to get up the next day, it is best to go with the flow, so as not to delay the class time, and if you wake up, don't lie in bed, get up right away and devote yourself to the battle of the day today.

Fourth, the forcible have aspirations. It means that if you force yourself to act, you will definitely be able to achieve your wishes. Don't stop, listen to English at a young time, and listen to it when you can't be more familiar. A little more time to do some math, physics, etc. The key is not to allow yourself to stop.

5. Don't do things that are not related to studying. For example, you must not touch the TV, Internet and the like. Because you can't play at ease at this time. The more you play and deal with it in your heart, the more impetuous, and the less steady. In fact, it has nothing to do with whether it will be or not, it has to do with play, and it has to do with mood.

Listen to every lesson、Be hode, don't stop!

Sixth, people's ignorance is the norm, from ignorance to knowledge, this process is a state of self-optimization, a state of progress. You don't understand, you can't, you don't feel at ease, it's the norm for a senior high school student, overcoming this problem and correcting your shortcomings little by little, this process is a process worth enjoying, and it is a process of your own progress. So, no matter what time it is, don't blame yourself.

Believe that what you feel, others will have, it's just that they can live with it.

You're going to get your wish, right?

It's okay, I have a good way, homework doesn't have to be written, some questions are rubbish, and it's a waste of time to do it, and if it's a science subject, it's not necessarily useful to do too many questions, but to think more and analyze more, so my method is to do only half of the questions, and copy the remaining half of the answers (for example, only do 1, 2, 4, 6, and don't do it), but the time left after these homework is to look at the questions you did again, and do the questions again, which is equivalent to not doing it, to read more, reflect more, instead of doing more homework, I believe there will be improvement.

Confused about what? The first year of high school is the time to determine the goal, and only when you have the goal can you work hard! High.

1. You have to let go of what you should let go, and you have to think about how much pressure you will face in your senior year if you don't work hard now!! If you work hard in your first and second years of high school, you won't be so nervous or stressed in your junior year because your goals are clear!

Mmmm, I understand you, that's how I came over. You can take your time, first don't ask too much, calm your mind, and then set a goal and work hard. Hehe... 1

Be motivated, let go of your burdens, and move forward.

？？？Well.. What's wrong? Can I help you or something?

First of all, I'm a sophomore and I'm still single. Engineering, there are very few girls in the same class (45 people in the class, 9 girls) so I want to find a suitable one in the class, the choice is too small, I can only go to other colleges to meet more girls, which is a bit of a test of personal communication skills, generally enter the university, freshman novices will sign up for a variety of club activities, the landlord can contact more girls through this way, expand their social surface. However, you must know that girls who are good-looking in college have more people chasing around them.

The landlord is mainly mentally prepared for this, I don't know what the definition of "good girl" is by the landlord. But to be honest, when chasing a girl you like, you must take the initiative yourself, and don't imagine that she will automatically talk to you one day. You have to show sincerity, so that you can stand out from the many suitors!

Secondly, no one took the class that the landlord said, which is a huge misunderstanding!! No matter what major you study in college, the content is much more difficult than in high school, and you must listen carefully to the class, so that it will be easier after class. And sometimes the teacher will call you by name in class, and if you are not there, you will die, and will deduct the usual grade points (the final exam of the university is the final exam score plus the usual grade, for example, my university is the exam score accounts for 70% of the usual score and the usual score accounts for the other 30%, and the sum of the two is your final grade), so, I strongly recommend that the landlord enter the university, and it is best not to skip class.

Of course, you don't have to work as hard as in high school, as long as you spend 50% of your senior year of high school studying, you will be in the top 10 of the whole college!

The last question, there is no definite number for this, some freshmen start to fall in love, and some late may not meet the person they like in their junior year, fate is not clear!

In the end, I said to the landlord that although no one cares about falling in love in college, don't be reckless because you see people around you falling in love. Everyone's own situation is different, some people haven't been in a relationship for 4 years in college, and there are many people who devote themselves to their studies. In your first year of college, you may lose yourself and not know what you are doing in college.

I don't have a goal, but after a year of baptism, I must determine a goal, whether to find a job after graduation, or to take the postgraduate examination or civil service examination! Don't let yourself fall for the worse in college!

The above is all my little bit of college insight, I hope it will help the landlord to understand the university correctly!

College is relatively relaxed, and you should fall in love, you can invite her to go out shopping with you when you have more contact, buy something for her on holidays, and talk more when you usually meet.

I think you should study hard and get admitted to a good university! For falling in love, I still believe in fate. In college, your circle will become bigger and you will meet more people.

As for whether you will meet a good girl, it depends on your fate! You think that college will be easy, and that's true, because in college you will have more time at your disposal, but not everyone can grasp it well, and if you don't make a plan for yourself and set a goal, your four years of college will easily pass in a mess. It turned out to be nothing.

It's good to be in a relationship in college, but I hope you don't fall in love with the idea of falling in love. If you meet something you like, you can chase it, and boys are generally quite active! Wishing you happiness ...

There's nothing to be sorry for, some people haven't had a girlfriend in college, and their lives after that are also very happy. Some people talk about it for four years in college and it won't come to fruition, so it's good to let fate be. You can't stop her or him when they come. Don't worry about it.

Eh: It is necessary to learn something.

There are very few classes in the freshman year, and there will be more in the sophomore year, and the classes still have to be taken, after all, college students are also students, and college girls are very easy to find, you have love, I have intentions, and it is natural to come together, about how to fall in love, it's hard to say, every couple has their story. Hope it helps,

When you get to college, there must be a good girl, if you want to study well in college, it is not easy, you can choose to go to class or not, and men should take the initiative, if you are rich and handsome, women may also chase men.

I can see that you are very negative now, I don't know what happened? If so, I'd love to hear from you.

Now it's better to keep studying, because you're still too young, if you don't have any skills, going out to work is doing manual work that everyone can do, and you don't have a future, and when you go to college, you'll make a lot of friends, which will be very helpful for your later life, and studying more will definitely not hurt you.

It's not a good job to look for, it's all a waitress or something, it's better for you to learn a little bit of technology, you have a skill, and it's not as tiring as in high school.

I think as long as you are measured, it's still fine.

Falling in love is also a process of learning how to get along with people. In this process, we can actually learn a lot of things, and I think these are actually much more important than the things in books, after all, grades are only useful in high school, and the starting point of going into society is actually about the same.

And the question of whether it will affect learning, I don't think this problem is big, I like a boy who likes me, we both study very well, we can help each other in academics, and our grades have improved a lot recently, so as long as you don't put too much effort into it, you know what the most important thing is at this stage, and falling in love is actually helpful for learning.

There is no such thing as early love or not early love in foreign countries, and this kind of thing is only granted an extremely disrespectful attitude in China, so in fact, we are not very at fault, just be calm. This is normal.

I suggest that you don't fall in love in high school, high school should still focus on academics, which is related to your future. If you delay your studies because you fall in love and affect the college entrance examination, you may have regrets in the future!

As a college student in an ordinary university, I really deeply appreciate the importance of the college entrance examination. The results of the college entrance examination can change a person's fate to a certain extent. How many people want to come back to high school again, get into a prestigious school, and have a good future.

So now you must cherish your high school life, seize the time to study hard, and prepare for the college entrance examination in the future.

In fact, falling in love is still quite time-consuming, and it is easy to distract you, which has some impact, so it is better not to fall in love. Moreover, if you think about it, if your parents and teachers know that you are in love, most of them will not agree, and it is really annoying to break you up and talk to you again. Even if it doesn't matter much, they won't let it go easily.

After all, in the eyes of our Chinese parents and teachers, high school love can be regarded as "early love". Moreover, you should not live up to the expectations of your parents and teachers, and diligent study is the right way.

The college entrance examination is a turning point in life, a springboard for dreams, and ten years of hard study in order to one day be able to be named on the gold list and shine on the lintel. Therefore, it is better to focus on academics in high school with the college entrance examination as the goal.

Why am I so adamantly against falling in love in high school?! Because the probability of success is too small, we have 8 pairs of partners in high school, but only one pair is left to get married, this is a good example, not only delayed learning at that time, but also did not come together in the end, the gains outweigh the losses, I think if you want to start a family first, you should still have a certain economic foundation, or have a certain ability, and it is better to talk about feelings after stability, so that the success rate of relative feelings is higher, and the happiness index is higher. My brother is a typical example, we have high hopes for him, but then the object, but live in the school, must be less urged by the family, our family is silent under the college entrance examination results, and our family doesn't like that object, people also applied for a university, now it's been a year in college, my brother has begun to get tired of her, don't say that the family doesn't agree, they can't go to the end, don't do the thing of losing your wife and breaking the army, just study hard, There is time to fall in love in college, and it is never too late to talk about it at that time, and good feelings are always left at the end!