After 1 and a half months of long distance relationship, she suddenly treated me coldly, why

Updated on psychology 2024-03-01
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The initial form of a long-distance relationship is sweet, and distance produces beauty.

    The middle form is tangled, thinking about whether to continue or break off in the contradiction, why I don't think I need to go into details, most people can understand, and I don't need to type so many words. I'll just point out a few points, this kind of semi-sugarism can indeed play the role of a catalyst for love, but as the relationship between two people develops to a certain extent, the sense of space in reality gradually emerges, and there are often times when the other party is needed, the other party is not around, it will be empty, lonely, and cold. I am also blind to the future, and I am not sure what the outcome will be.

    The final form is either to continue to come together sweetly, or because of this kind of imminent relationship, they finally choose to give up.

    I saw your supplementary question, in fact, how can I afford to hurt it, only if I can't let it go, please think about it, in this world, is it really impossible to live without anyone, even if it is suicide, many, many times are just a momentary impulse, not really to that part, not really to make people collapse, of course, we still have to cherish every relationship, cherish every relative and friend around us.

    It's good to be able to come together for the rest of your life, but if it backfires, you also said, you won't be happy if you barely get it, that's right, the twisted melon is not sweet, if she really doesn't want to be with you anymore, you can do nothing but bless her, hate her, forget her, miss her, in fact, what else can you do? She will leave your life, and all that is left is your own thoughts, so why should you bother with this state of mind?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The most fearful thing about a long-distance relationship is not a change of heart, but a slow loss of feelings without knowing what happened. But what does it matter. I said that if the relationship is gone, then start re-cultivating until you fall in love with each other all over again.

    Is she tired of it? What is she up to? Does she want to let go?

    In fact, it's often just that I think too much, but the turn is too blunt, the cooling is too fast, you don't understand her helplessness, suspicion ruins everything, and if you break up in anger, you really break up, will it be regret and pity.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hit me **, I understand this; Haha, you give the number out, I'll type your number.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Long-distance relationship,In fact, it's really torturous to the one who really pays.,It's recommended to talk more about your heart.,You can also have a good relationship with her best friend.,Explore the news more.,If she doesn't care too much.,Give up decisively.。。。

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't like long-distance relationships, so it will become more and more emotionless, otherwise you let it go, the reluctant relationship will not last long.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe she thinks you're insecure, and thinks it's fruitless to talk to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can go to the woman's city to find her, give her a surprise, and meeting will alleviate a lot of contradictions, although it is not in the same place, but you must usually care more about her, you can give her some takeout, and the two people can make an appointment to meet every once in a while to ensure freshness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Be sure to strengthen communication, understand the other party's thoughts, don't panic when you encounter this problem, stay sensible, and pay attention to your attitude.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This requires asking the other party why they apologize to the other party, and the attitude must be very sincere.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think you should go to the other person's city to find each other, build some relationship with the other person, give the other person some gifts, and that's it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It may be that she has hesitant about the relationship between you, thinking that such a relationship is very hard, and there may be no ending, and she has a retreating mentality, at this time you should sit down and talk to her, give her enough security, and strive to reach a consensus and redeem her.

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