Falling into the abyss of love, how to extricate yourself

Confession, what's there to be shy about being a boy.

I think you should adjust your mentality in the relationship, and don't blindly give, know how to adhere to semi-sugarism in order to make yourself like a fish in water in the relationship.

If you can't extricate yourself, you should adjust your mentality, and then think about something else, and slowly let yourself out of this state.

The best way is to start as soon as possible, and only in this way can you get yourself out of the previous relationship.

Then you need to make yourself understand your situation in the relationship, and see if the other person cares about you.

Then be brave enough to come out, leave everything in the past, start a new life, and be decisive.

Is it really so hard to extricate yourself from falling in love? I answer this question from a different perspective. What you are asking is, fruit, after helping you solve it, it will not help you much, and you will be reborn in the future, I will give it to you, destroy the cause, and you will not make the same mistake if you have a direction.

This question must first find the direction before it can be answered correctly. Just like we do, doctors, we can't prescribe if we can't know the patient's pain. There is a famous saying in ancient times, love is painful, being loved is happiness, I will choose first, love my person, at least, I will not "fall out of love", and suffer "pain of heart".

It will be happier to be loved, sweet, tell him to go east, he doesn't dare to run west, even if you do anything wrong and have a big young master's temper, he will tolerate you. First of all, I want to know "what you want is cool words" and "still sincere words", the truth is hard to hear, you have to be prepared! Any vigorous love must be based on facts and reality so that it will not deteriorate.

Without the support of facts and reality, love is nothing more than a spring dream. There is such a famous saying in ancient times, "Since ancient times, there has been a lot of affection and empty hatred", Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, a good story through the ages, and finally Ma Wencai, who can't resist the reality of the facts, dismantled a pair of good couples and became a regret for eternity. The so-called "moneyless couples mourn everything" also.

Today's facts: In real life, "money is not everything, no money is everything". Without a foundation, everything is empty talk, nothing can be done, it will only increase the pain, love can not drink water and fill the water, sometimes, just relying on the mouth, empty words, it is not enough. If you are a man and you want to fall in love, and the person you are in love with is a woman, then you should ask me about this woman, as your advisor.

If you don't have experience, anything will make your nose blue and swollen, and after a few years of experience, you will realize that the answer is so simple, but it has caused you pain for many years. In fact, women don't want much, in the vast sea of people, what they want is a sense of security. Relationship and marriage are a woman's lifelong business, but they are part of the man, so a woman will be very careful and careful to consider whether she and the man she is a general?

Is it a minion? Or one: said that it is invincible in the world, and it is done with a weak heart, hollow radish? .

In fact, you are smarter than me, and you are more wise than me, wisdom, there is a saying: a wise person should not only use his own wisdom, but also the wisdom of others. Take a look for yourself, on the Internet, you are talented, simply, publish a few words, and then gouge out half of my head, and write a few more words, then I, the little head, will not all of my experience be dug up for you.

In the end, yours, "wise and foolish" is too experienced. But don't tell me, "I didn't expect that." Dizzy.

If you follow the previous method, with wisdom and initiative, are you still afraid that you will not be able to live in what you want, or, what others want, in life? Aren't you happy yet? , what is the pain and annoyance there...

What else is there to worry about?