How should I deal with the confusion of life?

In fact, you don't care what others think of you, just be yourself

Don't be too introverted, no one likes introverts.

The way to make friends should be suitable for you

You can try to learn more about what's trending right now, and then you can join the conversation when people are chatting, and they will be impressed by you

Laugh with others and laugh together when everyone laughs, pretend to laugh so that people will know that you want to be with them, enjoy chatting with them, and think of you next time there is an event like this

You'll be laughing from the bottom of your heart

You can hi mine and we have a good chat.

I feel like you don't think too much about it when you interact with other people and friends, you can just live your own way and treat everyone with your heart, even if some people don't like your way, it's okay.

When you interact with strangers, you don't need to hide anything, don't be pretentious, just talk to a friend, just be sincere.

On the basis of respect and understanding, be honest and communicate with integrity. Don't be too suspicious, communicate with them more, don't think too much about some things, people can be content and happy. You should also be confident and optimistic about your life.

Actually, I'm also a pessimistic child, but, you know? Some things may not be what I imagined, I have also been lost, lonely, but I cried and passed, I knew that I could not change anything, so I chose to be silent, I thought I could ......

However, I was wrong, I should not be silent, I should express my true feelings in my heart, family and friends need to be communicated.

If you don't express it, no one will know what you're thinking in your heart, don't let yourself regret it, let all the good things lose touch with yourself, in fact, there is nothing wrong with being yourself, friends say you pretend to be pitiful, you don't need to care at all, it's that they don't understand you yet, you should communicate more......

Or, you can do something you like and change your bad mood

In the end, I hope you can be yourself, and you really don't need to be overwhelmed by a little misunderstanding between each other.

I think sometimes we can ignore those nasty feelings, be ourselves, live for ourselves, don't care about other people's eyes, chic, optimistic, try it, it's very comfortable!

Sincere dedication, you treat people with a smile, others also smile at you, life is beautiful, yo, positive, optimistic!

So much confusion is because you are still young, there is a process of maturity, others will give you many ways to make you strong, but in the final analysis, you need to do it yourself, so please be strong, everything will pass, I believe you can. Be yourself and don't care what others think of you.

Whenever I am alone, bored, or after completing a task, I feel lost and empty, which is a normal physiological phenomenon because we can't control our thoughts all the time. The way to deal with it is simple: find a way to make yourself happy. The commonly used methods are as follows:

1. Chat with your family. Reminisce about the good past or make a small plan for the future, such as going shopping, watching a movie, etc., to give yourself a hope.

2. Work and study. Moderate work and study can relieve anxiety and enrich yourself.

First, in fact, some words are very good, when you should have worked hard, you chose to be confused, this is the biggest reason, why don't you act when you are confused? The limits of your thinking will only make you stop.

Second, another person's circle is very important, many people are at a loss when they encounter difficulties, their friends give him guidance and direct epiphany, so when you are confused, you might as well find your own friends, maybe it will give you a good advice.

Third, there is another point I want to remind everyone, confusion is not terrible at all, what is terrible is that they are addicted to Hu Xun and confused, many people do not know how to start, they give up on themselves, I think individuals should have a certain degree of confidence.

Fourth, I would like to conclude with a statement. It is most important to have a certain plan for life, do it step by step, to execute, there will be no such problems, and you will always think about how to achieve your goals instead of falling into your own contemplation.

What should fresh graduates do when they are confused?

1.Write down your confusion on a blank A4 piece of paper, write concretely, and keep writing and writing. Until you can't write, maybe in this process, there is too much suffering, too much pain, but don't give up, you have to believe that as long as you persevere, you will be able to get rid of confusion and get out of the trough of life.

2.To analyze the confusion, that is, to distinguish which category your confusion belongs to? Before you do that, you need to know that there are different types of confusion.

Confusion falls into three categories.

1) I have no sense of direction in my life at all, and although the future is in my own hands, I have no vision for the future at all.

2) I used to have a direction, but after a series of failures and ridicule from others, I no longer have the confidence to move forward.

3) The direction is clear, but reaching the destination is far away, and there are too many things to do, so it is difficult to act.

3.Find out the reason for your confusion and develop a solution.

For the first type of confusion, the first thing we need to do is to give ourselves meaning to life, and to explore the deep passion for life in our hearts, which is your hidden expectation, and it is also the guiding light that guides you to find your own way, specific methods:

Prepare an A4 blank paper, find a quiet and undisturbed place, concentrate on writing down what you want to do most or career, sort it, and then remove the 5 dreams that are not essential, remove the remaining five and remove two, and finally leave 3, sort, the first is where your current passion for life is, combined with the passion of life, further explore the personnel you like to socialize, the atmosphere you like to work, and what kind of life you like to live.

The second type is confusion, when we encounter failure, we are used to self-denial, so as to convince ourselves to give up on our goals. In fact, don't do this, if you really have a series of failures, then whether you should think about what you really did wrong, what lessons we should draw, to think about how to improve, how to turn defeat into victory, if there is a problem with the method, we go to the mentor, find outstanding people in the field, learn relevant knowledge from them, or read more books to find out, to learn to use resources.

The third type of confusion, we face the distance of the destination, and the heavy daily tasks, let yourself breathless, these pressures actually come from, you see the goal too important, so that the mind is to the end of every step of the way, the pressure on these roads is like the last straw that crushes the camel, in fact, our attention should be on every small step forward, on this road in addition to the huge attraction of the end, there are also a lot of small luck in the process, reduce the focus on the end, step by step slowly, Walk steadily and cheerfully, even if you don't arrive, you will reap more rare joy.

And finally: take action.

It is advisable to try to review and reflect. If the current situation is not what you want, then think about what you have done that led to this situation, what is not considered right, look forward to the future, what should I do, what should I have done, what should I have discarded, and arrange what you need to do in the present. A person with concentration naturally bids farewell to confusion.

Everyone has a time when they are confused, they will go back to the original point, we don't have to be great, we just need to do our own things, so you have to get out of the confusion and eliminate the confusion. First of all, you should make a list of things you want to do, and then list what you need to do to achieve these things according to the things on the list, or learn an IT skill and find your purpose in life.

In a person's life, there will always be more or less stages of confusion. Don't rush at this time, you can carefully analyze the current situation and set a goal for yourself. Don't set that kind of ambitious goal, a year.

Let's talk about it for you! Look at what problems you encounter, for example, a person is escaping the attack of criminals, forced to go to the front page with no way, there are only 2 manure tanks in front of the right to hide, so he has to jump into one, and the dung in it floods his chest, he is depressed, he feels that he has chosen the wrong one, it should be better to find another, in fact, the other will drown his whole person, sometimes in the face of the must choose, often we have chosen a relatively good one, but are still complaining that it is not good enough, people have to pay for their choices, With optimism, start by asking, "What do you want?"

Go and choose again.