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But he didn't know that it was my ex-lover who left it to me, and he knew that it was just an ex-boyfriend who gave it to me" Is this sentence contradictory?
If your current boyfriend doesn't mind this, why should you bother? If you want to untie this knot, you should tell him about it before marriage, so that he has room to think, have a choice, and at the same time show that you are a reasonable woman.
If you are too embarrassed to speak, you can write it in writing and put it in an envelope, but don't rush to show it, you hide the letter at the bottom of the closet, or in a book, in addition to stating the matter, but also to express your deep apologies, you don't want to affect your own feelings because of this incident, so you didn't take the initiative to explain it to him.
In this way, you can not only get the comfort of the soul, but also confess to yourself in advance, and you will not be found out by your husband.
When your husband inadvertently found out about the letter one day, saw you about your matter, apologized before, and knew that you didn't want to hurt him, so you didn't tell him. When your husband reads this letter, I think she will understand your good intentions and will understand you more and love you.
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I don't think I want to mention it. I think it's better to say it now and say it when you get married, it's too late. Whether it's a deception to you or to him, it's also an indelible memory of your love, and I think it's better to be honest.
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It's better to say it now than after marriage
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Honest advice: It's better not to say this! Otherwise, it will be a lifelong knot for your current boyfriend! Let's tell a white lie about this. And, you need to keep it a secret for the rest of your life.
I know you're going to be sad about that, but if you love him, keep yourself a private space.
Of course, having said that, if you are not afraid of losing him, and you want to keep yourself from living that kind of life of stealing chickens and dogs, then boldly explain it, whether it is a direct statement or a letter, the key is that you must be fully mentally prepared, so as not to pick up sesame seeds (you are comfortable) and lose watermelons (boyfriend ran away).Finally, I wish the lovers will eventually become married!
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I don't think it's good to say it, boys have their own bottom line, although it's just your past, I only look at our future, but if you tell him, he can't accept it in his heart, so you will have an unhappy future.
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1. You have to reposition, the present is the present, the past is the past, different stages can not generalize about things, at that time you are separated because of contradictions, you are not boyfriend and girlfriend when you are separated, the law does not stipulate that you can no longer find a partner if you break up, this is the first point, even women may go to find a boyfriend again, it is easy to understand.
2. There is no one right or wrong in love, the reason why we are together is because we feel happy and happy together, and we have the taste of love, and the reason why we will be separated is because the taste is changing, which brings unhappiness to both parties, so we are separated, it is not a person's fault and confusion, and you can't push the responsibility to yourself, love is always a matter for both parties, and in the process of falling in love in the future, you must grasp this point.
3. Take a long-term view, love is not a sprint, you must be prepared for a long-distance run, both material and spiritual, what you need more now is to refine the mental state as soon as possible, with such a mentality you will face it with a calm heart, you will not feel the gains and losses for a momentary behavior, you have a clearer responsibility in your heart, and you will work hard for it.
4. If your girlfriend can't understand again and again, you need to guide more patiently, women rely on guidance, and if the guidance is in place, she will trust you more, and many contradictions will naturally dissolve, of course, you also have to give enough thoughtfulness and care in life, the old love can be restored, indicating that your emotional foundation is relatively solid, both parties are more trusting, don't lie too much in the past, the past can never be changed, you can only cherish the present with gratitude, cherish each other more, and your love can go further.
5. Today is Thanksgiving, use your love and gratitude to be grateful to the world, grateful for the fate between you, grateful for everything you have, all of which have made you who you are today. I believe that you will find the happiness and beauty of the two of them getting along again, and exchange your sincere efforts for a lifetime of happiness, bless you!
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How can someone else who accepted it after you broke up with her say that it was a mistake.
It's not like stepping on two boats, your girlfriend is so narrow-minded.
Even if you coax it once, you will still talk about it after you understand it.
You just tell her that if you can accept it, it's good for the two of us, and if you can't accept it, you can divide it.
Hey, if you don't dare to say that, then you can coax it.
There's always something she likes at a rose chocolate gold chain dinner.
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You directly said, "If you don't care so much, what are you doing with me, how much do you like me, I can't accept it, wouldn't it be okay to reconcile early, anyway, it's okay to divide it once, and it's okay to divide it again."
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Now your idea is to be ordinary friends with her, then apologize to her and ask her to go out and sing. Then with sincere words, tell her that you like her, and since she has no feelings for you, forget it, and hope that you will be friends forever.
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Big brother, can you rest with your exuberant hormones? If it's divided, it's divided, it's hiding, it's a big deal, if you're for the bed, there's a lot of women, if not, then please study hard, go up every day, and get a good university in the future, how good it is to find a better woman.
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Dude, how old are you, why are you still engaged in this kind of oolong, it's really idle! People don't mean that, so don't work hard. Do something useful.
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Then you treat it like an ordinary friend, there is no one in this world who can't live without anyone.
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Study hard every day, and you ignore her for a while.
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Study hard! Will meet a better one! Go with the flow and don't force it! Maybe it will be fine after a while, don't keep asking him now, or she will be even more disgusted.
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Ask her out to talk and hope your relationship is still the same as before.
Such a girl is unreliable and too scheming.
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