Talk about what it s like to not be able to let go of someone?

I will have insomnia in countless late nights, crazy, sometimes it's useless to get drunk, there is the shadow of that person in and out of my dreams, and the more I want to let go, the more painful it is. Can't let go of that person, that's love but can't, in addition to loving each other in our hearts, there is also unwillingness to do trouble, after all, we have paid so much, why do you say let go of it, let it go is also fake! Sometimes you may really be very miserable when you think that there is no one to accompany you in the future and participate in your life together, but so what, there are many unsatisfactory things in this world.

If you really can't put it down. It is recommended to travel, slowly fade the connection with each other, make more friends, time is the best medicine. ‍‍

Not being able to let go of a person is very uncomfortable, very painful, very irritable, very depressed, and I miss him very much, I think about him all the time, I feel like he is by my side! This feeling can only be felt by yourself! Others don't feel it!

It's as uncomfortable as having a serious illness! ‍‍

When you can't let go of a person, you will be sad and want to smoke and drink, and you want to soak yourself in a virtual world, where you don't have to ask anything, but that person will become a hero who saves you, just like the sunshine in your own world, as long as he comes back, these are all floating clouds.

In fact, after letting go, I will miss it, but this kind of thinking is no longer the strong, restless thinking of the past, but a kind of thinking that can not be done over time. To truly let go of a person is to be calm, to be unwavering, to remember, not to miss.

It is that you have experienced all the difficult days alone, and you have come out of the abyss with bloody wounds, and then look back at all the hardships and unworthiness along the way, and slowly become indifferent, and gradually the wounds have healed, and you feel that you were stupid enough. When everything passes, the scars are still there, but I will never love someone so humbly again. Love yourself well, there are few people who are worth our life. ‍‍

If you can't let go of a person, you obviously quarreled with him, and you made up your mind not to see him again, and WeChat QQ was deleted and blocked. spent the whole night reminiscing about the past, inexplicably finding a reason for him to forgive him. ‍‍

My friend also has a person who can't forget, she used to want to hit him every time she was drunk, and every time she dared to hit him when she was drunk. He said that he didn't miss him when he hit **, he really couldn't hold it back, he drank every day, soaked himself in an unconscious world so that he wouldn't be sad, his eyes were full of red bloodshots, his eyelids were swollen, and he fell asleep and woke up crying every day. ‍‍

I think of her every day, and when I think of her, I have a sad feeling in my heart, pain and happiness, everything will be fine, time can dilute everything.

Can't let go of a person, that is, everyone thinks of him, and when he does, he will inadvertently think of him, even if he knows that the other party cannot belong to him, he will still worry about whether he eats cold or hungry, and when you have children in the future, this feeling will be experienced.

Not being able to let go of someone is a particularly troublesome feeling, because I am thinking about the other party all the time, and I will also think about whether the other party has a particularly good life after leaving me, and I will also think about whether he is still working so hard like himself.

A very painful feeling because you often miss that person and often regret your actions.

If you can't let go, you will never forget it, you will think of each other from time to time, recall the past time, and sometimes you will dream of each other.

It's just that no matter what time it is, I always think of him inadvertently in my heart, and it's very uncomfortable.

Summary. "I think it's sweet sorrow, beautiful melancholy, and a ...... of forbearance and hopeless expectationsI can't let go of a person, and when I am happy, I think to myself, if he is by his side, he will definitely be happier; When I was sad, I thought to myself, if I had the comfort of TA, I wouldn't be so sad. People who can't let go are sometimes like flowers blooming in the bottom of their hearts, fragrant and fragrant, dark and charming; Sometimes it is like a thorn in the heart, which hurts people, and they can't pull it out if they want to.

This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, and please be patient "I think it's sweet sorrow, beautiful melancholy, and a ...... of forbearance and hopeless expectationsI can't let go of a person, and when I am happy, I think to myself, if he is by his side, he will definitely be happier; When I was sad, I thought to myself, if I had the comfort of TA, I wouldn't be so sad. People who can't let go are sometimes like flowers blooming in the bottom of their hearts, fragrant and fragrant, dark and charming; Sometimes it is like a thorn in the heart, which hurts people, and they can't pull it out if they want to. ”

"You trapped yourself in that house".

—Foreword

In fact, each of us will have our own very tangled places, those can't figure it out slowly seems to become an obsession, I once heard such a story, a boy likes a girl for five years, when someone asks him what he likes about this girl, he said that he was in the class, she smiled at me, I think there is nothing better than that moment......But that girl, five years later, may not be what she was at the beginning, but he still likes it when he knows the result. I guess that's an obsessionIn fact, obsession is not terrible, what is terrible is one after another tossing and turning, painful and sad self, so how to overcome your obsession? Here's my own opinion:

1. Understand what you really want.

I used to be a very nostalgic and persistent person, and this state caused my world to be gray for a long time, and I wanted to go but couldn't get out. Later, I thought about it seriously, what do I really want? I want me to be happy, I want to be happy, I want to make myself good, and that obsession is not so much a way to let go, but a way to alleviate my painful state.

For example, if you like the doll very much, you want it very much, but you can't figure out why your mother didn't buy it for you, which becomes your tangle. But perhaps what you will never forget is the happy state of the doll, not the doll itself, so the doll is not important, you can play with the children and be happy. When I figured out this question, I seemed to be relieved all of a sudden, so when you asked this question, it was not the obsession that bothered you, but that you picked it up for too long and didn't know how to let go of it.

2. Enrich your life and don't let yourself be idle.

In fact, when you are idle, you will always be troubled by many things, and when you are busy, you don't have time to think about them. Some people say that I don't know what I want to do, so force myself, the easiest and most effective way is to exercise, adrenaline secretion, dopamine formation will bring you satisfaction and a sense of achievement. Looking at the changes in your body, this positive motivation, slowly you feel that some things are not so important.

Instead of sitting there all the time thinking about how to let go of the obsession, it is better to do something, and slowly the obsession will become weaker and weaker, because I feel that it is not important, so it can not be called an obsession. Do something you like, don't have to dwell on the present, let go of yourself, maybe you will find a different life.

Conclusion: I know that letting go of those long-term obsessions is not something that happens overnight, but it is better to let go of yourself than to have no way to change them.

People must be able to tolerate falsehood.

Live perfunctory, endure deception, forget promises, let go of everything, refine into refinement, calm and calm.

Those who left you, for whatever reason they left in the first place, may have hesitated and struggled, but at least the moment he decided to leave, he felt that he would be better off without you.

Once I don't trust you among adults, how much remedy you will do in the future, I think you are still playing routines, single-handedly, you don't have to be afraid of being alone, how to cry along the way, but you must not coax.

Recently, I like Lu Sihao's sentence very much: When you love, you don't disappoint people, and when you play, you don't disappoint the scenery; Live up to the bed when you sleep, and live up to yourself when you're alone.

Sometimes estrangement is not annoying, but too much love and helplessness. I miss you, but I'm not going to look for you. I miss the time when we first met, if life is only as first seen.

Everyone has such a person in their hearts, who is no longer a lover and cannot become a friend. Time passes, it doesn't matter if you like it or not, you will always be used to thinking of you. Then I hope you are doing well.

I am the one who secretly writes your name on scratch paper, I am the one who secretly writes your name on the snow when it snows, I am the one who writes your name in front of the mirror, I am the one who walks a long way to meet you but still can't touch you, I am the one who wants to lose weight for you, I am the one who cares about you every time, and you are the one who never knows.

I have worked hard sincerely, but I don't want to say in the end, I wish you a good life, I wish me well, don't talk about debts, thank you for met.

The reason why you feel uncomfortable is probably because you put in a lot of time and energy, and in the end you don't get what you want, and that kind of momentary loss makes you feel unworthy.

The reason why you can't let go of someone is because you like this person, you value him and regard him as more important than your own life, and you can even say that he She has been deeply rooted in your life and imprinted that cannot be erased, so you can't let go of him. Because you care about him, she cares. After all, liking a person starts with appearance, loyalty to talent, and falling into character, and can't let go of him, she is because she loves him, she is because of his admiration, admiration, and integration of him and her into her life.

I believe that everyone in this world will have people they value, people they like, and people they can't let go, including me. Editor-in-chief, you said that you can't let go of a person yourself, and it's the same reason, I can't wait to pour my best into her, and he holds it in his mouth for fear of melting, holding it in the palm of his hand for fear of falling. Everywhere will be careful for the sake of the other party, and will also pay attention to his feelings, in short, I hope that he and she are happy, he will be happy when he sees her, and he will be depressed when he sees him unhappy.

This is the power of a person's love that likes to make a person, he will always think about her, he will miss her, he can't let go of her, he will shush him, ask for warmth, be afraid of him, she is cold, afraid of him, she is hungry, so he cares about her everywhere He thinks about his lover, this is the power of love. Because you already regard the other person as the most important person in your life, you can't let go of the other person. In fact, this is also a phenomenon that will occur between lovers, lovers or husbands and wives, this is a very normal selfishness of human nature, maybe this is the power of love, a kind of magnetic attraction.

Like a person who can't let go, a person will think about being with him She holds hands to the end of work, goes shopping, eats together, watches movies together, sleeps together, in short, she wants to tie the knot with each other and stay together forever

People have feelings, and when the relationship reaches a certain level, it may not be easy for two people to separate after falling in love. If one party wants to separate, then the other party will be very painful, after all, let go of a person. It's hard, it's hard.

It's like falling in love with someone, it only takes a second, but it may take a lifetime to let go of someone, so don't give up easily, after all, feelings are not easy to come by, as long as you persevere. Fight for it.

Because you haven't seen it thoroughly enough, meeting is fate, going on together is fate, no fate is also a kind of fate, fate will eventually meet, no fate is difficult to find dozens of meters, time will leave the most worthy person, the past is not worth mentioning.

'You're afraid of the dark, but he's a lamp'

Love is too humble, in the future love, you must remember that not one person can support the whole relationship, you have to learn to guide the other party to give, so that he will have a sense of responsibility for this relationship, and will pay more attention to you.

It's not like what it's like to be alone. If you can't let go of a person, it's the one who thinks about him when he eats, thinks about him in his dreams, thinks that he is still eating, can't go, and can't sleep well.

I can't let go of a person, and I always miss him in my heart, which will cause trouble to my life and work. So it's better to be bold and confess to others.

Hmmm....Not letting go is a kind of persistence and nostalgia.

du, like 、...But, before you like him, he already has a new dedicated cp.,What does it feel like....I tried to give up on him again and again, but it ......

Hey....It's just self-inflicted.

So, don't pester him, maybe he's tired, you're tired, there's no need for that!