In life, is it really because you miss someone that you can t let go of someone?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-01
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you truly love someone, you often don't feel like yourself anymore.

    Maybe you never thought that you would be so kind to a person, so heart-wrenching, that even if the two of them are separated, you are still unwilling.

    I am not willing to be afraid of my own fearless dedication, I am not willing to be a sincere heart that even touches me, I am unwilling to give the love you have given me to others, and I am unwilling to let us separate like this.

    In fact, people in a relationship will always be moved by their own behavior, doing things that they think the other party will like and appreciate themselves.

    On the one hand, I am willing to give everything because I love deeply, and on the other hand, I want my emotions to be reciprocated, and I want the other party to give warm love.

    It's not just feelings, there are many things we don't want to give up, and we can't bear to let go, not because it's really how rare and worth missing, but because we have paid too much for him, and we are unwilling to give up easily.

    I have given you my energy, my time, and all the things that I feel most precious to you, and I only hope that we can have a perfect ending and a good future.

    However, when I knew that the happy ending was gone, I was left with nothing but resentment and regret.

    Even if you don't love it, please be responsible for the person you were back in, your departure is not just a simple harm to him.

    In fact, everyone's relationship will step through the freshness and enter a bottleneck period, and after surviving this period, the relationship can go further.

    Probably for most girls, I am willing to spend my whole youth with you, because I feel that you are the one who can accompany me to the end and enter the marriage hall.

    But when you can't do that, I feel like my previous time was not worth it.

    Sometimes you feel that you can't let go of that person, think about it carefully, is it really because you still love him?

    After a breakup, people will always think of the bits and pieces of their ex, and remember the time they used to be together.

    You miss, you feel good, you think you still love him, but in fact, all this is just a psychological hint you give yourself.

    People will always think of the good things they have experienced and forget the less important people or things.

    Looking back, it's not that you still love him now, how much you can't forget him, you just can't forget the happy things you experienced together.

    So your subconscious is actually unwilling, unwilling that the person you once loved so much will no longer accompany you, and unwilling that the person who used to be obedient to you will be someone else's lover.

    But what's the matter, since we don't love each other anymore, it's the most important thing to do when you meet the right person as soon as possible.

    If you are not the person he really loves, it is useless for you to try harder, if it is really the destined lover, even if you wait in place, he will come to you.

    is like the lyrics of Stefanie Sun, "I didn't turn around, the most cruel moment, quietly watching you go, not like me at all."

    Love is flowing and involuntary to others, why be excited to ask for reasons", love doesn't need a reason, love is love, not love is not love, there is no need to make excuses for yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, many times I can't let go of someone because I feel wronged for myself, thinking that I have paid a lot but not getting anything in return.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, if you can't let go of a person because you miss it, you always have each other in your heart, so you will keep thinking about a place, if you really can't forget someone, then try to connect.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, because there is no one in your life who can fill your psychological emptiness, and this person who can't let go is only temporary.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you can't let it go, go to him, and the last time you see each other, you may be able to break your last thoughts.

    There are many things in our lives that we are obsessed with, but we can never change anything. If you really can't forget someone in your life, go and meet them.

    Life is never what you think it is. We will always have too much sadness. I've experienced some unforgettable feelings, and I know how regrettable it is that I am unwilling. But the past has become irretrievable, and those pasts have become memories, slowly blown away in time.

    I've been separated from him for years, but I haven't completely forgotten about it yet. It's just that those that were once in the past, and I won't grieve all night because of them.

    Everyone will experience differences in life to some extent, and maybe like me, I will not be able to forget a person for many years, but everything will pass, and sadness is always temporary.

    If you can't let go of someone, then go and see him, reality will cut off your last thoughts. That's what I did back then, but we didn't see each other for the last time, and only got a phrase "please don't disturb my life", and it was from that time that I really broke off this thought.

    You may be in this situation now, if you really miss not being able to get a price, if you really feel like you can't let go, then go and see him.

    You will find that there is no place for you in the other person's life, and you are already a passerby in his life. Maybe you think he's ruthless, maybe you'll think he's never loved you, but it's not important, the important thing is that you're going to die.

    If you can rekindle the old love between you, then it is exactly what you want. It's just that before that you need to be active enough, you need to take the initiative to meet the other person.

    In fact, there are always many people in life who are speechless, and they can't forget it in their hearts, but they are still pretending to be extremely strong, never taking the initiative to redeem it, and never taking the initiative to do anything. This kind of longing is meaningless, it is better to cut off the other party in your heart.

    If you want him, go see him, or forget about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Try not to pay attention to each other's lives: feelings are not a person's business, blindly giving.

    Try to keep yourself busy: People don't have time to think about it when they're busy.

    Try to start a new life: If a person is silent in a relationship for a long time, he will only make himself depressed and unable to leave. But people always have to look forward, only by forgetting the past can they start a new life, if they have been silent in pain.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First, try to meet and don't regret whatever the outcome.

    Second, keep yourself busy and focus on your work, and forget about it.

    Third, gather information about the other party.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    At the beginning, I don't touch anything about that person, I make more friends, and in the joy of friendship, I can forget the lonely thoughts, and when I think about it afterwards, I will be relieved.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It can be said that this is a kind of emotion, which is relatively rich and complex, and when you miss someone, you will always think about it, or you still have to find some ways to dispel it, such as doing something else, and it will have some effect.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think it may be because two people have been together for a long time and will have some dependence on each other, or the other party has some particularly good advantages that attract you, so it will lead to the inability to let go of the other person even after the breakup, and it may be that you have invested too much in this relationship, and it is difficult to accept it for a while after the breakup; Because two people will get closer and sweeter in the process of getting along for a long time, it is inevitable that they will not be able to let go after the breakup.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It shows that they like each other very much, love each other very much, and the two of them will have a lot of good memories for a long time together, which has become a habit.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    On the one hand, due to emotional reasons, the relationship between the two people is very good, and on the other hand, due to their own reasons, because they can't let go of this past. There are also various complex reasons, which may also be due to environmental reasons.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I miss each other very much, I still have feelings for each other, I still have some memories for each other, I feel that the other party is more suitable for me, and the other party can take better care of myself, which is the reason why I can't let go of each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In a love story, it is normal to separate and reunite. If you like someone, you will be together, and if you don't like it, you will break up. There are a lot of people in the world, and you will eventually meet the one who will grow old with you.

    When you are together, you also have countless beauties, and after a breakup, it can only become a memory. At the same time, it is necessary to start again as soon as possible. The one who wastes time and energy on someone who is already estranged is not an attachment, but a fool.

    In the story of two people, the vast majority of people can't let go of one person.

    After two couples who have been grudges for a long time break up, can they still pretend to be each other in their hearts? No, the hope of never seeing each other again is the most normal manifestation. The opposite of love is not resentment, but most people will have resentment in their hearts after a breakup.

    Some people don't forget it after a breakup. It's not that I really love her, but I still have a lot of regrets in my heart. Especially when we were together, I thought about and discussed things for a long time, but I didn't put them into practice.

    Two people have fulfilled all the wishes and ideas in each other's hearts together, and if the needs for each other no longer exist, they will naturally not miss each other anymore. The more regretful I am, the more unwilling I am to let go, but this has nothing to do with love.

    Only those who like the new can hate the old, but if the newcomer is not as good as one, it will naturally feel that the old is good. People are like that. The people who like to recall the past the most are often the ones who are not satisfactory in the present.

    On the contrary, if you go through a lot of torture and finally get your first wish true, I believe that no one will want to go back to the past. The reason why I can't let go of my ex after a breakup is that there is no more suitable person around, and there is no better person than her, so I often miss the old love. But it's not about loving her completely, it's just about meeting someone better than her without replacing it.

    But one day, I met someone who was younger, pretty, and sensible than her, and soon I couldn't even remember her name.

    What is love? I'm sure everyone will have their own interpretation. The most important thing about it is that you can't change it for someone else.

    It's just her. But the person who broke up, if you can still live your daily life, how can you live without her? Actually, it's just that a lot of the habits you developed when you were together, after she left, the rhythm of life became a mess, and you don't know how to spend each day.

    But these are not love, just habits. For example, when eating hot pot, it is customary to order mandarin duck pot, when watching a movie, it is customary to choose the seventh row, and when holding hands, I like to put 10 fingers together. However, these things, other people, or as long as they are changed correctly, can still survive and have nothing to do with love in nature.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it's love, and only by loving each other can you not let go of each other, which is a very painful experience.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think it's missing. Missing is a kind of emotional relief, each of us has it, often we miss someone by chance, this person is our relatives, friends, classmates and colleagues.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is both love and longing, because only by loving each other will you miss each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    To a large extent, it's because of love, only if you like someone very much in your heart, you will keep missing him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you can't let go of someone in your heart, it means that this is missing, and if he thinks of him, he will be moved in the future, then it means that you still love this person.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The best way to let go of a person is to make your life full, you can find something that interests you to do, such as reading, traveling, and you like to enrich your life the most.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't fight against your own consciousness, just think about it, you can't forget it if you can't forget it, do more other things, enrich yourself, and time will slowly smooth everything out.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    2 Every time you are sad, talk to a friend and make your relationship with him clear. 3 You can choose to go out for a walk, travel, and see the world for yourself in a place where you can't see him. 4 Make new friends, including some of the more capable ones of the opposite sex.

    Questions. I always see it and I still like it very much.

    You can choose to avoid him and try not to appear in front of you.

    You can choose to avoid him and try not to appear in front of him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I once heard such a saying, liking a person is a momentary thing, and forgetting a person takes a lifetime.

    So we know how hard it is to forget someone, but it is also possible to forget someone, then it is to fall in love with someone again, not to contact, not to want to, and let time fade slowly.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Do what you like, distract yourself, and then you will forget it after a long time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think the so-called inability to let go of a person is actually a manifestation of my paranoid personality. Knowing that others don't love you anymore, or even hurt you, you still have to do such a thing. It's incredible.

    I think what I need to do is to change this kind of personality of mine.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    As long as you start a new environment and a new life, it will be easy to let go.

    Life has to go on, and you can't always reminisce about the past.

    There will be better people in front of you.

    But you also have to become better, so that you can meet better people.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hello it's hard to forget a person, it's even harder to let go, and the best thing to do is time, or start the next relationship.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Completely letting go of a person, it feels like it's not empty in my heart. It's that life is still dull, and occasionally, I still think of you. But when I think of you again, there is no more turmoil in my heart.

    So, I'm glad you came at an age where I could afford to lose. After all, there are some feelings, and I don't have a choice other than saying goodbye.

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