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When you meet a strong person, how to communicate.
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Can't be provoked, can afford to hide. Most of these people are lonely and lonely. Their personalities make them seem out of place in their circle of friends, but they are strong enough on their hearts that since they are used to being lonely, then we are further away from them.
When we have to deal with this kind of person because of life and work, when there is an intersection, there may not be no way to deal with them, optimistic about their weaknesses, this kind of person rarely cares about face, their stubbornness will sooner or later cause their mistakes, as the saying goes, "you are used to him and her", he doesn't like to be strong, proud and arrogant, sooner or later he will make mistakes that cannot be made up, and then, gradually eliminated.
There are mountains outside the mountains, there are people outside the people, when two strong people meet together, you just wait to see a good show. The snipe and the clam compete, and the fisherman profits.
Give him a dismissal, he can do it in front of you every day, but everything is not necessarily right, when you get one thing right, sort out the method, in front of his opponents, friends or superiors and other people who are beneficial to you, let him lose face, and completely turn his face with them. He will never be forced to talk to you again, and he may even start to slap you.
Use them for me. As the saying goes, a gun shoots a bird in the head, this kind of person can't stand flattery, if you flatter two sentences, he will feel that you are his own person, and he will be a little fluttering. When there are some things that are inconvenient for you to come forward, you can encourage such people to go and act as your pawns.
Zoom in on your own measurements. In life, you will meet all kinds of people, have a few bosom friends, as for the person you hate, let him go with the flow, as long as he does not harm your interests.
Hateful people must have loveliness, and if you find the good points of such people, your life will not be so entangled. If you really can't find the merits, you have 10,000 ways to eliminate him, follow the principles, and don't let them hurt themselves.
Seeing him as a clown jumping off the beam is like looking at a person pretending to be 13.
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Personally, I don't really agree with this point of view, whether you can mix well in the workplace is related to the character of all of us, but it is not easy to mix well like that kind of person with a strong personality, if this person's ability is strong enough, and the position is relatively high, there may be people who listen, but if the position itself is very low, at this time the strong personality will only cause others to resent it, once the people around you reject you, it is very difficult to mix well. <>
You can think about it according to your actual situation, there must be those around us who have a slightly stronger personality, whether in the workplace or when they were students, this type of person is not so likeable. When we were students, we didn't associate with people who didn't like them, but when we entered the workplace, we would be more realistic. If the other party's position is higher than your own, even if you don't like the other party's character, you won't say anything, but if the other party's position is lower than your own, you don't need to look at the other party's face to work, and you will definitely not tolerate such a character.
Of course, this is just my personal opinion. Next, I'm going to talk about who I think will mix better in the workplace. <>
People with good personality in the workplace are often more popular, the so-called good personality means that those who are more lively and cheerful, this kind of people will not be cold no matter when they arrive, the atmosphere will be more harmonious, and everyone will prefer to associate with such people, so in most cases, people with better personalities will generally mix better in the workplace. <>
In my subconscious, I feel that how well a person mixes in the workplace is actually based on the results of that person's work. After all, the workplace is different from the campus, no one will always tolerate you, when your ability is strong enough, work hard enough and serious, you can get the attention of the leader and the respect of colleagues, so this kind of person will generally mix better.
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I don't think I have to get along very much, because I don't want to be hated, and my work will naturally not be smooth sailing.
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Strong people in the workplace are very prone to making enemies and causing themselves to be isolated by those around them. It's hard for such a strong person to mix well in the workplace.
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I don't think it's necessarily a good mix, because strong people will be hated by others, and naturally things won't go well at work.
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Rigidity and softness, advance and retreat freely. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke revealed.
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Strong people in the workplace are very idle and complaining, which leads to being isolated by others. It's hard for such a strong person to mix well in the workplace.
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Since ancient times, it is not as good as overcoming rigidity with softness. Maybe you don't want to obey him, but when you think that things are going to be reversed, you have the motivation to give it a try. Strong people have weaknesses deep in their hearts, and wrapping them in a strong cloak is to cover up that fragile heart.
When you understand the truth,"Be obedient to Him"It's not that hard to do. Obedience is to gain his trust, and with trust you will become his dependence at some point, gaining his attention and appreciation. For example, in the workplace, you work according to his ideas and gain his trust.
He always has a time when he can go wrong and a problem that can't be solved, so it's time for you to play a role and fill in the gaps.
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In the face of the strongest person, if you can't stay away, you can temporarily show weakness and don't fight with him.
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In the face of strong people, it is the best way to overcome rigidity with softness.
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When the enemy is strong, we show weakness, when the enemy is tired, I chase, and when the enemy flees, I fight.
Anyway, you're pretty and I like it.
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