How can I make myself very sensible?

When will I be sensible? When you can earn money on your own, and you have to work hard for it, and you feel tired, and then you have to learn to plan carefully, then you will feel that you have grown up, and you are tired of growing up. When will I grow up?

When you see a child crying over a candy or a toy, when you see yourself at the end of the road but still calm, you will feel that you have grown up, and you are tired of growing up. When will I be sensible? When you have a boyfriend or girlfriend and want to stay with him for the rest of your life, then you grow up because you want to have a home of your own How can a person be sensible?

Biological age cannot be changed for a while, and you can't do it in a hurry. If you prefer to use this as a standard, then it is easy to do, if you are not 18 years old, wait until you are 18 years old, and move forward day by day, and every day you will be one step closer to 18 years old. If it is not this problem, but it is not difficult to think that when you grow up, you will be able to make your own decisions about everything, have enough self-confidence, and have the ability to be born and enter the WTO from left and right.

You can grow up at the age of 12. There are shortcuts, too, and they don't require particularly good intelligence. Because the intelligence of the average person is average, or lower than average.

What is a shortcut? Study. The question of how people live has always been solved by teachers and parents.

They can be instilled as they want. In fact, the best way is for young people to read a lot of books by themselves, because there are so many people who have lived in history, and it is nothing new to be a person, and it is not a new thing to do anything. The more books I read, the more I think and my partners, the more assertive I become, and the less lonely I become.

Anyone you want to do can find wonderful and labor-saving methods from the treasure trove of books. Only when you understand the truth of the matter can you be considered sensible. Growing up is to form your own opinions.

The formation of assertiveness requires the firmness and tenacity of personality, and most people are too soft-hearted and not strong enough; So we have to rely on the second way to form an opinion: a great deal of knowledge and experience. One of the conspicuous problems of our young people is that they are enslaved by examination-oriented education and are indoctrinated with a lot of knowledge and dogma about what the world is like, and only when they are in college do they read some philosophical books and read some biographies to understand a little bit of humanities.

What does it mean to be sensible? Only we know. Only by taking the standards in our own hands can we get the initiative to be people.

It's often a good idea to ask others, but if you only read wordless books and just use the people around you as teachers, sometimes it will inevitably make their limitations become your limitations. The best friend around you is indispensable, but this kind of friend is not enough, you also have to have friends in books. Only by constantly reading a large number of biographies, long and short, describing from all sides, it is better to have a completely different view of the same person and the same thing, and it is especially necessary to cultivate personal discernment.

Differing opinions make people mature. Mature people who know the same thing will have so many completely different evaluations. /

Go for it. To perceive. to understand....And so on, in using your heart to live every day of life.

Sensibility means that children have certain self-management skills, can understand parents' intentions and rules, and can abide by the rules and moral constraints of the family and society. Generally speaking, the children around them who are particularly sensible have the following things in common:

1.Obedient: Sensible children will listen carefully to their parents' words, understand their parents' guidance and requirements, and do what their parents have arranged.

2.Independence: Sensible children have their own ideas and judgments, can think independently, and make decisions independently.

3.Strong self-control: sensible children are able to restrain their emotions and impulses, abide by rules, and be able to exercise self-restraint and grasp before doing things.

4.Respect and care for family members: Sensible children have a strong sense of responsibility and love, respect family members, care about their feelings and needs, can take the initiative to help their families, and care about the situation of the family and family members.

There are several key points in the process of educating children:

1.Lead by example: Parents should be a good role model for their children, pay attention to their own cultivation and morality, and let their children learn and grow slowly in the process of practice.

2.Careful guidance: Parents should take time to listen carefully to their children's voices, patiently explain problems and explain reasons, and provide refined, personalized and differentiated services for their children's education.

3.Good encouragement: Parents should give timely and positive incentives when their children are doing well or making progress, so that their children can feel happy. At the same time, when children have wrong or bad behaviors, they should be guided rationally so that children can realize their mistakes and truths.

4.Trust and respect: Parents need to trust their children's self-management and decision-making skills, respect their rights and attempts, and establish a good family relationship in the family environment to help children feel loved, understood and supported better.

In short, the children around them who are sensible are formed under the guidance of family education and parents, and parents can help their children develop into responsible adults through appropriate methods and methods.

Making children sensible is an important task for parents to educate their children. Here are some ways to help your child become sensible:

1.Set an example for your child: Children are naturally imitating the behavior of adults, so parents should set an example and show responsible behavior and decision-making.

2.Establish clear rules and limits: Establish clear rules and limits at home so that children know what they can and cannot do, and clarify responsibilities and obligations among family members.

3.Give your child appropriate autonomy: Give your child a certain amount of self-esteem and choice, help them learn to make decisions and take responsibility for consequences, and supervise and guide them.

4.Motivate your child's positive behavior: When your child shows good behavior, give praise and encouragement in time so that your child understands what is right.

5.Involve your child in household chores: Involve your child in the daily chores of the family, such as cleaning the house, washing dishes, etc., to help them understand the importance and responsibility of household chores.

6.Provide children with the right information and education: Provide children with the right information and education to help them form correct values and morals, and enhance their sense of responsibility and self-discipline.

Most importantly, parents should pay attention to their children's emotions and behaviors, guide and educate them patiently, give them attention and support, and let them grow up in a good family environment.

The most sensible child I have ever seen is someone else's child, the child of a female classmate. She gave birth to a total of four children, three girls and one boy, the boy is the eldest and is in the fourth grade of primary school, and the youngest is now just over 1 year old. The Lord knows how she raises her children, and several of her children are very obedient and sensible, not only helping with housework, but also helping to take care of the family.

That's how his parents were educated.

01Be patient with your child.

1. Children make mistakes.

Every child makes mistakes, and the process of children's growth is actually a process of making mistakes, so parents should be patient with their children. is like the mother in the show, who has never murdered her own children. She is always gentle and gentle, coils her hair up, does not apply powder, is gentle and gentle in everything, and wants her children to become sensible, so parents should be patient with their children.

2. Be patient in the process of educating children.

Many parents have a temper tantrum, and they will be particularly impulsive when they encounter things, and this is also the case in the process of educating their children. In fact, parents are a sample of children, and if parents are too short-tempered, then children will also learn from their parents to do things. In an irritable environment, the child will either grow up to be very irritable and learn the way his parents behave, so that he or she can interact with his classmates, or the child will become particularly cowardly, only doing things with promises, and not having the courage to take responsibility.

No matter which one it is, it will not educate a sensible and well-behaved child, so parents must pay attention to their patience in the process of education, and must be patient with their children.

Spend time with your child.

1. Watch TV with your children.

In the show, Xin'er's mother often holds Xin'er to watch TV together, and Xin'er will dance and shout "pulling turnips". It is precisely because of the mother's company that the child's round limbs will grow into a sensible and well-behaved child. Now the social pressure is so great, everyone's life is in a hurry, every parent wants to let their children win at the starting line, and they can't wait to be that starting line, so they work hard to make money, work hard to support their families, and hope to give their children better material living conditions, but sometimes, this is not what children want.