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What you lack is communication, it's not that your husband doesn't love you, it's not that he doesn't want to do things with you, he mostly has things that he needs him to do. Take time, communicate with him more, say some words of comfort and concern for him, he will naturally get close to you, don't wait for the loss, only to feel that it is still the original good, because, it is difficult to recover the water, remember!
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Time is the same, men are the same, there is no eternal love. You have to think that he is not as good as your husband when the time is long! If you really leave your husband, you will know that it is still the original husband and wife when you compare them in the future.
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I've been in a similar situation to you, but not as serious as you.
I feel very bad, what he gave me is also affection, ordinary words, ordinary things, no pampering, no hugs. I can't feel his love.
I had a communication with him yesterday, he said that my love makes people feel pressure, I can't help but cry when I think about it, I want to love him well, but I feel that he always pushes me out.
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By the time that man becomes you, it's the same or worse than the current situation You can't get it and it's in the past, but it's the present that should be cherished even more
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If you marry him and try it, it may not be as good as now, when you eat too much rice and white flour, and everyone wants to try cornmeal.
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Isn't that easy, it's simple, let them compete, you are the referee.
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The methods include: thinking and communicating, listening to the heart, and understanding deeply.
1. Calm down first, give yourself time and space to think and understand your true feelings, including your feelings for these two men, your strengths and weaknesses, and your expectations and desires for the future, communicate honestly with the two men, express your feelings and confusions, communicate honestly, and see if you can find a solution together.
2. Listen to your inner voice, think carefully about your own needs and values, including what expectations and requirements you have for your future partner, which man is more in line with your values and life goals, and observe how two men perform in life and whether they can bring happiness and satisfaction in a long-term relationship.
3. Get to know each other more deeply with two men, and get to know their personalities, values, and lifestyles better by getting along and communicating.
If you love him very much, then you have to make him feel that you are better than that ex-girlfriend, and let him slowly forget about his former girlfriend, as a man, if his ex-girlfriend has something to ask for, it is understandable for a man to help, after all, there was still a relationship before. But a breakup is a breakup after all, if being together makes you feel very uncomfortable, and makes you feel that his ex-girlfriend is his object instead of you, then he is excessive, and he needs to have a degree of doing things, that is, to grasp the scale, if the ex-girlfriend just needs help with something, then no matter who will help her, even if she doesn't know her, let alone have had a relationship before? But if his ex-girlfriend has nothing to do with him, he will call him **, what to meet, what to date, this kind of relationship is transgressing ordinary friends, if he wants to go to his ex-girlfriend like this, and if he continues to be ambiguous, it is disrespectful to you, and there is no need to continue with him, an unprincipled man will never be responsible, I hope you can be happy, can touch your boyfriend with sincerity and true love, I wish you a family.
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