Parents come out and do the opposite, what should I do?

In that case, you can also pretend to be out and say the opposite, saying that your parents can do this, why can't you do it yourself, learn from your parents, and if your parents are not fools, they will converge.

As a distant junior of yours, it is really commendable to have such filial piety, and you respect it. As an adult, I don't blame you. If it's true, you just need to explain it clearly.

There is nothing, you don't have to blame yourself, worry, the deceased is gone, treat the living well, and do your filial piety.

Your remorse now doesn't solve the problem, the old man is gone.

You can only cherish the people who are still alive from now on and do something for them.

If you are still worried that others will resent you, you have no power. You can't control what others say, you can only care about what you can do to change other people's perception of you.

So, you can only live in the moment and start taking some responsibility for the people who are alive.

Speaking out is a typical indecision, the main reason is to say your thoughts without thinking clearly, and change your mind immediately when you are disturbed by others or other things. Suggest, think twice, say less and do more, and do more.

I keep talking back, what should I do? I think you should get rid of this bad habit and talk the talk, so that others will trust you, otherwise you will lose the trust of others.

Don't promise what you can't do.

That's a bit mysterious! It's just a verbal promise, and you didn't pay him the credit, legally speaking, the store still belongs to him, you have to consult a professional! Personally, I think it can only be said that human feelings are dealt with above!

Treat the kind of person who doesn't have a b face, you can only hold a kitchen knife and tell him that there is no store, and there is a life!

You don't have to do it, you know very well that your brother is settling accounts.

There are two types of contracts, one is written and the other is oral. But you have a certificate to do it.

First of all, I think it's not easy to be a singer, and the entertainment industry is not so easy to enter, and how much singing is learned from a young age, and the competition in the art examination is fierce. If you are still very young and want to choose your future life, you must be cautious, and your parents must not want you to take such a risky path.

Of course, it's good to have dreams. Once you've made your decision, stick to it.

For parents, they must hope that their children can have a smooth and worry-free life, and taking this path is not in line with their hopes. So if you want to solve it, I think there are the following ways:

Pretend to be soft. You can apologize to them or say it's just a joke and you don't really want to be a singer, but in private you can do your own thing or subtly influence their opinions. (There is a certain risk, parents will definitely not have anything good after discovering that they have been deceived, and there is a limit to what they can do if they don't get support).

After making sure that both parties are calm, sit down and communicate with them, make a plan and ensure the feasibility of the plan by collecting information, use realistic and feasible examples (such as so-and-so debuted halfway but became a big star, but the occasional case is not very convincing) and plan to persuade them, tell them your plans and goals, why you do it, how to do it, what you should give, what your parents should give (such as money, time) and implore them to support supervision. Use a practical plan to impress people, instead of saying that I want to be a singer and not taking action.

Hope it helps.

Finally, I would like to emphasize again, be calm, be calm, and never go to extremes.

Friend, it's not so easy to be a singer, it takes a lot of effort and sweat, and it doesn't necessarily pay off... Maybe your mother thinks that your idea is unrealistic and difficult to implement, but you don't listen to persuasion, so she wants to snub you and let you understand that it's good to be down-to-earth... Adopt it.

I don't know what to say. Obviously your parents are at fault, but you also understand that they love you, but in a way that is a little extreme. There is no way to undo the past, I believe that as long as you still have dreams and beliefs, you will find your own value.

When that day comes, you can proudly say to your parents and to everyone around you, "I can!" "I wish you a speedy success!

I also hate my parents' ......They always feel like they're always doing the right ......Hmmm......If I were you, I would probably be just like you, even disgusted with ......My parents didn't care about me and didn't let me do anything but study, but the money was never small, and they thought it would make me happy ......They never knew about us, did they? If we say it's our parents, what about our parents, so that our parents can ignore our feelings? I'm sure if they had supported you at that point, you might have been successful.

But now, it's the result of their own making, and they're blaming you. The world has never been fair. What can I say about such parents who were "not right from the start", you are okay, you are already working, at least you don't have to spend as much time with them, and me, all I can do is be numb, and always maintain that pathetic top five.

Choosing to drop out of school, you are a little impulsive. But your parents did go a little too far. When children are in adolescence, not to mention how rebellious they are, at least they want others to respect and understand.

Instead of communicating with you well, they chose to scold and sarcasm... I sympathize with you. But now that it has happened, no matter how painful you are, you can't go back, and you can't stop it from becoming an established fact.

I think that although they did it excessively, their original intentions were still good, and they didn't want to harm you. You don't have to think so much about what used to be now. Think more about what you do now and how hard you will work in the future to make them look at you with admiration.

If you have a successful career, they will be relieved to see that you have not fallen by dropping out of school.

Little brother, I sympathize with you, this situation is indeed very heart-wrenching. This is a rare situation, and if you have settled down in your life now, then go with the flow. Seeing that your parents are like this, I'm afraid coordination won't be of much use.

After listening to the lecture on a happy life, you will understand what to do, and you will understand what to do.

Think about your own fault, I understand that you love basketball, but you shouldn't have dropped out of school in the first place!

Go and live your own life with peace of mind, go for ......

Why don't you find a good opportunity to communicate with your parents? If you don't communicate, how can they know the pain in your heart and your tears.

If I were you, leave this home. Start a different life all over again.

I don't scold you, I just feel sorry for you. Creation makes people miserable for you.

There is still a need for communication with parents... Anyway, I hope you are happy.

It doesn't matter, life is divided and combined, and there is no system.

If you want to know their own bottom line, you can write to them separately, ask them more clearly what you want to know, and then ask them separately. It's also useless if they're reluctant to be together for your sake.

You need to learn from this, why did they develop the way they did? There are mistakes on both sides, and you need to avoid mistakes in the future, such as whether the understanding, communication, and care for your lover are enough, whether they are equal, and whether they can let the other person know ,......If they can do all of this well, things won't end here.

It's come to this, learn more, see if you can break the mirror and reunite, can't and don't stick together, there is a kind of love called letting go ......

It's up to your mother's wishes. After all, marriage is a matter for both parties, in fact, you are 23 years old, you should be able to talk to your mother for a real time. If your mother is willing to leave, you need to be mentally prepared and able to take care of her.

You're hoping for him.

Are you in bai together, or do you think your mom zhi would be better off without your dad if dao wants them to be together, you have to.

You have to face the difficulties and quarrels that may arise in the future, if you want them to separate, then persuade them to separate, this kind of thing you have to consider not only yourself, but also your parents' wishes, parents actually consider the wishes of their children, you have to show your attitude, they will make a decision. But the wisest thing to do is to tell them that you or I support your decision.

Your parents are adults, so you should know your decision.

What will happen to Bai.

Consequences of du. I've seen a real zhi before

Respect your parents' own wishes.

No matter what happens in the future, they will still be your parents.

Let's go. It's good for both parties.

You can't manage the affairs of your parents, you can only let it be, maybe separation is also a relief, I hope you don't be affected by this, your own strong life.

In fact, there are many helpless feelings in the relationship, I hope you can have a lover and eventually become a family. However, don't ignore the weight of parents in the hearts of children, especially a filial child. So on the one hand, you have to strengthen the confidence of your girlfriend and yourself, and on the other hand, you must strive to get the affirmation of the other party's parents.

For example, if you buy something often, please eat. In short, it is necessary to fully show the spirit of a man. The human heart is made of flesh.

Of course, if you have never succeeded and your girlfriend has chosen to give up, then you should also plan ahead, and don't forget that you also have parents. There's nothing wrong with being kind to yourself.

What a man, if she doesn't waver, then you should persevere.

Wishing you all happiness ...

Ask her to say that her parents will give you a little time, saying that you will prove it to them, you will make his daughter happy, both sides insist is victory, my boyfriend and I are also against both family members, but we have been persisting together, I believe you can too! Come on!

Wishing you all happiness ...

I'm in the same situation, I'm in my forties, I haven't come out now, I'll share my experience with you, don't think about how to change yourself, the more you want to change, the more disappointed, everything has two sides, our experience leads us to low self-esteem, but it also makes us strong, humble, serious, etc., in short, there are disadvantages and benefits, my motto is, Seong is not blessed, and no one is perfect, maybe our advantages are the shortcomings of others.

Hello sister! I wonder how you're doing? I'm the same as you, and I've had a similar experience, and people who haven't experienced it may always comfort you lightly, but I know that this kind of depression and inferiority complex is deep in my bones.

Even though I'm grown up and working now, they haven't stopped hitting me for a moment, and my mom said that "useless people deserve to die", which makes me very unconfident now, and even a little socially phobic, and sometimes I want to die, but this will only verify their words "You are a useless person". So I typed this text with tears in my eyes, hoping that you will be strong, that it is better to leave the house, get rid of them, start to define your life again, try to live well, don't always be immersed in these pains, and hope that we will get rid of these original stigma soon.

I'm grateful to my boyfriend, and although he doesn't comfort me much, he doesn't leave me and makes me feel grounded! My mom said, "My boyfriend is good to you, did my boyfriend raise you so big" but I want to say that I am at least a "person" in front of my boyfriend. Hope well.

I'm the same, the second child in the family, especially my mother, put me in my grandmother's house since I was a child, I didn't have father's love and mother's love since I was a child, if I had given birth to my brother at that time, I wouldn't have me, and now that I'm older, my mother is not pleasing to me everywhere, and she will say that I am good when I wear clothes and makeup, and my sister is good at everything. Because my sister has the ability to make money, I was originally inferior, my mother has acne me every time, it's time to get married, I chose to marry far away, and my mother said she didn't agree, saying that I was far away from her, hehe, seriously, I didn't think about my parents like others, because I was used to it since I was a child, and I didn't need it.

Alas, I see your remarks deeply.

Table sympathy! But girls must learn self-esteem, self-love and self-improvement! I think you should live well, and live happily, and since no one loves you, love yourself, love yourself, love yourself, love yourself, I am the greatest in this world!

Try to come out of the shadows slowly You said that your character is difficult to work The main reason is that you give up on yourself, how can you not find a job if you have hands and feet As long as you are not picky, you will always find a job! I think it's best to find a psychiatrist to help you enlighten you! That's all I can help you!

I'm a year older than you, I'm 30! Remember to live well, because if you die, they're going to laugh at your death

How can there be such parents!! It's best to ignore ,,, don't commit suicide.

You can go to a good psychologist and let the doctor enlighten you. Seeing that you are very sad, I think you should encourage yourself to slowly regain your self-confidence, although the damage caused to you by your parents when you were young is a memory that is difficult to erase, but I think you must first open your mind, think about everything, and stop hating your parents, and slowly forget about these. Maybe you are also changing your environment and reinventing yourself in a new environment.

Happy friends.