Problems with children s growth and education, problems in children s growth?

Let's cultivate reading interest and ability first, 'Familiarize yourself with 300 Tang poems, and you won't be able to recite poems'.

If you don't like to read, then put him in a relatively closed environment, except for reading to relieve boredom, there is no other entertainment activities, and after a long time, he will naturally read more. Hehe, I've been treated like this. In the third grade, I watched the vertical version of the traditional Chinese characters of the Romance of the Fengshen (I only know the Chinese characters learned in the classroom, no additional self-study), when I graduated from primary school, Jin Yong's martial arts have all been seen, and others like vernacular chat, three heroes and five righteousness I don't know how much I have read, and I didn't get a low score in any of the essays later.

Of course, I have also read countless model essays, pictorials, and children's literature, and I personally feel that it is not only good for writing, but also good for life.

Another secret is "repetition", writing more and revising more will naturally improve.

The third secret is to teach your child to write a Bagu essay, first teach him the framework (time, place, who, what he did, cause, process, result, etc.), and then teach him to use adjectives (you can make a list of adjectives according to the framework and let the child pick and choose), and slowly improve his language ability. Every day on the way home, let him use frames and adjectives to tell a story that happened during the day.

In the end, any improvement means pain and dedication for adults and children, and it is important to persevere, and improve the level of writing if you want to be happy, I think it is difficult.

Each child is different, and you can use it according to your child's situation and your personal level of cruelty. Because the tricks are more damaged, I'm anonymous, hehe.

Teach children how to learn to be human beings while having fun education.

1. There is no close relationship between conduct and performance.

Some children often show the following symptoms: frequent countdown to exams, easy to get distracted by lectures, not handing in homework on time, skipping class and surfing the Internet, and participating in fights, ......Therefore, he has become a poor student in everyone's eyes. In fact, there is no close relationship between a person's conduct and grades.

There are many reasons for poor grades, it may be because of innate IQ and acquired learning methods, a child with poor grades can only say that he is not familiar with the ability to take exams, but this must not be linked to his conduct. A high score does not mean that the child is imbecile, and in the same way, a low score does not mean that the child is bad.

Any poor student has his own shining points, such as: uniting classmates, being helpful, respecting teachers, honoring parents, etc., or painting, singing, dancing or sports are very good. Children are good at socializing with different partners, so that they can exercise all aspects of ability.

Walk with people who are helpful, and you will also enjoy the joy of helping; Socialize with kind and simple people, and Chinai will also maintain an innocent and pure ...... to the worldWhen parents tell their children who they can associate with, it is the conduct that matters, not the grades. Scores only represent the quality of the grades, but not the level of conduct. If a person only has good academic performance, but is a low-quality person, such a person will fail!

Socializing with children with poor academic performance does not mean that it is a bad thing, from another point of view, children can contact different people, learn different things from different people, and learn from each other's strengths. At the same time, children can also learn how to interact with different people.

2. How can parents correctly guide their children to make friends?

Interactions between classmates may be affected by other children's bad habits. However, parents need to understand a truth: to let go appropriately and let children distinguish right from wrong by themselves, a sound personality also needs to be constantly trained.

We parents should be a good guide and teach our children social skills. It is inevitable that there will be various problems in children's interactions with friends, and they should be carefully observed and given guidance. At the same time, it is also necessary to teach children to be more kind to others, start from greetings, learn to appreciate and praise others, and try to express themselves tactfully when encountering problems, so as to enhance the goodwill of the other party.

Teach your child to pay more attention to the strengths of their classmates. Children who are not good at making friends often make negative comments about others, which is a way for children to seek psychological balance and release anxiety in their hearts. If a child has a particularly stubborn personality and always behaves in a calculating way when getting along with others, it is inevitable that there will be some conflicts in the process of interacting with other classmates, and he will not be liked by his classmates very much.

Children get along with their classmates at school, everyone has their own little problems, parents should tell their children to learn to tolerate and tolerate the shortcomings of others. Because, you may also have shortcomings that others hate, and being more tolerant is to give yourself more opportunities to get along with others. Also tell the child that even if he grows up in the future, there may be such people around him.

Patience means understanding, and it comes with tolerance. No two people are the same in the world, everyone and everyone is different, so learn to be tolerant.

The difference in educational concepts is the biggest generation gap between me and my parents. I'm sure mom and dad have had that experience now. Many times, when you are educating your children, it is very clear that your children are wrong, but the elderly in the family do not distinguish between right and wrong.

Say that your child's problem is caused by you. In any case, you can't beat and scold my little grandson. Has this kind of drama been playing out in your house all the time?

The child did not eat well and stared at the TV, so the father of the child educated the child, but the child not only did not listen, but also cried, so the father turned off the TV directly. The kid got worse. At this time, Daisen, grandma came over, turned on the TV directly, and said to his father:

Watch who dares to turn off my eldest grandson's TV! The child is happy, the TV continues to watch, and the food is not delicious!

Let's not say whether the father's behavior is correct or not, but there is nothing wrong with his idea of educating his children. When eating, you should eat well. You can't afford to be distracted by watching TV.

But grandma's approach will make the child feel that this is correct, and not only that, but it will also have a great impact on the father's prestige in front of the child!

In addition to the problem of eating, there are actually many similar situations.

Many times the difference in educational philosophy really makes young parents very helpless, for our own parents, we can't say too much to resist them, because they also take love as the starting point.

But this does have a big impact on a child's education.

As we all know, if a small sapling is not straight when it is a child, it will definitely bend when it grows up.

In fact, it is inevitable that grandparents will interfere in their children's education, since children in the city are usually brought by the elderly. We only spend two or three hours a day with our children, and the rest of the time is spent with the elderly. This accompaniment, which is often accompanied by education, subtly affects the child, so it is impossible for them not to intervene.

Therefore, we should learn some countermeasures not only to educate children, but also to live in harmony with the family. Why not?

In the growth and education of children, parents should pay attention to the following aspects:

1.Establish good communication and interaction with your child. Parents need to give their children enough attention and love, listen to their children's thoughts and feelings, and make them feel valued and supported.

Parents can also let their children learn to express their ideas and discover and solve problems through interaction and discussion with their children.

2.Cultivate good habits in your child. Some good habits in life, such as waking up early, going to bed early, self-hygiene, regular diet and exercise, etc., are all good habits that are conducive to children's physical and mental development.

Therefore, parents should teach by their own words and deeds, practice them first, and then guide their children to develop these habits.

3.Help your child develop the right values. Parents can teach their children to be grateful, respect and care for others through words and deeds, role models and guidance, and cultivate children's healthy outlook on life, worldview and values.

4.Learn how to educate your child. Learn to interact with your child, pay attention to your child's needs and personality, don't put too much pressure on your child, respect your child's personality, and cultivate your child's thinking ability and independence.

5.Pay attention to your child's hobbies and talents. Cultivating children's hobbies and talents is the best way to cultivate children, parents should pay attention to children's interests and specialties, and encourage children to continue to improve.

6.Plan activities for your child. According to the child's age, personality and needs, reasonably arrange the child's activity time, including learning, rest, entertainment, sports, etc., to ensure the child's physical and mental health development.

Raising a confident and optimistic child can be done in the following ways:

1.Good parent-child relationship: A good parent-child relationship is the cornerstone of cultivating children's self-confidence and optimism. Parents should spend more time communicating with their children and understanding their children's inner world as much as possible.

2.Positive social skills: Let children learn to socialize with others and enhance their social skills. Cultivate children's interpersonal skills, establish good interpersonal relationships, and expand children's life circles.

3.Improve your child's abilities: Your child needs to improve his or her abilities and gradually adapt and master new knowledge and skills. Create learning opportunities for your child appropriately, such as allowing them to participate in various training and interest classes.

4.Encourage children: Praise children for their kind behaviors and achievements in a timely manner, and encourage children to solve difficult problems actively and flexibly to strengthen their self-confidence.

5.Create a successful experience for children: Encourage children to try new things and experience the taste of success within the appropriate range, create opportunities for children to succeed, and enhance their confidence and courage.

6.Give your child adequate attention and support: Always pay attention to your child's emotional changes and needs

In the child's growth and education, parents should pay attention to the following issues:

1.Establish good communication and listening: Parents should establish good communication channels with their children, respect their opinions and feelings, and listen to their needs and concerns. Effective communication can help parents understand their child's developmental needs and build a close family relationship.

2.Provide positive motivation and support: Parents should encourage their children to set positive goals and strive for them, and give them support and affirmation. Through praise and encouragement, parents can boost their children's self-confidence and stimulate their potential and creativity.

3.Cultivate good values and morals: Parents should teach their children correct values and morals to help them distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil. Through exemplary behavior and moral education, parents can cultivate good moral character and social responsibility in their children.

4.Provide appropriate autonomy and responsibility: Parents should give their children appropriate autonomy and responsibility to participate in decision-making and problem-solving. In this way, children can develop independent thinking skills, problem-solving skills and a sense of responsibility.

5.Establish good study habits and values: Parents should value their children's learning and help them develop good study habits and values. Provide learning support and guidance to encourage them to develop self-directed learning skills and a spirit of continuous improvement.

6.Develop a healthy lifestyle: Parents should focus on their children's physical and mental health by providing a healthy diet, proper exercise, and adequate rest. Teach children the right attitude and maintain a balanced lifestyle.

7.Establish a good family atmosphere: Parents should create a harmonious and warm family atmosphere to give their children a sense of security and belonging. The family should be a haven for the child's development, an environment of support, understanding and love.

These questions cover all aspects of children's growth and education, and parents should continue to pay attention to and give appropriate guidance and support during their children's development. It is important that parents lead by example.

In today's society, the issue of children's education has become the most important issue for every family. Parents play a vital role in their children's education and play a decisive role in their children's development. What should I do if I encounter problems in the educational process?

Here are some things parents should pay attention to: Establish good communication channels: Parents need to establish good communication channels with their children, understand their children's thoughts, needs and confusions, and actively listen and respond.

Cultivate good behavior habits: Parents should pay attention to cultivating good behavior habits such as politeness, honesty, diligence, etc., as their children grow up. At the same time, children should also be taught what bad behavior habits are and how to avoid them.

Develop self-confidence and independence: Parents should encourage their children to try new things in their studies and lives, learn from failures, and develop self-confidence and independence. Cultivating the ability to split the relationship with the society:

Parents should help their children develop good social skills, let them know how to interact with others, how to communicate with others, and also teach children how to deal with bad social situations. Give appropriate attention and support: Parents should give appropriate attention and support to their children as they grow, such as encouraging them to participate in interest classes, helping them solve problems in their studies and life, etc.

Cultivate good values: Parents should let their children understand what is right and what is wrong, and help them establish correct values, such as respecting others, cherishing friendships, caring for the environment, etc. In conclusion, parents need to play an active role in their children's education to help them establish good behaviors and values, cultivate their self-confidence and independence, and give them good social skills, so that their children can grow up healthier, happier, and more successful.

I hope that the wishes of the son and the daughter will be realized!!