What should I do if I don t dare to confess to the person I like?

Depending on what the reason is, if you don't have self-confidence, then encourage yourself to do it, and out of shyness, then try to change yourself.

Fear of failure, you don't even have a chance to fail.

Someone once said that confession is the best way to love someone. But what if two people confess when they are not together? This is a thing that makes people both angry and helpless, and even feel helpless.

But in fact, many times we have problems, when you want to express but dare not express it, it is often because you did not give the other person a chance to express it.

1. When confessing to the other party, you should talk to the other person on an equal footing.

Each of us has a heart that loves vanity, but you also have to know that when you want to confess to the person you like, you can ignore his attitude first, you can first tell the other person that you love him very much, and then use your sincere, brave and respectful attitude to tell him that you love him very much. If you can do that, I'm sure you'll get a lot of guys to think about you. And when you do this, it means that you have a large proportion of the other person's heart.

So when you feel that you want to confess to someone after you fall in love, you should change your previous attitude towards the other person or your attitude towards the other person, so that he can believe that you have liked you.

Second, don't let the other party have too many concerns.

Many times, girls are afraid to confess and unwilling to confess mainly because they are girls. So you have to give the other person a chance to show your love for him, instead of making the other person worry about you, he doesn't love you. So before you confess, be sure to tell her how much you like her and don't know that much about her.

Third, it is necessary to use appropriate methods to resolve it.

If you like someone and don't say you don't like them, try to ask him to think about how he can express himself better. Don't express your feelings too intensely and directly, use appropriate ways to resolve the other person's emotions, and let him slowly accept your heart. If you choose to use some methods to resolve the other person's emotions, then you only need to keep a certain distance from the other person and give the other person a chance to express your heart.

Fourth, develop a crush on the person you like.

When the other party no longer resists confession, you should develop a good impression of the other person in time. Because when you are together, you often don't just like each other, but feel very close to each other. Then you can boldly confess.

And at this time, what you should do is not just confess, but you can further develop a good impression of the other party. In this way, it may only be more difficult to confess in the future.

Fifth, if it is rejected, it is good to do it and cherish this opportunity.

For example, it is normal for Hu Sleepy to dare not confess to the other party because he likes the other party. It means that you don't really like him. So, cherish this opportunity, this is the best way to love him.

Maybe you haven't said it until the last minute, but it's going to be a good opportunity.

In the face of the confession of the person we don't like, we can't force ourselves to accept it, although rejection is inevitably a hurt, but polite refusal may not make the relationship between the two parties stalemate. So how should you refuse to be confessed by someone you don't like? 1. Resolute attitude, bluntly refuse as the saying goes:

If you keep breaking off diplomatic relations, you will be confused by it. "When the other person expresses their love for you, if you don't like the other person, give the other person a clear attitude, don't complain, and give the other person a chance. You have to refuse directly, and don't contact him again after refusing, and don't ask him for help to avoid unnecessary trouble.

2. Leave enough dignity for the other party, and efficiently refuse the confessions of many people who dare not refuse others, always afraid of hurting their self-esteem and the weakest heart. Especially the sudden confession of a friend for many years, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do. At this time, when you reject this kind of confession from a friend, you have to know how to be tactful, just give him some hints, tell him what type you like and what you imagine your future to be.

Let him stand back. As friends, they will understand your rejection. This also saves the other party's face and dignity, and minimizes the degree of harm.

3. If the other party confesses to you in person, you are afraid that the face-to-face refusal will hurt the other party, and you don't know how to refuse appropriately. For now, you can find a reason to be impatient to respond immediately. You can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment of face-to-face rejection, but also help the other party slowly digest the information.

4. Before rejecting him, you can praise him, praise him, save him enough face, let him know that you cherish and care about your friendship, so you don't want to deceive him, this doesn't want to cause him any harm. Many people now know what a good hand means. Once you've dealt a good card, he knows that you've politely rejected him.

If there is someone else present at the time of confession, and you are not able to refuse directly, then you can choose to explain the reason to the other party in the form of letters or messages afterwards, and then reject him and apologize to the other party. At this time, it is best to use a sincere tone to make the other person feel your apology. For example:

I'm sorry, everyone was there just now, I didn't spoil the atmosphere, thank you for liking me, but I don't think we're a good fit, let's be friends if you want. ”

Many people just make a little bit of a confession to themselves in the face of people they don't like. There are some people who will not firmly reject each other, but will be ambiguous with each other, give each other fantasies, and hang each other. This is not right.

When confessing to yourself in the face of someone you don't like, you must firmly reject the other person. Be clear about your attitude and don't be ambiguous with the other person. Otherwise, the other person will mistakenly think that you are interested in him, and in this case, the last two will be hurt.

The so-called firm rejection of the other party does not mean that it is too direct and rude, you must learn to refuse tactfully, pay attention to the tone and attitude. If the tone is too direct and rude, it is easy to hurt the other person's self-esteem.

When love first blossoms, love sprouts, both boys and girls will meet someone they like, or don't like, which is human nature.

In the face of the person you like, you will boldly express your love to each other, but in the face of the person you don't like, but you don't know how to refuse?

If you talk too much, you are afraid that the other party will misunderstand, and if you say it ruthlessly, you are afraid of hurting the other party's heart, and you feel unbearable, and you are repeatedly entangled in your own emotions and cannot extricate yourself.

So, how to refuse to confess when you meet someone you don't like? Keep these 3 principles in mind.

1. Resolute attitude and outspoken refusal.

As the saying goes, "when the interruption continues, it is chaotic", when a person expresses his affection to you, if you don't like the other party, you should give the other party a clear attitude, don't grind to create the other party has a chance.

You should refuse directly, never contact him again after refusing, and do not ask him for help again to avoid causing unnecessary trouble.

2. Leave enough dignity for the other party and refuse efficiently.

Many people dare not refuse in the face of other people's confessions, always afraid of hurting the other party's self-esteem and weakest heart. Especially when a good friend for many years suddenly confessed, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do?

At this time, when rejecting this type of friend's confession, you should know how to be tactful, give him some hints, tell him what type you like, and the future you imagine.

Let him retreat, and they, as friends, will understand your rejection.

This also preserves the face and dignity of the other party, and minimizes the degree of harm.

3. Find the right time and refuse quickly.

In a relationship, no person of the opposite sex will be nice to you for no reason, as long as the good is beyond the normal range of friends of the opposite sex, you should notice that something is wrong.

At this time, you have to see the right time, before he speaks, say the words of refusal indirectly, and block the mouth that he is about to speak.

Saying it this way will avoid embarrassment for both parties and leave enough room for the rest of the relationship.

In short, reject some people to do, be resolute, do not hurt the other party's self-esteem, find the right time, and refuse quickly.