I broke up with my girlfriend and I m confused about what to do for the future and try to break 20

Friend, I'm just like you, although things aren't as tangled up as you are. We have been dating for 3 years. It was exactly 3 years and 10 days, and there was no sign before the breakup.

I hit ** for a week, she plays outside every day, as long as I call, she says she's busy. She said that she watched the civil servant's things every day and told me not to bother him, while she was outside every day.

I finally asked her what was going on. She said to break up, and I didn't force it. I could see that she didn't love me anymore, and I really just thought it was time.

Later, I found out that she had gotten along with someone else and took my band members away, and I was really angry. I didn't settle accounts with her, and he did this to me. I'm empty.

Not every girl will change her mind, as long as it's not her first love. She's willing to hide it just because she thinks you're good to him, and she's not sure she can handle it!

Never mind. Don't try to redeem it, really. It's just embarrassment in exchange, and there's no love, even if she really comes back, what can she do? ? Girlfriends like others, we have to live a life to show them, let them regret it, and be annoyed for the rest of their lives!!

Talk to your family, go out and relax your mood, and it's okay to not listen to **. Hanging out is the best.

Admit your mistakes. Don't be embarrassed. It's not a shame.

Instead, it proves that you love her. Men want to save face! But love is more important!

Although it is not easy to ask her for forgiveness. But you have to persevere! You can tell that you love her.

Summary. Because your feelings are hard to forget, you have been with her, and you love her very much, so after separation, your heart is empty, although it has been separated for a long time, but there is an emotion that has been lingering in your mind, and her shadow has not left you.

I had my own plans for the future, so I broke up with my girlfriend, and we've been separated for a long time, so why am I still worried that she will be uncomfortable.

Because your feelings are hard to forget, you have been with her, and you love her very much, so after separation, your heart is empty, although it has been separated for a long time, but there is an emotion that has been lingering in your mind, and her shadow has not left you.

I made the decision to say that I had been separating myself from her for almost two months, and she kept sending me messages and calling **, and I couldn't bear to hang up or not reply.

Why didn't I just ignore her completely?

People have feelings, you can't be so ruthless, because you still have her in your heart, and you can't bear to hurt her.

I'm also afraid that my decision to leave her is wrong.

I don't know why you want to leave him, if two people love each other very much and feel that they are very suitable for each other, then this fate still has to be grasped.

There is a kind of love called letting go, also called long pain not to short pain, (there is selfishness, I will be happier if I leave) people who love each other will be happy together, then, love don't hurt!!

If you just break up, the chance of recovery is not great, it is recommended to start acting after a week, and you can break off contact during the period. You said it yourself, you need a real way to solve the problem, then you go to !!

First of all, I want to tell you that if you are so aggressive, it's no wonder that your girlfriend doesn't break up with you.

What should a mature man be like in the face of a breakup?Accept it calmly, and you will not want to die or live, if you have the ambition not to marry her, it is very likely that you will be a bachelor for the rest of your life.

It's actually caused by your inner lack of self-confidence, you're afraid that you can't find a better one, and I know you might justify how much you love her, you can find a better one but you only love her. But you are still not confident in your heart, in fact, there are girls who are better than her, there are countless girls who can impress you, you now say that you only love her, and when you meet a girl who is more attractive to you, you will still be impressed.

If you can accept these breakups calmly and live your life well, your girlfriend still has a chance to redeem it, which is not to make you happy.

That's it, if you still don't understand anything, you can continue to ask me, I'm Yi Xing, who has been engaged in research on sexual attraction for many years, and I believe I can help you.

Still young, not sane enough.

Maybe that's one of the reasons for the breakup. This is a big disadvantage for men.

When you meet a girl who makes your heart flutter, it proves that your concern is wrong, and what you say now is like being angry, and then all you say is angry.

No, you can't give up food because of choking, after all, people have seven emotions and six desires, and second, parents expect.

Turn grief into strength, why can others give her a superior life, but you can't?People will have different living conditions after hard work, there is no pie in the world, and from another point of view, such a woman can only share the joys and sorrows, even if you continue to be together, do you want to have a "husband and wife are the same forest birds, and they fly separately when the disaster comes" in the future?But she's pretty straightforward and can tell you why.

Friend, you can see that you really love her. She left you, because she was not blessed. I hope you can turn your grief into motivation, work hard for your ideals, and work hard to earn money.

If you meet a girl you love again in the future, you will have the ability to take care of her and meet her requirements. Falling out of love is a compulsory lesson to be experienced on the road to growth in life. It's not terrible to fall out of love, it's terrible to lose your fighting spirit, and it's terrible to lose the direction of your life.

There is still a long way to go, and we all have to live well. I hope you can quickly come out of the shadows and cheer up!

Do something abundant and forget about her. Now society is very realistic, don't be stupid.

If she doesn't love you, you break up with her She won't pay attention to you if you're pursuing her Is a woman Hey, I don't understand it Since she gave up on you first, why should you chase her again If you forget about your weaknesses, delete everything about her.

The easiest. Find another one.