What it s like to be with someone who doesn t understand you

It's easy to have all sorts of contradictions. In terms of consumption, one side believes that making money is to spend money, and if you only make money and don't know how to spend money, then making money loses its meaning. On the other hand, they are opposed, insisting that if they can save, they will save, and as long as they make money, they must save it, and save as much as they earn.

It takes a lot of time and effort to run into each other. If you don't give in to each other, don't know how to seek common ground while reserving differences, and can't give each other full tolerance and understanding, then the relationship will not last long.

I was excited to find someone to share a wonderful clip I saw in the book, but the other party yawned and said, it's not early, go to bed early, and get up early to go to work tomorrow.

happily made a fitness card, checked in every day and sweated to practice the vest line, and was very busy, but the other party said that he had nothing to do and spent money blindly, and he didn't see how good his figure became after practicing for so long, and laughed at himself as if he was fat again.

You always ask me why I am so silent, I can only laugh, but I can't even say a word, some people have nothing to say, some people have nothing to say, some people have nothing to say.

Often quarrels or cold wars over some trivial things, then the relationship can easily fall apart because of this.

It's a kind of mutual torment, not being able to agree on a unified view on something. When you can't reach a consensus, you're bound to have disagreements and contradictions, even quarrels.

It is destined to be full of all kinds of problems and contradictions. If it is not resolved in a timely manner, or if there is a consensus on certain issues, then the relationship will be difficult.

That is, life is not good, the mood is not beautiful, and life is not interesting. It's still about finding like-minded people to be with.

Understand, I'm also in this situation now, I want to divide, the other party refuses to live or die, I really don't want to live like this again.

How lonely is it to live with someone who doesn't understand you? "Thirty only.

Didn't it say that life is just a matter of chicken and dogs together! But it is these bits and pieces that make us polish our personality and smooth out the edges and corners.

With someone who doesn't understand you, first of all, if you talk to him about something, the angle he considers is not the same thing as you, what you want to say is this side of the matter, but he always says the other side of the matter, and in the end the two have nothing to say, each thinking about their own.

Secondly, life habits, I told him countless times that the things that have been used up should be put back to the original flavor, he just doesn't have this string in his head, he never remembers, and when he sees such a thing in the end, he doesn't bother to say it, but he grits his teeth with hatred in his heart, and his body is angry!

In the end, it fundamentally belongs to the two people's outlook on life.

Different from values, a person's values determine the angle from which he looks at things, and the perspective of looking at problems determines all the behaviors and habits of a person in life and life, so it is difficult to correct!

In the end, it can only lead to the lives of two people living on two small islands, and seeing each other is too much, and it is annoying to say more. In the eyes of others, you are a stable young couple, full of flowers, but in fact, you have long become lonely and lonely inside. Only you know!

The mist cleared, the wind swept far across the snowy blue sky, and the rain fell quietly in the cold of the thin dew.

As the saying goes, meeting the right person in the right place, a smile, a word, a greeting, you can read each other's strength and the fragility behind the smile without worrying about it. When you are upset, listen to you slowly, laugh with you when you are happy, silently stay by your side when you need help, and replace all the sweet words with all actions and tacit understanding, this is the person who really understands you.

And Naizhi meets the wrong person in the wrong place, calculates with you, duplicity, shares the scenery with you, leaves you when it is difficult, and even falls into the well, sprinkling salt on your wounds, such people do not need to cherish and understand, because the next intersection will part ways.

Life in the world, long is hundreds of years, short is dozens of years, everyone has everyone's way of life, have their own way of life, you have your way to go, I have my scenery to enjoy, many times everyone with a smile mask with the ups and downs of human feelings, in the world in simple terms, if there is no disguise, no wind and moon entanglement, there is no interest bridge and acres of power struggle, the interaction between people has become simple and real.

Life was originally a practice, and after the baptism of flashiness over the years, the heart was still as clear as water, not stained with dust, and did not lose the original true self.

For the rest of my life, I only like to be with people who get along with Shu Min and repent, understand each other, and cherish each other. Because I understand, I cherish it, and at the end of my life, I still smile and say to each other: "It's good to know you in this life"!

Hello friend: Love is caring rather than pampering, love is mutual blending and not unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

Embrace everything, embrace the stories of the past, tolerate the happy memories and sad feelings of the past.

Love is someone who shares it with you when you are unhappy or happy, someone who can always be by your side to share every day with you! It's to let each other give up, let each other hurt, let each other be happy, tears always fall inexplicably, love, even if they are together, they miss him every second. True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is having everything...

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless well....

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

Some people who love you may not understand you, but those who understand you must love you. Living with someone who understands you will be extremely happy and relaxed, and the two of you will quickly find the direction of your efforts. Someone who knows himself will also know how to love you.

The person who understands you is not that you don't say or do anything, and that you are born to understand you, but that you can open yourself up and let him understand.

When I fall in love with someone who understands me, my feelings are probably as follows:

You are happier than you are when you are happy.

Always be the first to support you.

You will not give up on you.

You look at something and he knows you want it.

You've been busy all day and offer to lend you your shoulder.

When you are sad and have low self-esteem, when you are disappointed, you hold you and say how good you are.

After you are bullied and beaten, you are like a child who shouts for "revenge" and takes you to relieve stress.

You don't have to bear the pressure of life, you can be happy to be yourself.

When your stomach hurts, someone forces you to drink brown sugar water, soak your feet, and rub your belly.

When you are tired of walking, someone squats down and carries you on your back, but they don't care if they are tired or not.

When I went out on a trip, I carried all my belongings and luggage on my back, and my clothes were soaked.

In short, understanding you is not particularly understanding that you don't do anything, but maybe not all of them understand you, but having the patience to discover your heart, do what he can give you for you, and think how happy it is to meet you. I can also do the above things for him, in fact, understanding is a mutual thing, before understanding there may be all kinds of painful running-in, there may be mutual torture, there may be self-defeating. In fact, understanding is based on a sufficient concentration of love.

If this person doesn't understand you and doesn't understand you, you can't communicate with him. No matter how much you give, he won't understand your hard work. Not to mention that he will support your cause. That's why I want to know and love each other. Knowing each other is the foundation.

In life, you must be with someone who understands you, and the person who understands you is the right person, isn't it all like this, because he understands you, he knows what you are thinking so that he can talk to you about it, and many times everyone actually knows. When you are alive, you will encounter all kinds of problems, so if you want to meet a suitable partner, you don't want to pursue him unilaterally, you also need him to understand you, otherwise it will be difficult for the two of you to be together. Seriously, it won't be too long to be together, that's it, so I'm telling you that you must understand your people.

Only by finding someone who understands you can you be together, then the life of the two of you can become long, and the relationship between the two of you can become better.

In this life, there will always be a need for someone who understands that you love you, and then when you meet this kind of person, you shouldn't let go and keep him by your side, love is like this, he has a process of loving and being lovedBut if you find someone who loves you, and you are in love with him, you will feel that when you are with him, it is the happiest thing in the world, because he will basically arrange everything for you, think thoughtfully, and do it comprehensively, you will feel happy and relaxed.

When you need to take care of you, he can always think of you for the first time and do something for you, which should be the kind of feeling that many couples envy, in order to let you not suffer and not be tired, all the work is done by him, never let you get close to half a step, always squat down with your head up and talk to you gently,When you are angry, you will always try all kinds of ways to coax you, take you to eat all kinds of delicious food, to play those fun things, the source of all this is because he loves you, and you have found someone who loves you.

This may be the feeling of finding a man who loves you, always happy, always happy, both relaxed and comfortable, because you are the happiest girl in the world, every time you have a holiday, he will prepare a surprise for you, every time you have a birthday, you will always come all the way from afar to your side, accompany you, so that the person who loves you, who looks at it is not blushing, who is not impressed, at this time you will have a sense of superiority, feeling beyond all girls, this is because he loves you.

It is how many blessings you have cultivated in your previous life in exchange for such a boyfriend who loves you, he is like an angel around you, so that you are not hurt, not beaten by wind and rain, and will not let you feel a trace of fatigueBecause you are the pearl in his hand, he will definitely take care of you more brightly, so that you can be the happiest woman in the world, as a woman, you meet a man who loves you, you should keep him well, and then live happily with him.

The mood of the two people is very happy, as if they have a very tacit understanding and a good heart.

I always feel that life is very comfortable, and it is always very comfortable to talk and do things, which makes people feel comfortable.

In my opinion, if you are with someone who understands you, you will be very happy and comfortable in whatever you do.

It's a very good experience to be with someone who understands, and life will be very beautiful.

I feel that this time is good, every day is happy, and the mood is very good.