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How much can you pay to collect money?
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Desire decides.
Mentality. As I write this, it's as if I'm stuck in a labyrinth of paradoxes.
It is often said that mindset is everything.
I've always thought so. After all, no matter how big or small you do, it depends on your mentality.
Everyone has their own principles and their own unique views and understandings of things.
Mindset determines what you can do and how much you can do.
The mindset really makes the difference, and there is no doubt about it.
The appearance of the word desire made me have a false alarm for a long time!
What surprised me even more was the emergence of the phrase that desire determines mentality.
The key to what kind of person a person can develop into is how ambitious he is.
It's a phrase I've always kept in mind because I think it's well said.
Man cannot live without desire. Otherwise, he would be no different from a dead man.
However, people who have too broad desires often can't find a destination to stay at and are easy to get lost.
Desires restrain you in this way, and everyone should and must have reasonable desires.
What conceptual ambition is realistic? What kind of desires are pursued in life?
Is it true that desire determines the state of mind? Can the mindset really get rid of the drive of desire?
It was unbelievable, I felt like I had walked into a labyrinth of paradoxes.
But the moment I walked into the labyrinth, was I also coming out of the labyrinth?
Mentality determines everything, desire determines mentality, and perhaps it is not contradictory.
Mentality and desire, two brothers side by side, advance and retreat together, life and death together.
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The same cell, the same window, from which the optimistic see the blue sky and white clouds, while the pessimistic see the high walls and iron nets.
Half a year later, the latter died in prison due to depression, while the former survived because of his positive attitude until he was rescued.
It's a small story, but it's a big story. It shows that our mindset is everything. A positive mindset that fills our lives with color and vitality; Pessimism, on the other hand, fills our lives with helplessness and hatred, and even makes us lose hope in life.
Edison failed a million times to invent a tiny light bulb. At that time, some people were puzzled, thinking that he was just wasting a lot of time and life on a very inconspicuous thing. But Edison said lightly
Isn't it a great fortune that I've proven more than a thousand ways to make a light bulb? Edison's optimistic attitude inspired him to contribute to mankind again and again, turning a new page in the history of mankind.
The famous performing artist Yingzi faced all kinds of scandals about her, not only did not get angry, but said humorously: "This can only show that everyone cares about me and misses me." She also won the Special Award for Outstanding Chinese Actor for this.
Facing the sea, the spring flowers are blooming Although Haizi is gone, his poems have always been a beautiful landscape on the poetry altar. In his time, the country was poor, life was down, the people were numb, but the world in his heart was so harmonious. From tomorrow onwards, be a happy person, feed the horses, chop wood, and travel the world.
can write such beautiful poems, he is worthy of being the founder of the Chinese poetry circle. But he left in a hurry, leaving a blank for future generations. He thinks the world is too incompetent to be nostalgic.
Yes, it was his pessimistic heart that killed him and made a great loss to the poetry world.
Adjust your mindset. Life is like a string of beads called troubles, failures, pains, etc., no matter how difficult it is, and counting it with a smile.
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It has something to do with personality. If you have something to rely on, you can stay calm, if you don't look down on it, you don't care, and if you are well-informed, you will disdain. As for being stepped on and hurting your feet, remember that no one can really eat anyone's mind, you are calm enough on the surface (this needs to be practiced), and the one with a weak heart will be the other party.
Think more, talk less. You know, it's a lot of mistakes.
Calm people generally don't talk much. Know how to chime in at the right time. And you have to be very smart, but in the process of communication, you are the master of the rhythm. People who are not calm are generally people who do not grasp the rhythm.
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Calm describes an attitude, calm and positive and decisive in the face of things, but in the experienced but attaches importance to the good, the victory is not arrogant, and the defeat is not discouraged. Calm describes a kind of courage, acting relaxed, calm, watching the flowers fall in front of the court, and gently shaking the head of the lupine city. Calmly describes a principle, showing that there is no impatience or impatience for people and things, tepid, friendly and moderate, and obedient and persistent.
Calmly describe a kind of demeanor, the autumn wind on the back of the eagle, quiet as a virgin; Vanity Fair is full of lights and wine. Calmly describe a kind of cultivation, benevolent and worry-free, benevolent and fearless, seeking truth from facts, open-minded, and arrogant. Calmly describe an ability, thoughtful can develop strengths and avoid weaknesses, introspection knows that there can be advances and retreats, and then make a move when it is time to make a move.
Calm describes a kind of power, calm and calm, such as a boulder blocking the waves; Perseverance, like a drop of water wears a stone. Calmly describe a kind of efficiency, steady and avoid chaos, insight and practice, such as Ding Ding playing a knife, such as Lu Ban making an axe. Calmly describe a realm, Lanxiu deep forest, not to no one and not fragrant; A gentleman is virtuous, and does not change his temper for embarrassment.
Calmly describe a kind of life, life is like a pair of sharp reading glasses, it is rare to be confused, it is rare to be sober.
Calmness is the life goal that many people strive for, but few people can be calm at all times, everywhere and everything in life. Calmness is a kind of accumulation, a kind of wisdom after experience, a kind of calmness after washing away the lead, a positive attitude towards life, and a sign of maturity.
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Take tribulation as a stepping stone: in life, there are beautiful winds and suns, rainy days, scorching suns, and cold winds. The eagle soars in the sky, and there is the pain of breaking its wings; The horse gallops across the earth, and there is a risk of stumbling and breaking bones.
Just like in a sales visit, the customers you meet today may be reasonable, but tomorrow may not always be smooth. A philosopher said it well: Tribulation is a stepping stone for the strong, but an abyss for the weak.
In the face of tribulation, do you choose to be the strong or the weak in life?
King Wen was detained and acted in "Zhou Yi"; Zhong Nieu's "Spring and Autumn"; Zuoqiu is blind and has "Chinese"; Sun Tzu's bare feet, the art of war is cultivated; If Wei moves to Shu, the biography "Lu Lan" ......The former sage, who is not the one who has endured hardships and strengthened his will, and finally made his limited life bloom with infinite brilliance. Although we are ordinary, each of us, even the humblest of people, has the dream of pursuing happiness. Facing hardships bravely and openly, it is not difficult for you to find that there are often losses and gains; When Heaven closes a door, it will open a window for you; It seems that good and bad are like a rotating compass, alternating and reciprocating, and fate is connected; Overcome the tribulation, and you will have the happiness you have dreamed of for a long time.
Tribulation is a litmus test. You have to make a choice between being angry or plain and sincere. As long as you jump out of the circle, look at the tribulations of life plainly, empathize, put yourself in the shoes of others, what else can not be put down; As long as you treat others sincerely and face life patiently and seriously, there is nothing that can not be turned over.
Let go and turn over, and the ordeal at this time is just a stepping stone to achieve you.
The ordeal is a textbook. In the face of it, you must grasp self-esteem, when life is at a low ebb, even if you are frustrated and alone, you will not lose your personality, and in confusion and grief, even if you lose your glory and wealth, you will not turn your back on the established coordinates.
Tribulation is a rare asset. He once said, "You can't choose your origin, but you can choose your path."
In the process of growing up, a person has gone through some ups and downs, seen some of the world, endured some hardships, and suffered a little tired, which is a good thing, and it is a very normal thing, just like a child learning to walk, to get rid of the support of adults, how can there be no stumble? Only if you learn to wrestle, you will learn to walk, you will learn to run. In life, when things don't go well, in the process of communication between you and life, you will continue to exercise your peaceful mind; It has achieved your indifferent way of doing things, and these abilities are the foundation of your future existence in the world.
In this way, it is also a blessing for you to encounter such tribulations, and the tribulations at this time become your precious wealth on the road to success.
When you are careful and meticulous with others, you will find that they can be so cute. When your voice is hoarse, he will ask you if you are unwell. When you speak in a light tone, he will smile; Bit by bit, ......Maybe that's a kind of happiness.
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