People who don t love themselves should still pay for her?

If it is true love, it will not care about the distance between time and space.

When the heart is together, love will be together.

You can keep each other warm!

The fate depends on the heavens, and the share depends on oneself.

If you manage your love with your heart, you will definitely get what you want.

Affection is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, and you shouldn't care about how much the other party can give you, because you have nothing in the first place.

There are no two people in the world who are born together, God is fair to everyone, never attached to any love, only with tolerance, understanding, trust to work together to build true love. There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of people with hearts...

Take it easy, keep an optimistic attitude, no matter how much you think, you still have to face it, and you don't have to add extra burdens to yourself... Believe in yourself and you can do it ...

Life that's too easy isn't much fun, right?

Now that I'm sure I don't love myself.

Why make unnecessary sacrifices.

Be kind to yourself.

It's not your fault that you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, but a sadness... In fact, falling in love with someone does not prove the outcome, it can only say that you feel the feeling. Love is an emotion that you can feel, and having love is not the same as having marriage.

So although you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, you have tried the taste of love, and it is your happiness to have love, and now, the only way is to bury it deep in your heart, not to discard it, but to put it in the safest and most mysterious place that no one knows...

I know I can't, but I want to like it, many people are like this! However, many times it often hurts itself. After a long time, you will find that you feel ridiculous, a little silly, and even childish!

So sometimes we have to learn to give up, when we know that we can't, we should choose to give up, the long pain is better than the short pain, give up and give yourself a glass of cold water, extinguish the fire in your heart, run wild in the rain, sing and chant wildly.

It's all right! In order to be able to get happiness in the future, the so-called strong twisted melon is not sweet, don't ignore the whole garden because of the withering of a flower, open your hands, you will get more beauty! Well, that's all that comes to say, people sometimes need to calm down and think with their hearts, only people who know how to give up will be happy people...

When many people want to have love, they always have the idea that I will prove my love for him with my actions, and as long as I give, I will definitely reap the rewards. But in fact, you have given so much, but the other party has not been moved at all.

Psychologists tell you, why do you blindly give, but you can't get "love"?

1.Get used to what you give.

You think that as long as you pay, he will be moved, but you are very wrong, human nature is not as noble as imagined, and people's psychology is like this: what you get easily is not cherished, and what you can't get is wanted. Your unilateral giving, in the end, will only become something worthless in his heart, because it is too easy to get.

It's a pity that many people don't understand, thinking that there will be a return for their efforts, and in the end they can only be silently injured.

2.Interpersonal differences.

For most people, it is simply impossible to understand how different the psychology of people is. If the other party is a more introverted and sensitive person, your giving, your being too close, will make him uncomfortable. He may like an independent and free environment, so every time you give, it will increase his disgust.

3.Pay and speak.

In society, what will be done is not as good as what can be said. It's the same in love. You feel like you're giving a lot, but in fact, he or she may not feel it at all.

For example, if you have a crush on someone, you buy breakfast for her every day, and secretly put it on his table, but she doesn't see it at all, or thinks it was given by someone else. What no one knows is equal to nothing. So while you do a lot, it's useless at all.

In a relationship, what should be said must be said.

4.Your mentality is broken.

Once you use the heavy words of sacrifice and giving, it means that the relationship is already unbalanced. You can't help but want the other person to respond and make amends, and you can't help but want to kidnap the other person with a sense of guilt.

The consequences of a collapse of the mentality are very serious, you will become extreme, jealous, pessimistic, and all kinds of bad psychology will appear in you in turn, making you become hoarse and exhausted, and eventually be disgusted by everyone.

Conclusion: Love is not exchanged for sacrifice, the best psychology should be: we give to each other, do not force, until one day we no longer love each other deeply, then let us be separated and happy.

It's not a matter of you alone The nature of this humanity of a person or an object that you don't cherish when you have it (like him, because he knows you're dead to him), but when you don't get it (like you) it's like a priceless treasure.

In this state, you should change your thinking.

Relax your mind and look around you to see if there are people like you who want you to pursue him.

Look at yourself Is there really no one more suitable than him? Are you pursuing him for himself or for the process of pursuing him? Do you feel better after you catch it?

The greatness of love comes from the spirit of sacrifice.

However, love is never a one-person thing, but the details of two people working together to establish love.

A relationship, if it is just one person's unilateral effort, not only will both parties not be happy, but it will make people tired.

Not a long-term solution!

I also hope that you will think twice, no longer do useless work, waste your youth, because a girl's youth is short-lived, and youth cannot be recalled.

This can only be said to be fateful, you are not the type he likes, this can't be forced And you pay for him, it is the power of love, everyone wants the person they like to be happy, and they also hope that they can do something for the person they like You desperately don't let him know, because you know that he doesn't like you, some resistance, and it may have something to do with your character, in fact, a smart and sensitive person Even if you are covering up, he will find that you like him. Feelings are such things as playing tricks on people, wanting to possess them, which is selfishness; If you don't fight for possession, you are not reconciled.

You don't have to have someone to love, just like me, I love my cousin, and I don't dare to tell her, will there be results between us? But I will be happy when I see her happy, even if she finds a boyfriend, I can only bless her, I am also silently paying for her, as long as I can help her, I am very happy. Maybe you haven't put it down yet.

It's because you know that he doesn't love you, so you don't dare to express the love you love him in your heart, you are afraid of rejection, and sometimes you can't even be a friend when you love to say it!

Why are there so many people in the world who are connected to the same disease? I'm a little afraid to love now. Girl, I always think that my dedication will be exchanged for sincerity, but we work hard for others, but why is he not like this?

If he cherishes you, he will come back and believe in me, live for himself for a while, do what he loves, take a friend to a new restaurant, or buy a dress he likes...Let him know that you're doing well without him, and I'm sure he'll start appreciating you, and so do I am. Come on, we have to be a proud person, we can't be low to the dust, we can't choose humble love, I believe that love will come back!

One is someone you love very much, but he can't give you happiness, and one is someone who loves you very much, and someone who should be able to give you happiness. Who will you choose?

Both are crippled and can't get happiness from each other, what should I do?

Someone must take the initiative to act, since you can't ask the person you love to give you happiness, then accept the person who can give you happiness and love you, love each other in acquaintance and acquaintance, and then forget the old person who can't give you happiness.

Be with the person you love very much, try to love each other with your heart, you make this step, and both of you get happiness, this is love, this is the result of pursuit.

What exactly is love pursuing? After all, they get each other's love. Sometimes people really have to think about life in a long and complete way. For example, the following story:

The family in the countryside lives happily together, and the middle-aged man likes to go out fishing every day, during which he meets a businessman, and the businessman says: What is the fun of you? Why don't you go with me to the city to do business and make a lot of money. The man asked: And then?

Say: Earn enough money and then buy a house in the countryside, live a leisurely life every day, look at the sunshine, come to the lake to fish, that is life...

The middle-aged man asked: Isn't this how I live now? Why go around in such a big circle and pay the price to pursue a happy life that is within reach? ··

Roughly speaking, hehe, I can't remember clearly, I'm sorry.

I want to because I love him.

I am willing to give everything I have for him.