Will I be happy if I marry someone I don t love, but he loves me very much?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-10
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation.

    Seed. Luck for lovers.

    Fu strives to build.

    One. A piece of the sky, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a kind of dependence and kindness to each other. Journey. A.

    Heart. Move (think. Read.

    Time. Heartbeat (phase. See time).

    The feeling of heartache (when parting and hurting).

    Love someone, to.

    Understand and explain, apologize and thank, and admit mistakes.

    It also needs to be changed. Wrong, to be considerate and considerate, to accept rather than endure, is to be tolerant.

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find.

    If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    the world. on, each.

    Everyone has one. Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

    If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

    Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

    The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no right or wrong to love someone, only whether you want to or not. Love can be individual or mutual. Love alone is unrequited love; And mutual love is love.

    Love does not distinguish between right and wrong, as long as you like someone in your heart, love someone, whether the other party loves you or not, and whether the other party can be with you or not, it no longer matters. Love without regrets, love sincerely, and love frankly. Perhaps, after many years, you will find that the best of what was once has quietly settled a nest around you.

    Love has always been with you, from the moment you have love, until eternity.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love can be produced in a second, but love takes a lifetime to complete. Love: to understand, but also to unravel; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate, accept, not endure, be tolerant, not conniving; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence rather than a question; It is to pour, not to accuse, to be memorable rather than to forget; It's about communicating with each other, not about everything:

    It is to pray silently for each other, not to ask for many from each other, it can be romantic, but don't waste it; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually If you do it all, even if you don't love someone anymore, you will only miss it, not hold grudges.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

    Even if you go on like this.

    Not to mention that there will be no good results.

    Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

    Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

    At the very least, you have to get the approval, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it.

    It just takes a while to forget.

    To let go. If you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well?

    Yes, every truth is difficult to do.

    Maybe it's easier said than done.

    But all I can say is.

    If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

    Maybe I was like you in the past.

    Time really can change everything.

    Learn to be strong.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What you thought you couldn't lose is not something you can't lose.

    You shed dry tears, you have another person to make you laugh, you are heartbroken, and then you find that the person who doesn't love you is not worth your sadness at all, looking back today, isn't it a comedy?

    When the love is over, there is a new realm, and all the sorrow is just history.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Marriage is not based on love alone, but also needs to take into account the compatibility of both parties' personalities, values, living habits and other aspects. Therefore, marrying someone you don't love doesn't guarantee that you will be happy. If you and the person you don't love can match well in terms of personality, values, etc., your married life may be more harmonious.

    But if there are great differences and conflicts between you, your marriage can be very unhappy. In addition, if you have not let go of the love in your heart, marrying someone you don't love may bring a lot of psychological burden and pain. You may feel empty, lost, or unsatisfied, which can affect your personal growth and marital life.

    Therefore, you need to think carefully about your emotional needs and marital expectations, assess how well you are compatible with two people, and whether you can accept and tolerate the fact of giving up on the person you love so much. The final decision needs to be made by yourself, but you must think about it in a calm and rational state and don't get carried away by your feelings.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Marrying someone you don't like, you can pretend to be a good wife at the beginning of the rent, because at first you still feel that the relationship can be cultivated, but gradually all kinds of trivial things in life and all kinds of shortcomings that he doesn't like will be exposed. Later, it is easy to become very uneasy to drive a few bridges, and you will always be upset, and even feel disgusting after physical contact!

    Most of them were miserable.

    can't give the other party a sense of security, and can't deceive their own hearts. Marry someone you don't love, there is no way to give all your feelings to your partner, if you like it, you have reservations, if you are grateful, you choose to sacrifice, all of it is just to cover up your inner unhappiness.

    If you don't make friends, you can't get the trust of your partner, just to fulfill your marital responsibilities, and if you don't pour your feelings, you will only make your partner in the clouds and not on the ground, without the peace of mind, let alone the peace of mind of being loved.

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